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October 19th, 2017
Brought back home a 9... couldn't get my dick up
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#11
whoareyou3

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ambiguity wrote:

whoareyou3 wrote:
Thoughts?
Pic of said 9. You know the drill. Pic or did not happen!

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Cheeky innit?

I think she's a 9, some guys don't like hispanic so it's just personal preference

http://oi48.tinypic.com/1o13tf.jpg

http://oi49.tinypic.com/16gfhvb.jpg
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PercLean

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Kindred wrote:
There's one of these threads at least once a week.


yourbrainonporn.com/

I just started noticing after mine
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#13
therebellion

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 you were in a conservative headspace doing something adventurous...

doesn't work.. 

slow down and take baby steps next time so your state has a chance to catch up with you.. 
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#14
Watts

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More info dude!

Do you normally fail to get your cock up in that situation?

I used to get that because of nerves (and sometimes too much vodka lol, it's like hardon-pesticide).

Look at it this way. That chick took the chance to go home with you and in her mind was all 'fuck yeah I'm gonna get cock'.

Then she didn't get cock.

She's probs disappointed and annoyed lol.

I don't know how to solve the situation but would rather fix it for FUTURE CHICKS, because there'll be heaps more.

That's just me though.

Does this happen a lot?
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whoareyou3

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Berty wrote:
More info dude!

Do you normally fail to get your cock up in that situation?

I used to get that because of nerves (and sometimes too much vodka lol, it's like hardon-pesticide).

Look at it this way. That chick took the chance to go home with you and in her mind was all 'fuck yeah I'm gonna get cock'.

Then she didn't get cock.

She's probs disappointed and annoyed lol.

I don't know how to solve the situation but would rather fix it for FUTURE CHICKS, because there'll be heaps more.

That's just me though.

Does this happen a lot?
Well it's normally hard to get it up just simply because of all the porn I watch (which I'm done with now). I usually just have them suck my dick to get it up... Works out well :) 

However, this girl DID NOT like sucking dick at all whatsoever. It was the worst blowjob ever because she was using her teeth, and you could tell it's not something she enjoys doing either (And yes, my dick is perfectly clean and trimmed lol). The blowjob started getting my dick a little hard and then she stopped all of a sudden. My dick was semi-hard, tried sticking it in.... FAIL.

She asked "What's wrong...? Is it me?" I said no and started pleasuring her and kissing her. Fell asleep cuddling together, THE END.

P.S. You can see the pics of her if you want in the above post...if anyone even cares
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CANM

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Tell her she needs to learn to suck dick better and her blowjob was so unenthusiastic and awful that it made you flacid. 

Because, that may very well be what happened.

Kind of reminds me of this Louis C.K. skit.

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Watts

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This happened to me EVERY SINGLE TIME until I basically learnt how to relax and not worry about it so much.

I couldn't even piss in public places because subconsciously I was so damned anxious about anything to do with sexuality.

I don't really know if it's porn or not.

If this is a continuing problem then you need to sort out your head or stop drinking.

If it's just a one off, maybe you were nervous or just in a shitty mood?
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scottsdale

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whoareyou3 wrote:

ambiguity wrote:

whoareyou3 wrote:
Thoughts?
Pic of said 9. You know the drill. Pic or did not happen!

null

Cheeky innit?

I think she's a 9, some guys don't like hispanic so it's just personal preference

http://oi48.tinypic.com/1o13tf.jpg

http://oi49.tinypic.com/16gfhvb.jpg


She is very hot!
The fact that she is hot put you more inside your head probably. It's very normal dude - don't be hard on yourself.
Good job on the pull none the less!
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#19

Tyme2k

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Happened to me before a couple times, usually on quick pulls or when alcohol is involved. I just wrote a post at girlschase.com for a guy about this. A few things I've done to ensure I get rock hard erections.

Excerpt from my post

Lately when I pull a new girl I wear a condom or atleast try to. Escalation either takes an extremely long time or too fast which are both killers for an erection. I usually cant perform if I've had more than 2 beers, known as "Whisky Dick." Which I'm pretty sure is a common problem if it has such a known name. The funny thing is if I've been sleeping with the same girl for a while like my fuck buddies, I can literally fuck them for hours, cum, and then fuck them some more in 30 minutes.(I had sex Friday through Monday morning this weekend, two of my FB's, only one slight erection problem which I overcame by relaxing and taking my time to get aroused) I remember the very first time I couldn't get hard.. It was new years eve, my very first SNL pull with a gorgeous Australlian chick in Vegas. Got back to her hotel and I couldn't get it hard to save my life, if my life depended on it I surely would have been killed that night. I have concluded it was due to Alcohol, Vicodin, huge amounts of pressure to perform, and lack of connection.

Here are some tips:
-Pomegranate Juice, 1 glass a day(search google for it's studied benefits)
-Workout, cadiovascular is the key. The days I run and lift I can go for 2 hours easily.
-No masterbating, three weeks ago I stopped this entirely and definitely have seen an improvement in random erections
-Practice turning yourself on throughout the day. Chase talks about viewing women as sex objects, you should be doing this on the regular. I like to practice when I'm out trying to bring on erections, this helps me practice CONTROLLING my arousel which eventually, I belive, is key to on the fly performance. I think most good PUA's eventually become aoroused extremely easily on almost an uncontrollable level, they see an attractive women and start acting like a harny dog that wants to hump their leg and literally cant help it.
-Take your time when escalating to give you more time to become fully aroused. I don't know about you, but when I hit a certain point of an erection it becomes SOLID. It's completely full, hard and almost painful as the skin and veins are tight and stretched to the max. I read an article recently that talked about performace pressure on men to escalate quickly go from nothing to rock hard in minutes and be forced to perform. It is difficult to do this especially when you haven't practiced, and it causes anxiety in a large amount of men. You should take your time and make sure you are completely turned on before putting on the condom.
-One thing I like to do is tease the girl and myself. Get my dick literally millimeters from the hole and hold it their while flexing it slowly like a PC muscle excersize, I'll say things in a powerful tone like "you want my dick inside you huh?" "I cant wait to feel you.." etc. After a few moments of this and kissing I can usually get a maintainable erection.

Good luck

PS.. She looks like a 9 to me, that is my type lol.
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#20

ImBringingSexyBack

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Accept it happened and move on, worrying about it will make matters worse. Game other girls.
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