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#11

alerj123

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Join Date: 11/29/2012 | Posts: 50

Yea just to be clear, I'm not saying you should stay with her (if your in an exclusive relationship and she's  cheating and lying, then leave) but contriving some bitchy plan to get revenge is just pathetic.  The other side of your "good" feeling is that if she turned around and said she loved being fucked by all those other guys you'd probably cry.  
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#12

Meso

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Join Date: 01/02/2013 | Posts: 81

Questening? tests?
what a waste of time
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#13
Sunny667

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Join Date: 11/17/2010 | Posts: 1068

you all should know that every question is already answered in the gospels:
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#14

teddydan

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Join Date: 11/27/2012 | Posts: 273

I think I was one of the guys she was with...
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#15

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alerj123 wrote:
haha 

1. OP likes girl a lot
2. OP gets super butt hurt about the girl
3. OP contrives master plan to get revenge
4. OP loses the girl
5...
6. win?


+1
Lulz
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#16

ApproachMachine5000

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Join Date: 08/16/2012 | Posts: 521

haha after reading the responses on this thread, it's obvious most people here are just keyboard jockeying, or were never in a position to be empathetic to the OP

A few times in my past, i had a few girls who would always hang out with dudes(including ex). 

I for one do not like my potential GF, Fuckbuddy, or any girl i'm "dating" or "fucking" hanging with another dude especially her ex. So i tell her straight up, NO GUY FRIENDS(unless he's gay or is a relative). If she doesn't like my boundaries(if she thinks it's too controlling), then she doesn't have to date me. If your frame control is strong, she will respect your boundaries.

9x out of 10, when a girl hangs out witha bunch of dudes, she will most likely cheat on you eventually. 

You also have to take it from her male friend's perspective. If i had a female friend who had a boyfriend, but hangs out with me. I'll still find ways to bang her eventually.

I wrote a topic about this(stealing girls from Bfs 101). check it out

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/243017

my advice to you OP? Put your foot down and tell the to not hang out with guy friends. If she doesn't respect it, then tell her "i'm out" or "well, u don't have to date me then, that's my policy"

Proceed to go out to the club and beast hard and get more girls.

This situation is similar to Brighan Young University. Before you sign up for that school, it said on that contract (no pre-marital sex), If you don't like that rule, Don't APPLY for that school. SIMPLE as that. 

Same goes with your girlfriend hanging out with other guys, if she doesn't like your boundaries, then she doesn't have to date you. That's the bottom line
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jlaix

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"I can't take this kind of behavior from a hole"?

Jesus.

And by that, I mean you need jesus
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#18

alerj123

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Join Date: 11/29/2012 | Posts: 50

ApproachMachine5000 wrote:

haha after reading the responses on this thread, it's obvious most people here are just keyboard jockeying, or were never in a position to be empathetic to the OP

A few times in my past, i had a few girls who would always hang out with dudes(including ex). 

I for one do not like my potential GF, Fuckbuddy, or any girl i'm "dating" or "fucking" hanging with another dude especially her ex. So i tell her straight up, NO GUY FRIENDS(unless he's gay or is a relative). If she doesn't like my boundaries(if she thinks it's too controlling), then she doesn't have to date me. If your frame control is strong, she will respect your boundaries.

9x out of 10, when a girl hangs out witha bunch of dudes, she will most likely cheat on you eventually. 

You also have to take it from her male friend's perspective. If i had a female friend who had a boyfriend, but hangs out with me. I'll still find ways to bang her eventually.

I wrote a topic about this(stealing girls from Bfs 101). check it out

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/243017

my advice to you OP? Put your foot down and tell the to not hang out with guy friends. If she doesn't respect it, then tell her "i'm out" or "well, u don't have to date me then, that's my policy"

Proceed to go out to the club and beast hard and get more girls.

This situation is similar to Brighan Young University. Before you sign up for that school, it said on that contract (no pre-marital sex), If you don't like that rule, Don't APPLY for that school. SIMPLE as that. 

Same goes with your girlfriend hanging out with other guys, if she doesn't like your boundaries, then she doesn't have to date you. That's the bottom line




If you have such strict boundaries, than for sure it is better to enforce them then to do passive aggressive shit like the OP.  On the other hand, try to realize that your mantality that "you can't even have guy friends" is grounded in some deep set insecurities.  Better to not affected by her hanging out with other guys (especially friends, cmon dude) then to put up walls that you see as a strength that instead just illuminate your weakness.  
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#19

robertfoster

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Join Date: 02/27/2013 | Posts: 11

It`s all about the trust, if you trust her that I guess don`t worry but if you`re in doubts then talk to her. If she doesn`t want to or is lying to you.. I think you should leave her. I mean, it`s up to you but I myself couldn`t be with a girl like that

Cheers
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#20

ChuckBr

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Join Date: 11/17/2010 | Posts: 412

why do you even fucking care? you've been "seeing" each other for a month, she doesn't owe you exclusivity unless you've had "the talk."
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