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December 6th, 2016
My thoughts on campus daygame
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YBP

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Join Date: 12/17/2012 | Posts: 188

I've noticed a large focus on these forums is placed upon night game - i.e. gaming at bars, clubs, streets, etc. With that being said, I felt like making a thread with some practical advice for younger noobies looking to pick up chicks during the day at school. I'd like to preface this post by stating that I am very much a noobie. I have been in the game for just over two months, but since then I have gone out taking action almost every single day. I have gained a decent amount of reference experiences in pretty rapid fashion, and have adjusted and tweaked my "method", so to speak, numerous times based on these experiences in field.

CAMPUS DAYGAME

There has been quite a bit of controversy as of late regarding direct vs non direct opens. It seems like the new age of daygamers have a raging hard on for opening as direct as possible these days. Now, as someone who has spent time trying this, I can tell you from experience that if you go around robotically opening girls with these direct openers on campus, your results will be subpar. Does this mean opening direct does not work? Fuck no. But, in my experience, you will come off too aggressive and/or socially aloof. You will blow yourself out before you've even given the girl the chance to experience you. She will be led to believe you lack social intuition and perhaps lack the ability to understand social cues. Because of the possibility that you will see these girls again (and quite possibly even quite often), the girl will expect you to understand that you are in a high pressure environment, and treat the interaction accordingly. Otherwise, you will quickly become known as the PUA robot creeper going from girl to girl using the same canned "Hey you're fucking beautiful" line time and time again.

THE SOLUTION

I've been approaching a decent amount of girls on campus the past few weeks and the method I've found most effective so far is to simply be friendly and cool with them. You approach girls like a NORMAL, cool guy who UNDERSTANDS his environment. You do not go up and say "You have the most amazing ass I have ever seen". A simple "Hey, how's it going?" Or "Hi. How are you?" is sufficient. From there, you get their #s, stay in contact with them, and then chill with them and see them often. The goal here is not to try to pull the first girl you see as fast as possible. This is about building a huge social network/peer group of hot chicks. You're then introduced to their friends (who also tend to be...yep, you guessed it..hot chicks) and then you have an even LARGER pool to work with. The name of the game is "gradual" game. You can hang out with these girls around campus (this is a big one for me, also massive "social proof" - girls will notice that you are a popular guy who knows lots of pretty girls), get them on day 2s, or even bring them to parties. From there, you can turn up the escalation and drop intent. You just open them like a friendly and cool dude, get right in front of them, have lazer eye contact, strong vocal tonality, etc (all the qualities/subcommunication of "man to woman" interaction) but you aren't being a super aggressive straightforward creeper with your actual words. You're just vibing and being chill with the goal of expanding your growing, ever more abundant social network of hot girls. From there, you have a large pool of leads to work and can CHOOSE who you want to escalate with and when. Again, to further reiterate, CAMPUS GAME IS GRADUAL GAME. This is by no means a law or rule. It is not the case 100% of the time. I am sure you can pull a SDL from campus daygame (although I have yet to personally do it). I am simply stating that the majority of your results are likely to come from this more subtle, gradual, long term style of game.

Well, that's it. These are my ideas on campus game and what has worked for me so far. Hopefully you can take what works for you from it and discard what doesn't. Feel free to leave any further advice or criticism based on your experiences in the comments below. Peace!

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MARSZ00

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 That is exactly what campus day game is. College is basically high school on steroids - you don't want to get yourself labelled as the pickup dude. Trust me on this one; in my first weeks of college I personally saw a few pickup dudes. One guy told everyone around the residences that his name was the "money maker" and that he made all his money from online poker. After me and some guys teased him a little on the subject, he skipped off to another group of people, telling us he needed to meet more girls. Fast forward to the college nightclub: I see the guy getting blown out literally left and right by all the sets. We're talking short, pale white guy with a navy blue short sleeve button down. I saw the money maker a few times recently and he literally has a tiny social circle filled with other odd guys.

Game - as in Mystery Method and pretty much the basis of PUA theory - was built on short-term approaches. As in, get in there, jam the fucking girl's throat with value, and take her home for the night. It's unsustainable, as Mystery himself admitted on several occassions. College game is more about social value and being cool. Just be cool, pay attention to your situational value, give off good vibes, and be at the right place and the right time.
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EJBlue

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I understand this is what I have to do. Honestly, I think that the best opporunity to do this is around the start of semesters. I just started reading/watching RSD at the end of December and I didn't take action as the semester started last month, as a matter of fact I haven't taken action at all. This has massively put me in my head, and I know this is ultimately what I shouldn't be doing, but then thinking about not being in my head puts me in my head even more.
What's funny is that meeting new people and getting numbers on campus is a normal thing for normal people, but as time goes on, it has become a crippling task for me. There's so much valuable stuff here, but applying it to real situations is so god damn more difficult than it seems when it's being explained in a video or in an article.
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YBP

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@marszoo agreed
@EJBlue Man, the best time to do it is NOW. Fuck the beginning of the semester. I've been approaching girls since day 1 and now, and I don't notice a single difference. Just detach yourself from all the supplemental videos on theory for a while and GO OUT AND APPROACH! THEN you can come back to the videos and their lessons/tips/advice will be muuuuch easier to actually understand and implement. The more you go out and approach and don't die, the more proof you give your brain that it's perfectly okay to meet girls on campus during the day. It's a snowball effect. The hardest part is just getting started. After that, it's cake.
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Resmat

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 ive done a couple approaches in my gym lol it's crazy h ow many hotties go there and no one really approaches them..
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 Maybe there in US, but here, in my university at least you won't see the girl again because maybe she doesn't go the same days that you. IF and only IF you approach during the breaks. You are like a number in the class not everyone is going to know about you exitance.

Basically you are free to go to do anything.

But being friendly and cool will work if I approach girls in the class, because I will see them again not in all my classes but in that one yes.

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 gold.
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EJBlue wrote:
I understand this is what I have to do. Honestly, I think that the best opporunity to do this is around the start of semesters. I just started reading/watching RSD at the end of December and I didn't take action as the semester started last month, as a matter of fact I haven't taken action at all. This has massively put me in my head, and I know this is ultimately what I shouldn't be doing, but then thinking about not being in my head puts me in my head even more.
What's funny is that meeting new people and getting numbers on campus is a normal thing for normal people, but as time goes on, it has become a crippling task for me. There's so much valuable stuff here, but applying it to real situations is so god damn more difficult than it seems when it's being explained in a video or in an article.
Ahhhhhh I used to have this dielama and boy it SUCKS.  Just keep going.

Can't wait till I go to college...Hopfully I get in..Gotta start trying more in CC...I got 4-5 months of time to go out 4 nights a week.  By then...I'll be ready.
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YBP

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@burton2 You don't necessarily have to "be ready" to approach on campus. it's super easy. I started off with 0 cold approach experience and have already gotten a fair amount of day2s, makeouts, etc all from campus daygame after just 4 weeks into the semester. I think this idea that it's something you have to work up to does more harm than good. Just show up and take action. That's all you gotta do, really. If you keep doing that consistently, things will fix themselves.
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rush2013

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 lol i gotta try both ways. direct and indirect. but yeah ihardly see the same girl again...il keep going direct for a while...but useful advice, deffinitely needs to be tried.
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Chai

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Join Date: 12/07/2012 | Posts: 97

Excellent topic, wish I had read something like this EARLIER.

I'm slowly shifting into just being comfortable approaching and talking to the really attractive girls. 

Before I used to go just CRAZY direct and would expect that just cause I went verbally direct, she'd want me. 

But no I've got a long ways to go before I can expect that - so I've been lowering my bar / killing negative entitlement to boost my own state. 

I shall hope to start comfortably getting numbers soon..
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