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January 20th, 2017
I am 21 years old, virgin, I approach everyday for 10 months, Ive cried, some girls hate me. some like me and.(FINALLY GOT LAID)
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#91
Seedro

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While you are correct you can't do it in one big move, you can stack the odds in your favour by applying the experimentation mindset heavily, as mentioned in a recent Julien vid... get nerdy with your analysis and experiment with styles of game already thought of, and NEW stuff you come up with, whether in-field or out of field...

I feel compelled to say this because I've gotten pretty amazing results in about 5 months... I came from the completely socially awkward leaf blowing in the wind background (although I admit I've had success in my more autistic endeavers, like skateboarding, martial arts... shit I can do alone without socializing at all, which I've compared to others and noticed my abilities as top-tier if I've worked hard enough at it), I agree with the other posters telling him to change up his style... but, not in a permanent way... in an experimental way... adopt the mindset of Borat.

I don't see how someone who is a hardcase can come into this without willing to do some Borat style shit in the name of experimentation, unless they build their abilities in other areas and apply the tactics that got them ahead in those areas, they are destined to be on an incredibly long and drab journey...

I can understand why he wouldn't want to go Borat style, if it's a small town/city this will fuck him up reputation wise... I actually think that might be his problem based on what he has described... he describes 2 scenarios where he could have gotten laid WITHIN THE FIRST FEW MONTHS... then it goes downhill?

Strong indication he is getting a reputation as "the lame PUA guy".
Starchaser wrote:


Years of being a chode can not be overcome with one big move. This guy has the attitude and the right mindset to succeed. Inspiring
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http://www.thescienceforum.com/new-hypotheses-ideas/23360-chemical-integ...  - Stay ahead of the curve of males by staying evolved... evolved = get poose (updated April 17th, 2013)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4j-CL7A7B7k - Chemical Integration vid
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/256096 - My important game ideas compiled
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/443667 - Building an army of bad bitches, one boring office broad at a time.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/455130 - Be a hero, get chased, less cold-approaching, more warm-approaching.
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#92
FridayNite

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Yo Campos! Go get 'em man!
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#93
FridayNite

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Nevertheless, get some fucking results soon. We're behind you!
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#94

ravyX

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You can do it!
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#95
dcampo3

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this is the thing seedro. It never went downhill. That is your perception.
When those oportuinities happened i was:
1) Nightgaming in a college town in the states.. LSU bars. Dont mean to say its easier there but them girls are a lot more fun, slutty, liberal.. and more awesome overall lol.
2) One of them was super horrible haha.. but hey i really was going to fuck her lol. I would probably do it right now haha
3) My apartment was 5 minutes from the clubs LOL

After coming to Peru.. BAM!!! HUGGGGGGEEEEEEE MASSIVE ENVIRONMENT CHANGE. Girls were soooooooo diferent. Social conditioning is different. Simple. Also.. i could not do nightgame because i didnt know anything yet. So i started mall gaming.
At the beginning.. getting a number.. once a week.. was fucking amazing. I got my first day 2 by august-september last year (6 months gaming), then i got my first insta date around that time too.
Today.. only this year.. i have dated 13 girls. 11 of them fucking hot. I had people insulting me while i was walking with one of them. She was a doctor in psychology, from iceland, super great body, amazing boobs, face of an angel, blue eyes. Her name was Eva. Lol... that experience was awesome!!
I am getting instadates every week.. and every week i have a chance to close again. See... coming to peru.. the idea of an insta date.. was so freaking out of my reality lol.
I am also trying to build a social circle.. but that takes some time.. but that wont stop me from cold approaching hell no lol

Btw.. im going to the World summit on August with my brother ...so ill see you there fuckers

Peace!
Seedro wrote:
While you are correct you can't do it in one big move, you can stack the odds in your favour by applying the experimentation mindset heavily, as mentioned in a recent Julien vid... get nerdy with your analysis and experiment with styles of game already thought of, and NEW stuff you come up with, whether in-field or out of field...

I feel compelled to say this because I've gotten pretty amazing results in about 5 months... I came from the completely socially awkward leaf blowing in the wind background (although I admit I've had success in my more autistic endeavers, like skateboarding, martial arts... shit I can do alone without socializing at all, which I've compared to others and noticed my abilities as top-tier if I've worked hard enough at it), I agree with the other posters telling him to change up his style... but, not in a permanent way... in an experimental way... adopt the mindset of Borat.

I don't see how someone who is a hardcase can come into this without willing to do some Borat style shit in the name of experimentation, unless they build their abilities in other areas and apply the tactics that got them ahead in those areas, they are destined to be on an incredibly long and drab journey...

I can understand why he wouldn't want to go Borat style, if it's a small town/city this will fuck him up reputation wise... I actually think that might be his problem based on what he has described... he describes 2 scenarios where he could have gotten laid WITHIN THE FIRST FEW MONTHS... then it goes downhill?

Strong indication he is getting a reputation as "the lame PUA guy".
Starchaser wrote:


Years of being a chode can not be overcome with one big move. This guy has the attitude and the right mindset to succeed. Inspiring

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#96
TropicalMan

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HI

I AM CHODE CAMPOS BROTHER. I HAVE A YEAR AND THREE MONTHS IN THE GAME, ALMOST A YEAR IN RSD, AND STILL NO LAYS. 

LIKE MY BROTHER, I LOVE THE JOURNEY. I LOVE THE UPS AND DOWNS. I LOVE THE INTERNAL RESULTS, AND RELISH WHATEVER EXTERNAL RESULT I GET.

I WAS THE STUTTERING HARD CASE NEWBIE A YEAR AGO. NOW I AM AWESOME.

Peace ;)
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TropicalMan

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Van wilder wrote:
It's funny how people judging someone without knowing his backround first.
Dude has been socially akward for 21 years he was nervous and shy around girls, he decided to take action in the previous year and he has changed so much i have seen his fr's he has been improved a lot.
you think 10 months is enough time to change all these negative patterns from previous 21 years?of course not.I think he should continioue what he do for 1 and half more if he completed 2 years and he dont get laid he should something change,its him reality so he would figure out what.
Also he is good looking if he decided to low his standards he would get laid a lot from 6 or 7.
Keep going dude.

haha yeah he is pretty good looking latin lover boy
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#98

Puchipi

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Join Date: 02/19/2013 | Posts: 58

You guys are cool but see I came to pickup like a week ago because I got bored of social circle and the same over and over again but after watching these posts, don't get anything personal please but, does pickup work???
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#99

ApproachMachine5000

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why is everyone giving this guy positive reinforcement?

Dude went out for 10 months and is still a virgin. 

at least he still has his dignity and is positive about it.  That's a good thing. despite that, 10 months going out consistently and no lays, you must be doing something wrong
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Seedro

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I agree, I'm wary giving him positive reinforcement as well...

I'm really tempted to as he describes his situation... because it does seem pretty brutal...

...but there just HAS to be something missing from your inner game skills (AT THE VERT LEAST, if not a combination of huge holes in inner/outer game) if you go this long, NO MATTER WHAT YOUR SITUATION, MEN SHOULD BE GETTING PRETTY EASILY, PICK UP, NO PICK UP, UGLY AS FUCK, BEAUTIFUL, RICH, POOR... IS NOT THAT COMPLICATED... just spinning your wheels in the scheme of things over the course of your life kind of sucks X:

I am positive there is something missing in the inner game side, simply because any guy who owns 10/10 congruence and just escalates will get laid within 1000 approaches... unless his standards are so retardedly high that of those 1000 approaches he barely escalates on any of them...

Game shouldn't be this hard... ever...

EDIT: The fact he is so positive in his posts also baffles me... I think another huge possibility is that he's putting on a "positive front", he talks to the girl about how positive he is, but on the inside, he's negative and unable to give her the positive emotions she craves...

...it's like he's SikhDude... except he puts a phony smile on while interacting/posting thinking that's what self amusement and positive vibes are about, ignoring the Julien method of calling girls "dogs" while in a totally positive frame...

...the underlying cause of this behaviour is an unwillingness to trust in the emotional world... similar to SikhDude... (the only person on this forum who claims such a high approach volume with terrible success, hence the comparison) I HAVE NEVER HEARD EITHER OF THEM TALK ABOUT THE EMOTION OF AN INTERACTION...

HE BRAGS ABOUT INSTA-DATING A "stunning blonde girl, blue eyes... blablabla physical traits"... NEVER does he brag about an amazing emotional connection... NEVER does he brag about the happiness he gives to the girls he interacts with...

How can he say he is applying the RSD material without speaking about these topics? This is the common thread of these two posters, who have TERRIBLE growth in this field compared to other posters.
ApproachMachine5000 wrote:
why is everyone giving this guy positive reinforcement?

Dude went out for 10 months and is still a virgin. 

at least he still has his dignity and is positive about it.  That's a good thing. despite that, 10 months going out consistently and no lays, you must be doing something wrong


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http://www.thescienceforum.com/new-hypotheses-ideas/23360-chemical-integ...  - Stay ahead of the curve of males by staying evolved... evolved = get poose (updated April 17th, 2013)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4j-CL7A7B7k - Chemical Integration vid
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/256096 - My important game ideas compiled
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/443667 - Building an army of bad bitches, one boring office broad at a time.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/455130 - Be a hero, get chased, less cold-approaching, more warm-approaching.
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