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October 16th, 2017
Looking Too Young For Your Age
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#11
Rodrigo

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Join Date: 04/06/2010 | Posts: 410

Ohhh I forgot something! If you wanna look like older people, try smoking! It's really effective. ¬¬

lol
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#12

squidbiscuit

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Join Date: 02/18/2013 | Posts: 41

lol ew, i guess i just hav to do more waiting...
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#13

Egyptian

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Join Date: 10/04/2010 | Posts: 90

Get plastic surgery. 

I have had the same problem. It worked for me. When I was 23 I looked 37. 
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o2high

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Join Date: 06/08/2012 | Posts: 475

 Its a gift and a curse.

But RSD teaches u to ALWAYS focus on the positive and ignore the negative.
Julien talks about this in a lot of his videos and he gives the best advice on this.
You need to reframe looking young as a good thing.You need to realize the real issue here is not how other people see u, but how u see yourself.

Its tough because this does have a huge psychological effect on u, especially when ur young and dont understand what the fuck is going on. 

But your identity is fluid when your young and its very easy to change and turn things around.

Dont let this hold you back, start approaching and getting outside your comfort zone in whatever way u can. Get the reference experiences. Rejection doesnt exist, reframe everything as good, focus only on the positive. Join a frat, join clubs, do sports, academic groups, go to the gym, sit in the front row and be the assertive one in class, talk to everyone, hit on girls everywhere. Hang out with people younger than you, your age, and older than u, it doesnt matter. Have fun, be super direct and confident, but also dont shit so seriously. Its easiest to be social and hit on girls when u have nothing to love, like what todd said in his latest video. You have to nothing to lose. See looking young as a gift and cherish it.

My story;

In high school I looked like I was in middle school so my parents took me to the doctors and they figured out my bone age is 4 yrs behind my real age, so I look about 4 years younger than I really am. I am also really good looking and have a baby face.

So when I was a freshmen in high school I looked like I was in 5th grade.
Senior in High School, Freshmen in h.s.
College freshmen- high school
Senior in college, freshmen in college.

I always felt like a freak, and like I was getting left behind, my peers didn't acknowledge me or treat like an equal, and didnt take what I had to say seriously (because I didnt take what I had to say seriously) This was how I felt about myself. People treat u based on how u feel about yourself. If I had more entitlement and didnt give a fuck, looking young would not have mattered. Just like what Julien said in his video. 

Now im 26 and I would say that I look like Im 21 or 22, but I run into 18 and 19 yr olds who think Im the same age as them. My cousin is a Senior in High school and he looks the same age as me. 

Last year I was at the mall and 14 yr old girls were hitting on me and following me around the mall.
I had to run away from them and they chased after me telling me how hot I was it was fucken rediculous.

When Im 35-50 yrs old I will still be able to hook with girls in the 20's.

ITS A GIFT

Watch the movie "The curious case of Benjamen button,"
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squidbiscuit

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Join Date: 02/18/2013 | Posts: 41

Wow thanks so much dude! i had a bone age wen i was younger and i was 4 years behind too this is crazy!
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S.Plissken

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Join Date: 08/23/2012 | Posts: 444

Same here, not just "bone age" but I was always about 3-4 years behind my peers on all the stages of development. Got body hair 3-4 years later, started ejaculating 3-4 later, facial hair 3-4 later, the whole jazz.

I love it though! Because I feel like I got left out of teenage sex; now that I'm 21, but I can still hook up with chicks that are 18 & 19. it's awesome.

Worse comes to worst you can grow a beard and build some muscle. Easily adds another 3 years to your age. Personally I still shave clean and go with long-ish hair. I look like a "pretty boy" basically, younger girls are really into that look.
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#17
gruenfeld

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Join Date: 09/21/2006 | Posts: 1283

girls like it. it's like a blessing
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#18

squidbiscuit

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Join Date: 02/18/2013 | Posts: 41

eh i wish i could grow a beard, wouldnt hav a beard though just stubble
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#19
matt_c

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Lots of us have things about us that we might "wish" were different. Short people want to be taller, tall people want to be shorter, people who look old want to look younger, and of course, people who look young want to look older.

Welcome to "Self Acceptance"

You are RESISTING your self and it is causing you

a) unhappiness via the negative thoughts that you repeatedly have running through you head

b) to project insecurities outward for other people to detect - your perception of yourself literally CAUSES people to react negatively toward you

If you can learn to accept, even embrace, yourself, this will be no issue. The alternative is to complain and seek EXTERNAL solutions <- this, my friend, will get you nowhere but unhappiness.

I would recommend Nathaniel Brandon's "6 Pillars of Self Esteem". You can get the audio or the book here: http://www.amazon.com/The-Six-Pillars-Self-Esteem-Definitive/dp/0553374397/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1361184139&sr=8-1&keywords=nathaniel+brandon . One of the "pillars" is self acceptance.

Dude, I have literally stood NAKED in front of my mirror and done self acceptance exercises. Take this concept seriously and you will get results.
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#20

JohnM

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Join Date: 11/19/2012 | Posts: 661

Quote:
I dont know how to put myself on the same level or above the girl.
Don't try. Play the cards you are dealt. 
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" OMG, whos this? Hes so cuuuute!" they will literaly pinch my cheeks, ask for hugs and i know ur thinking "well dude you got bitches all over you! what are you complaining about?" cause there not all over me sexually, there all over me like a puppy or a baby. and everytime a girl sais im cute my guy frends will bring up "Well you guys should go out!"

Your friend isn't helping you by saying:  "Well you guys should go out!"

If a girl tells you, you are cute, you could return the compliement and flirt with the girl. If girls are touchy feely with you, you can be touchy feely with them.

You can get away with more physical escalation than the average guy. 
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"EW NOOO! that would be wierd, i'd feel like id be molesting him!" They love to say this right infront of me in my face like its not supose to hurt me. i dont ever about it, i just stand there laughing acting like they just didnt say that.
Instead of doing nothing an alternative might be to kiss the girl immediately. 
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