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December 3rd, 2016
Good reinitiation text? Did I screw this up - and if so how - and how can I salvage it?
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Bennn

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First off on the plus side - big ups to me for getting laid way mor frequently. I've put CRAZY work into this. Sex and sexual acts are getting more and more frequent. My results are compunding relatively quickly considering where I came from. Big ups Yo...

So I already had sex with this girl - really enjoyed fucking her - and would like to continue doing that. She was cool. Backstory - I met this girl at wallmart - She's with a guy. my opener was "Hey - this kinda sucks - but I have to do this. I'm doing a challenge for the month of march where I have to say "hi" to five pretty girls a day. Super congruent because that's what I'm doing.

Turns out the guy she's with used to be my neighbor. I don't get her number - but I get my old neighbor's number. He texts me later basically saying that he's going to give this girl my number. She gets my number and texts me first. She's hardcore investing by doing this - sweet.


We text a bit back and fourth. after a couple days we set a day to meet up.

Pick her up - drive around a bit (maybe like 20 -40 minutes. Bring her to my house - watch a movie and fuck with NO LMR. We literally fuck for the entire movie of Ted. Sex is pretty good. She tells me that she hasn't had sex in months and that she's happy that she got to have amazing sex after not having it for so long.

Cooool

Next day I text her a meme that says "Having sex with you is so good that we should celebrate it by having sex" (thanks JMULV) - she responds favorably...these are the texts sent after.


Me: Finally returned Ted at Walmart. Wasn't bad but I had more fun not watching it.
Her (an hour later): Oh so you finally got to watch it. haha. Maybe I'll catch it some other time. maybe.

Me (2 days later): What up fire spinner.
Me (Minute later): Let's chill Wed.
Me (Minute later): Different movie though. There's no way I'm watching Ted 3 times.
Her (2 hours later):Herro, sorry I haven't been near my phone. Im like super sick, and tomorrow prolly won't work out :| lemme kno the next time youre free, ill hopefully be better by then.
Me (10 minutes): K

Me (2 days later): (I send a pic of my dog whose name is gracie) Gracie wanted to holla at you.
Her (2 hours later): Tell her I saw bow wow.

Me (2 days later): Hey pumpkind butt. I'm doing an open mic tonight. Come wathc me play.
Her (2 hours later): Hello cupcake. wassup? I wish I could but I have plans tonight. Poop too bad, I wanted to hear you jam.

Me (Next day): Let's chill this week pumpkin butt.
Me (1 minute later): I wanna ravage you like a forest beast



It's been like 7 hours - no response -

I kinda sent the last text because I thought it was funny - and because... I want to fuck her like a Fucking forest beast

Still wanna fuck this girl - I like the fucking and I like the intimacy.

Thoughts of a good reinitiation text - or my next move.

(Already texting 25+ other girls - and trying making some dates.

It's just that I:

A) Don't want to throw away good if she's still into me
B) Want to show myself that I can sustain some sort of relationship (Even if it's a fuckbuddy)
C) Want to know what I did wrong (If there were any major pitfalls)


K thnx
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#1
Dr Feelgood

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Chill out, it has only been 7 hours! My guess is that she will answer.

If not, then maybe something unpredictable happened, like she met her ex or her aunt died or her dog ate her grandmother. I don't see any major fuck-ups in your text game.

I would wait a long-ass time before texting again, say, 1-2 weeks. At least 3 days for sure.
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Next time have a normal coversation before jumping straight to hanging out or whatever..  seems like you never respond back to her text either... No need to reinitiate btw just wait a week or longer and say "Hi there. Enjoy your day" or something but this time talk to her without wanting anything in return.  This will take the pressure off and give her a chance to ask you to hang out 
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Bennn

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Thanks Dr. Feel Good. That's what I needed. I made the right moves - now I just gotta trust myself. May post back when or if she doesn't text back in a couple days.
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 Seems that little comfort was built from the meetup to sex.  Like a previous poster mentioned, maybe a few more texts getting to know eachother may help a little bit.  Obviously not Chode since the lay has already happened.
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Bennn

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Still haven't gotten a response. Been hitting up other girls. Set up a date for Wed and THurse.


Just curious why a girl who likes me would take this long to a respond. Like as a test it makes no sense
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You sent her a text telling her you wanted to "ravage her". Funnily enough I did the same thing today (exact same - I said I was going to ravage her) to a girl I'd fucked previously and got a very negative response (realised before she even replied that it was a mistake). The reason is that you're basically telling her you're expecting sex and in her mind thats telling her you see her as an easy lay. I managed to pull this girl back with a few more texts but it could have easily gone the other way.
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Bennn

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I said
"ravage you like a forest beast"...........


come one that shit's gold
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More like that shit's as gold as my shit - it's not gold.

If you're going for fuck buddies or whatever your case may be, girls like knowing that you've established some emotional foundation for them. It goes back to what Gantz said. Girls WANT to be used - there's just an atmosphere that needs to be established beforehand whether it be in the environment or (more indirectly) in yourself.
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Bennn

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that sounds logical.

alright - well its been like 3 days - I'm up for ideas for a good reinitiation text.

This chick was cool - I liked her. I'd like to get better at keeping girls longer in SOME kind of non-monogomous relationship



I'm out to beast it AGAIN. And have some dates for ther rest of the week. No "Get more girls" response nessicary.
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Think you went to overboard on the sexual comment....even after you have sex a few times you want to keep it chill unless you really get a feeling that she is ok with it. Last girl I dated it was months before the texts were strait up saying I wanted to fuck her and sending dirty msgs and stuff. You have to feel the girl out some girls are cool with it right away and some are not.
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