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January 23rd, 2017
Solo Game ~~~REVEALED~~~
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Zer0.Point

Zer0.Point

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Join Date: 02/06/2012 | Posts: 492



VERY POWERFUL! WARNING!

lmao - I get a kick out of making things more serious than they are - but if you wanna do solo, then pay attention. This is bad-ass shit.

First, solo game is badass for many reasons, here are a few:
- Confidence feeds on itself furiously. When you're doing well when solo, you have nothing to attribute your confidence to OTHER than yourself. Think about it. As a result, you hit state fast.
- There is something very raw and natural about being alone. When you hit state, it is hard to fall out of state.
- Going out with friends and being drunk and still not picking up women is like this:


- Going out solo AND sober AND pulling is like this:


If you've never been out solo (AND SOBER) and had a killer night, pulled girls, and slept with them, you've no idea what you're missing. This shit brings a tear to my eye it's so sick.

To someone that has a hard time going out and approaching girls while with FRIENDS and even while DRUNK, this shit may seem pretty out-of-this world. Or it may not.

You gotta be honest with yourself and realize that other people aren't dumb. People know why you're in the club. Doesn't matter if you're alone or with friends. You're not there to have an intellectual conversation about the various aspects of existentialism. If you think there is something AT ALL wrong with going out on the prowl and wanting to fuck women... well... shame on you!

You gotta KNOW how to be by yourself. Most people don't know how to be themselves in a social setting. They fidgit, act jittery, uncomfortable, start value-scanning, etc. People STILL do this even with FRIENDS and WHILE DRUNK. That in itself boggles my mind. (We've all done it.)

When you go to the club you have to know how to see yourself as part of the environment - thus not taking anything personally. I don't get stuck in my head if somoene is having more fun than I am. I don't get stuck in my head if someone is more cool or alpha or more energetic than I am. Nor do I get stuck in my head when there are confrontations. Why???

Because in the club, EVERYONE is trying to hit state or maintain state. Nobody is trying to be mean to you on purpose or reject you, and if they are, they are doing it SO THEY can hit state or feel good or get a buzz. Once you know this, you will no longer be able to take anything personally ever again.

As a result, you begin to view the whole situation as something you're WORKING WITH in order to build the vibe WITH everyone else. This will mean that you will actually get excited and have fun by seeing OTHER people have fun. As you do this, you relax and begin to enjoy yourself.

Not much more to it. The rest is logistics. If you have a good handle on the above, you will do some sick shit going out solo.
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Orkidea

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Join Date: 09/12/2011 | Posts: 540

 Nice. 
Hitting clubs alone, no drinking is next level shit. 
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Horse Life

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Join Date: 01/30/2013 | Posts: 97

Yeah I went out solo for the first time about a month ago. Fucking epic night. All my friends are chodes so being by myself it was like "full expression" mode. Nobody hindering my state or anything like that

It felt weird at first, but after figuring out nobody really gives a shit except for YOU, thats when I realized it doesn't matter all that much
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Gabrielv10

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Join Date: 06/11/2012 | Posts: 172

 I go out with my friends but at the end of the night each part our own ways, we separate and go to the club we want to go, the hard thing is going alone from the beginning of the night, its a sticking point I must work in, but yeah being solo in the club is super beneficial to boost my game, maybe I dont feel solo because my friends are in the bars besides the one im in, but i am basically solo pretty much. Great post, ill mind fuck myself to find motivation to go solo from the beginning of the night....Cheers!
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As long as you know "Foundations" -- basics of confidence, how to open and attract and lead and close, and then GO OUT REGULARLY, you've got enough information to get all the you need.

From there it's fun to accumulate new knowledge FOR THE FUN OF IT, but it's not meant to be like this next sacred tip that finally gets you laid.  It's assumed you already are happy and awesome nad getting based on the foundational information, and from there you can just keep having fun learning more and more if you chose.""

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Papa

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 I always recommend going out solo to people not experienced with this because you have to be solo with the girl eventually so you gotta have as much practice as you can.
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POOR_IMPULSE_CONTROL

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Join Date: 01/25/2013 | Posts: 81

Horse Life wrote:
All my friends are chodes so being by myself it was like "full expression" mode. Nobody hindering my state or anything like that
This is so true and I never realized it until just now! I don't hang out with other PU guys (for lack of opportunity). I mostly try to just go out with naturals. But very often either, even the naturals just don't get it, because they haven't been exposed to RSD, or they end up bringing with our group at least one dude who is a chode, and it makes it so much harder to game.

Plus, its so hard to pull when you are with friends because you cant just take her to your car, you have to extract the whole group.
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ozman714

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Join Date: 02/01/2013 | Posts: 139

Horse Life wrote:
Yeah I went out solo for the first time about a month ago. Fucking epic night. All my friends are chodes so being by myself it was like "full expression" mode. Nobody hindering my state or anything like that

It felt weird at first, but after figuring out nobody really gives a shit except for YOU, thats when I realized it doesn't matter all that much

dudeee totally agree %100... i got a couple 'natural' friends but the ones that ive gone clubbing with are chody,,, at the very least are not used to seeing this part of me be so free at the club
they arent used to seeing me hit up set after set, hey make it a big deal than i start to get in my head and think its a big deal as well. i guess the saying is true.
"better alone than in bad company"
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MARSZ00

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Solid advice buddy.
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Ronn Paul

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Join Date: 09/14/2012 | Posts: 120

 Well if Papa said you should go out alone, you really should go out alone. Then againg, with time you will build your wings and you will be better. I have a problem when my wing doesnt wanna go out, he is a chode still, brand new into this, but not really comited to the game. So fuck it, i will go out alone if he doesnt want to go with me. I dont need anybody. My first night out one year ago when i entered the game was solo, so why shouldnt i do it again? Fuck the excuses, you aint got nothing to lose!
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love_AND_peace

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Join Date: 11/28/2012 | Posts: 6

I've been going out solo and the issues that come up is pushing myself out of my comfort zone and not having on outside objective observer catching on my mistakes and what I could have done better in an interaction.
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#10

IndyJones

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Join Date: 10/14/2012 | Posts: 49

def my fav post on going out solo, props mang
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