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My girlfriend dresses up when she goes out but not when she's with me..
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Fucker

Fucker

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Join Date: 11/08/2011 | Posts: 204

I told her i expect from her she takes good care of herself and put nice clothes on when she comes to me cuz that's a sign that's she's still doing her best for me !
She get's mad cuz she doesn't dress up when she comes over to me cuz "i accept her" and "i should accept her the way she is"...

I do accept her the way she is but i always want her to keep doing her best for me, looking good for me etc..

What's your outlook on this ?
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testo123

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Join Date: 07/24/2012 | Posts: 868

this isn't right, she takes you for granted.

start flirting with other girls, see what happens. she needs to feel that you could cheat on her if you wanted to.
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Willtiggety

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Join Date: 11/12/2012 | Posts: 6

I would just blatantly ask her to dress better and see what happens. I'm also not you.
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freshstaus

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 She obviously doesn't see any threat from you, as in that you can find other girls if you leave her. She thinks she doesnt have to try her best because she thinks she is the only girl you will get.

Prove her wrong, and start flirting with other women.
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Join Date: 01/05/2013 | Posts: 295

I understand^^

When i don't like what she is wearing, i just say it. It's not conscious. I'm not like "She gotta be better dressed when she is with me or my little ego gets mad".

It just turns me on more when i like what she is wearing.

I wouldn't be like "You gotta be better dressed when you're with me". What would she answers ? Exactly what she told you.
On the other hand, she probably takes you for granted as well^^

So... Get back in the game :)
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cmoney

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Join Date: 10/27/2012 | Posts: 428

She likes attention from other guys. Be more assertive and let her know this is not going to fly.
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Redrum123

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Join Date: 03/12/2013 | Posts: 8

I think a lot of what you guys are saying here is bullshit...

Have you ever possibly thought that she is comfortable around you?

I don't get dressed up EVERYTIME I see the same chick after I've hit it... I don't expect from her what I don't do myself...

Pick your battles.
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InZane

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Join Date: 01/11/2013 | Posts: 65

Half the reason girls dress up when they go out is to compete with other girls, there is no competition when you are alone. If this si really important to you make her think that there is ALWAYS competition for you. Put her on her toes a bit...
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Reminds of THIS song. GREAT song btw
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batmanwithahardon

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just copy her and stop shaving and showering, it will be funny
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Fucker

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Okay so you guys are telling me she thinks i'm not a threat and takes me for granted.
I think that's obviously not the case cuz she is a VERY insecure girl and she is extremely jealous. Even tho i don't hang around that much girls she always suspects that i'd done something with another girl..

I think maybe it's cuz she's comfortable around me cuz she tells me that !
Haha i dunno why i'm posting about this anyway, i think it will just pass and it isn't really a big deal.

It's just that i sometimes have a hard time learning my girlfriend things about life and relationships (also cuz i'm alot older and have alot more knowledge then her).
And also a thing i've noticed i find hard is when do you do something for your girl ?

I mean if she wants me to come over, if she wants to watch a movie she likes, that's kinda hard too.. But hey, all little problems aside i got a great relationship so i don't wanna be bitchin' bout it.

Always keep learning and growing ! <333
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