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May 29th, 2017
What made me good at game. A 17 min video that helped me a lot
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mikevick07

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this is IMPORTANT because ALOT (most) spiritual inner game ppl fall into this trap....being "present" doesnt equal being a nice soft "connected" passive pushover...being "present" equals being a positive dominant, masculine, aggressive, and sexual presence while being unapologetic about it....tbh IMO being "present" makes you look more like a drug dealer/athlete more than anything, not eckhart tolle (good teacher though)

the more I do meditation, the more I come off like a scumbag asshole with no restraints or inhibitions where I can say/do all types of crazy, over the top, aggressive, and sexual shit and not go into my head about it like "how is this making me look? does she think I'm cool? how do I compare to the other dudes shes been with?", etc.......you become present by taking action, not by watching videos and meditating dude, the videos and meditating are to keep you from tripping the fuck out AFTER you take action and being mindfucked by REALITY a million times so you build indifference and feel comfortable in ambiguous situations
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chinaski

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 ^ yep, no one is above the process. 
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#43

ygbuhn

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mikevick07 wrote:
this is IMPORTANT because ALOT (most) spiritual inner game ppl fall into this trap....being "present" doesnt equal being a nice soft "connected" passive pushover...being "present" equals being a positive dominant, masculine, aggressive, and sexual presence while being unapologetic about it....tbh IMO being "present" makes you look more like a drug dealer/athlete more than anything, not eckhart tolle (good teacher though)
Being present is being yourself. You may be more dominant, masculine etc, while others may be more friendly, calm etc. And that's okay, some girls love the 'asshole' while others love the 'nice guy'.
the more I do meditation, the more I come off like a scumbag asshole with no restraints or inhibitions where I can say/do all types of crazy, over the top, aggressive, and sexual shit and not go into my head about it like "how is this making me look? does she think I'm cool? how do I compare to the other dudes shes been with?", etc.......
you become present by taking action
Maybe you get present by taking action, it's different for anybody
, not by watching videos and meditating dude
This is how I get present in day to day life, this is my magic pill; MEDITATION, exercise, eating healthy and doing what I feel like doing, aka going with flow of nature.
, the videos and meditating are to keep you from tripping the fuck out AFTER you take action and being mindfucked by REALITY a million times so you build indifference and feel comfortable in ambiguous situations
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ygbuhn

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chinaski wrote:
 ^ yep, no one is above the process. 
That would be right. But you can also say that everybody is above the process.
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CANM

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Kindred wrote:

CANM wrote:
 Watched the OP video, good stuff, but can't say he said anything that most of us haven't already read about from Eckhart Tolle.

Weren't you slating old Ecky a little while ago?

Not at all, or at least I didn't mean it to come off that way. I was slating myself via my failure to really implement what he is teaching. Still in the process of doing so.

ygbuhn wrote:
Thanks. That's just 1 video though.


The subjects of his videos all seem like stuf that I'm really interested in, I'll check out another one soon.
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Tyler wrote:

I'd say also remember that inner and outer game are two sides of the same coin, you need both!  Just cause your inner game is rock solid, doesn't mean you understand how to pull and fuck a girl from cold approach.  You gotta have both!
My issue.
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Seedro wrote:
yup yup... I learned this shit the hard way... Shrub with massive roots ftl...
mikevick07 wrote:
this type of stuff makes you good at life until you go out and speak to some crazy half-retarded chick with a million "orbiters"

crazy girl: fuck u u fuckin faggot, ewwwww, dont no girls want you (walks off with scumbag)

self-help dude: nooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!! (cries)

the game shit is where its at IMO and IME


Women like value and not every man offers it.

Using a train wreck to disregard value is absurd in the worst way possible.



Cheeky Beast Mode innit?
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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#49

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The content might be good, but the guy seems to me like just repeating what he read or heard or smoked or whatever, somewhere else
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