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Excellent post.
"but its the getting into that makes it work not that actions" - when refering to momentum, what do you mean by this?
i mean you have to be engaged by the process rather than doing them to get an outcome.....its falling into presence through action not doing some mechanical thing that magically transports you into the zone
This makes sense pringles. Being engaged by the process makes you that much greater at game because it shifts your attention and mental energy away from the reactions and entirely onto your expression, thus building that muscle and that purpose all the more effeciently. Your greatness is determined by how little you are willing to give a crap and focus on building that muscle for the greater purpose of succeeding and building state with micro and macro-momentum. I especially like how you talk about how your internal state manifests in a good resonant voice when done by irreverant expression.
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I can relate in the sense that ever since Ive became more passive in regards to accepting whatever happens and just trying to make the most of any given situation, I have became alot more consistent in various situations that might otherwise shake me, and even gotten slightely bolder in situations that would otherwise stifle me.
but i don't think this alone is the "missing piece" thats going to "fix all my game problems", just grease the gears enough to make the whole experience much more pleasant.
but i don't think this alone is the "missing piece" thats going to "fix all my game problems", just grease the gears enough to make the whole experience much more pleasant.
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Show Up, Fuck Shit Up & Leave.. The real method.
Show Up, Fuck Shit Up & Leave.. The real method.
I can relate in the sense that ever since Ive became more passive in regards to accepting whatever happens and just trying to make the most of any given situation, I have became alot more consistent in various situations that might otherwise shake me, and even gotten slightely bolder in situations that would otherwise stifle me.
but i don't think this alone is the "missing piece" thats going to "fix all my game problems", just grease the gears enough to make the whole experience much more pleasant.
no one said it would fix your game problems im saying its the missing piece to get you laid more consistently, provided you are actually going out and going for it.but i don't think this alone is the "missing piece" thats going to "fix all my game problems", just grease the gears enough to make the whole experience much more pleasant.
what you've written about being more passive is a missunderstanding im talking about being indifferent which allows you to actually focus.
How to get girls comes down to
in tyler terminology: intent, freedom of outcome, momentum
in Alex terminology: talk test touch (unapologetically), there's no reason why you are not enough. relaxed arousal
Main point of this article is the freedom of outcome/there is no reason why you are not enough side of it....which is basically being emotionally independant from your environment; which is needed so you can clearly think, act, understand others and express yourself.
Here's how you should think about it....rsd teaches you attractive qualities...you do them you get a result......you do them to get a result then you corrupt the attractive qualties and you get no results....so you have to do them just to do them which leads to you getting results. Logically it makes no sense, why shouldn't you have an end in mind (i want her attracted to me surely i should do these things to get her attracted to me) but emotinally it makes perfect sense, as emotionally the corrupted version of these qualities are make them fully manipulative and repulsive.
I know people are thinking what about when julien says you have to do it to get the girl......that is on a more macro-scale.....thats when it comes down to logistics.....for the simpler parts of a pick up, actually gettign the girl to like and want you, you have to allow the girl to come to that conclusion on her own and not force it on her.
thanks, easier said than done though
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thanks, easier said than done though
no its not that hard....just takes a little bit of time to settle intowatch these from the view of pushing your comfort zone socially in order to gain indifference
the tools are there to get good at this stop making excuses....or you could just die alone
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