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May 25th, 2017
Inspirational Post: Normal Looking Guys Can Get "10s" from Cold Approach [Picture Evidence]
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ambiguity

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psychopathic wrote:

Judging by some recent posts, I feel that many guys in this community have the limiting belief that a normal looking guy (non-body builder) cannot date a stunning women (a so called 10). I don't normally post in the main forum, but I want to share an experience which completely destroyed the aforementioned limiting belief in my mind. This is also a story I have not written down before or shared beyond close friends.

I am a normal looking English guy:

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I am not a body builder and don't fit the sportsman stereotype. In fact, most people would say I am quite a thin guy. However, I am totally comfortable with my looks and look after myself at all times. In addition, I am not rich, but work hard in every area of my life.

It was during 2012 Fashion Week in London (Feb.). I had just started a new job but was determined to go out and meet new people most nights. On a cold Wednesday night I went out solo to Chinawhite club in the West End of London. I did not have a table and knew nobody in the club. 

I entered and went straight to the empty dancefloor. I then started dancing in my own reality and just had fun. Other people in the club started watching and built up the courage to join me on the dancefloor. After 30 mins, 2 stunning 6 foot girls (without heels) stepped onto the dancefloor. I don't like giving number values to looks, but they would be classed as 10's my most men. Here is a picture and video of one of the girls:

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I approached both girls and start dancing with them (giving value and not trying to get anything). We barely said anything on the dancefloor but I playfully mocked their dancing continuously and kissed them while taking photos. I was more interested in the girl pictured above. After 40 mins they randomly just leave the dancefloor and head to the exit. Many guys would have given up here. However, I was determined to hang out with this girl. I walked after them and spot them at the cloakroom. I strode up with the most intent I have ever had in pickup and confidently delivered the following words to the girl above:

"You are not leaving this club without giving me your number"

She blushed slightly and headed to the bathroom. I talked to her friend for a bit and find out she is staying at the club. After 5 mins, the girl I like comes back and says: "where are we going?". Without hesitation, I walked her out of the club alone (leaving her friend). The first words out of her mouth were: "What is your number?". We exchanged numbers and then I took her to Chinatown for something to eat. I did not take her home that night due to logistical reasons and personal circumstances. However, I did end up dating her for 4 months until she went back to her home country last year.

Outside the club at 2am:
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Last year she was voted third best International model of the year and was a celebrity in her home country. She was married to a millionaire who raced cars. In addition, she is intelligent, positive, completely determined and has read Eckhart Tolle (unusual). Apparently this type of girl is out of a normal looking guy's "league". She was attracted to me due to my confidence, passion for food/cooking, love of life and I made her happy. Not money, muscles or celebrity status.

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Picture of me with her this weekend:

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Hopefully this experience will inspire you guys to go out and meet women with confidence. I take massive action everyday and know what I can achieve. Don't sit around, get out there everyday. The sky's the limit guys.

Best of luck.

Psychopathic
I stopped reading the second I read you were English.

Mate, we have a innate superiority over the world due to our place of orgin.

English women are constantly got their noses in the air and many of them are far from stunning or SMOKE SHOWs!

Its our place of orgin that caters toward that superior game over the rest of the world naturally on average.
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#42

psychopathic

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ambiguity wrote:

psychopathic wrote:
I stopped reading the second I read you were English.

Mate, we have a innate superiority over the world due to our place of orgin.

English women are constantly got their noses in the air and many of them are far from stunning or SMOKE SHOWs!

Its our place of orgin that caters toward that superior game over the rest of the world naturally on average.


Great comment.
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#43
Del The Funky Homosapien

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socialise wrote:
Had her, she gave awful head 6 at the best. 

Margaret Thatcher. She was a 10.
Del The Funky Homosapien wrote:

Look, I'm all for you being happy and all but this is a 10 (even then she's probably a 9!):



Nice hourglass though... A nice 7/10 girl, gratz :)


Hahaha damnnn, if she looks like that she can get away with giving bad head... Then again I personally prefer other girls to Jessica Alba, she just seems to be the "standard" for beauty...
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Del The Funky Homosapien

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2656913 wrote:

Fuck youre such a loser confused@Del The Funky Homosapien
No, just realistic...
The girl is in the OP's league (except in her modelling shots and her figure is real nice)...
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#45
Tyler

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Guys who don't get laid typically downgrade girls online because....

1- They haven't lived with a GF so don't "get it" that the girls don't look the same in the day as at night.

2- They judge by what pictures and videos they'd masturbate to, not how attractive the girl actually is in real life.

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#46

Bobbafat

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Join Date: 02/24/2013 | Posts: 26

Cute girl OP but nowhere near being a 10! Almost get me asking, have you guys ever  been to scandinavia? ;) lol!!
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#47

cguy2000

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Join Date: 03/07/2011 | Posts: 95

Did you bang?
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#48
Leo-~

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Thanks for sharing this experience man :-)
Very very valuable and inspirational post.
You could have bragged like a motherfucker but instead you made it all sounds so normal and natural. No wonder you got her.
Cheers buddy!
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#49

abconetwothree

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Join Date: 12/06/2011 | Posts: 740

Lol maybe Del's definiton of what a 10 is, is different to OP's. Did you ever think of that? Derp.
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#50

GameOn

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Join Date: 02/15/2013 | Posts: 3

Is it me or does she look a bit like mila kunis? great job man, inspiring!
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