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Tips for a guy with one eye?
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rschmitz1985

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Join Date: 11/19/2012 | Posts: 30

Hey there fellow PUA's. Trying to maximize my success rate and was curious if anybody has any tips.

Back story. When I was 5 years old I lost my eye. My sister was being attacked by some neighberhood gang members, I was young but went to her aide. Had a board with a nail smacked into my eye; and also had a bottle, and a brick smashed over my head which knocked me out.

Anyways I went through school and had the whole social ostracization that goes along with being different. I've spent a long time trying to acquire social skills that I wasn't able to acquire in school, and repairing my self-esteem. I realize this is all in my head, and for the most part it isn't relevant any more.

Finally, my question is this, any way I can use my eye to my advantage? Also, how do I best go about handling the aesthetics . Eye patch, glasses, or prosthetic eye? My prosthetic eye has vertical movement, but no horizontal movement, and it becomes obvious when somebody isn't directly in my line of sight. My eyelid also hangs a little due to the trauma. Eye contact is suppose to be very important in pick up, anything I can do to overcome this?

Appreciate any tips or info, thank you!
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leed

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Join Date: 01/12/2013 | Posts: 28

Damn, dude. Sorry to hear that. I'd personally go with an eye patch. Also, you can probably tell your story when they ask about your eye patch.

P.S. You're a badass and an awesome bro for going to your sister's aid. Keep on trucking, dude.
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Zeta

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Join Date: 01/28/2012 | Posts: 159

I can totally imagine someone pimpin it with an eyepatch, like imagine Tyler with one ,he wouldnt give a fuck.

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AlexV

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Join Date: 11/12/2011 | Posts: 1537

you still have your other eye

funny you should mention this

i recently lost my right lens in my glasses for a whole week which makes me blind in my right eye

SUPER ANNOYING but I got used to it, girls didn't notice after I got used to it myself ;)

Anyway, it's not the same but I see where you're coming from

I don't believe an eye patch would be a disadvantage at all

you can make up a story about a sea battle with pirates or some shit LOL

And if they can see your eye isn't real it's highly freakin' unlikely they'll laugh at you or judge you for not having 1 eye.. People are nice in general
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Seedro

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I see this dude consistantly at the club I frequent who's right hand is completely fucking mangled... one of the most pimp naturals I've seen in the area, constantly grinding on the local hotties...

...that being said my recommendation is the eye-patch... real pirate style...

...I got some pirate-esque shwag I got at the thrift shop (my ONLY clothing store, btw), bitches love that shit...

I think it might have to do with the fact I kinda look rough and rugged like some Pirates of the Caribbean Johnny Depp shit...

...so I guess I should recommend you go with a real raunchy look... I mean there's nothing worse than a dude trying to look all prim and proper in my books anyway...

...so if anything, the eyepatch might HELP.

I shit you not...
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rschmitz1985

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AlexV wrote:

And if they can see your eye isn't real it's highly freakin' unlikely they'll laugh at you or judge you for not having 1 eye.. People are nice in general

Well, I agree most people won't be direct about it but lets be honest here, you'll indirectly reject somebody your unattracted to. Having an unsymmetrical face is a turn off for a lot of people. I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm just trying to maximize my success

My experience with an eye patch is I look try hard. I'm by no means an expert in this area so I guess I'm incongruent and draw too much attention to myself? Its been a while though since I've sported the patch so I'll give it another shot

Good stuff guys, more advice please. :)
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rschmitz1985

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Seedro wrote:
I see this dude consistantly at the club I frequent who's right hand is completely fucking mangled... one of the most pimp naturals I've seen in the area, constantly grinding on the local hotties...

...that being said my recommendation is the eye-patch... real pirate style...

...I got some pirate-esque shwag I got at the thrift shop (my ONLY clothing store, btw), bitches love that shit...

I think it might have to do with the fact I kinda look rough and rugged like some Pirates of the Caribbean Johnny Depp shit...

...so I guess I should recommend you go with a real raunchy look... I mean there's nothing worse than a dude trying to look all prim and proper in my books anyway...

...so if anything, the eyepatch might HELP.

I shit you not...
Gracias
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rschmitz1985

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Zeta wrote:
I can totally imagine someone pimpin it with an eyepatch, like imagine Tyler with one ,he wouldnt give a fuck.

"If it's conceivable, it's possible"
Thank you
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ClintHardwood

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Join Date: 04/02/2012 | Posts: 399

WEAR AN EYEPATCH. that's would be so fucking sick bro

edit: "I'm here for your booty" pirate opener?
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Gumpshmee

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My buddy who isn't even in the game had a bells palsy episode so his eye was paralysed and needed an eyepatch. He was self concious about it... but he pulled.

get those dermal piercings so you don't have to use the eyepatch strap.

But I honestly see the eyepatch as an instant DHV.
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Stefanreal

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Eyepatch = awesome and mysterious
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