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December 6th, 2016
get a life & don't be cool, be a free spirit.
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therebellion

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Join Date: 09/17/2012 | Posts: 1315

 This is not theory, these are distinctions based on experience. 

I will not listen to opinions, debates or tolerate bullshit in regards to what I'm explaining here.

You don't have to agree with anything I say & above all else you should probably do things your own way anyway.

Be a free spirit, don't try to look cool:

-Looking cool is great, it gets you lots of attention from girls, makes you feel invincible, provides you with positive emotions but it has its limitations. 

-When your trying to look cool, anyone who might be cooler than you is gonna stifle you and force you into lower consciousness, you also wont be able to have as much fun because you might compromise your self image if somebody judges you poorly.

-when girls u like give other guys attention or even worse fuck other guys you'll feel insecure and emasculated.

Being a free spirit:

-you tend to look cool anyway cuz your not trying to be impressive -which is paradoxically more impressive then being impressive. 

-you don't give your self expectations to live up to & don't seek to possess anybody because your secure with yourself which gives you the ability to express yourself in a more sincere and genuine way.

-you can talk to whatever girls you want because theres no agenda, your just being normal & doing what you want.

-your open to your adventurous side because your not trying to protect your self image. 

-theres no judgement, just selfless altruistic celebration of attitude, creativity & engagement. 

Be the free spirit, let everyone be as cool as they want to... being cool is awesome, so are girls, so are their personalities everything is perfect, there's no reason to view it as anything else... all you have is the moment, but its all you need.

Get a life:

Despite conventional game wisdom girls are not attracted to value, value is a cheap thrill that losses its meaning shortly after.

Girls are attracted to fun and adventure like a moth to a flame.

You can look as cool as you want, you can impress them, you can sell yourself flawlessly... but no matter what they gravitate towards fun and adventure unapologetically with no regard to how it effects anyone around them.

Looking cool rather than having a life basically means when the girl is trying to explore the world & experience an adventure, your gonna act like a sensitive little whos too cool to give the girl what she really wants & blow yourself out because you can't let go of your self image.

Get a life: have fun, enjoy yourself, go out, talk to girls.. make your life something you would want to be apart of if you were her.

I'm no longer trying to "achieve good game" i want to become a person who's free spirited & adventurous instead of boring and consumed by his self image.
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This has been added to the quintessence, good show sirthumbs up
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therebellion

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 Preciate it bruh bruh.
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MARSZ00

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 I don't understand why people post this
I will not listen to opinions, debates or tolerate bullshit in regards to what I'm explaining here.

You're on a discussion forum. That means discussions are bound to be had about what you present. If you don't want that to happen, write your theory in a journal. Otherwise, consider the context where you're posting. 

Aside from that, what you're saying is pretty cool. I'd elaborate a little bit on free spirit if I were you though; you throw that around a lot in this thread but you haven't really broken it down point for point, aside from mentioning some small behaviorial patterns. Same idea with cool; I'm not quite picking up on how you categorize the two. I think what you're getting at is calibration or lack of it.
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therebellion

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 If you don't understand it, I recommend talking to a girl thats so hot she puts u in your head.. then come back and re-read it from that vantage point. 
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MARSZ00

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 No i understand what you're getting at, i just feel it's too unclear to most ppl.
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o2high

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 nice ya i concur.

I spent all of high school trying to be cool
and then i just stopped trying so hard, started doin my own thing, having fun following my passions and being myself. Anything I think is cool is cool, not trying to follow what other people is cool.
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The Black Wheat

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 How do I become a free spirit? I want to kill my ego man, shits gross and doesn't let me turn it to 11 and be who I really am.

Fuuuuuu-

p.s. I'm fucking hungry as shit.
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