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December 6th, 2016
FR Journal: Going out in L.A. (21) 100% Sober
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 great video on self reliance and having control over your emotions.  I noticed I already do a lot of the stuff that he says in this video, overall though was just a very good quality video to watch
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7Finally got out from all the school and work sheeeeet. SUP CEOARAB. lolz

Approached few girls firstone was a bday girl that hooked well, was early in the night and dipped to find others

other girl was some depressed chcik standing by herself looking oober depressed.  sad

quick little lessons:
Find something you like about the girl that youre about to approach 
Dive in every time right when you enter club
 
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Little update since im starting to go out again consitantly

Went out made out with some girl after ceoarab gets us married 

Went out yesterday also got some older girl's number who hooked hard in the begg.  She wasnt doing it for me so i decided not to hook up with her.  Did lead her around and just chatted very casually. got her #, wont text her though very likely

 
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Sticking point:

Ironically is at the begg.  I'm going to work on approaching more consistantly the girls that I want.  Will do by hitting up a set right when I get into the place, no matter who or what or where they are facing.  I will then just chat with them interview/statements (normal conversation).  I am confident enough where I can lead a chick, get their #, pull, make out on command without doubt, bascailly anything to do after the opener I'm confident in.  The initial windup to start off the night is what holds me back, but no more.  Fuck that, ive done this enough times and need to just fully immerse myself in this reality.  What's cool is right when I start talking to them, and they're standing infront of me after the opener I know its on and I can take it wherever I want which is cool.  Just need to get myself in set.  Goal starts tonight and will do it for a straight month

Goal Summary:

Approach 1st chick in place right when I get in
Introduce--> Interview(chat)

PS* by interview I dont mean i go up to the girl and say hey where you from, where do you work, what do you do, etc.  It is followed by actual conversation/ statements etc. lol.

 
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iiSwoosh Wrote:
Little update since im starting to go out again consitantly

Went out made out with some girl after ceoarab gets us married 

Went out yesterday also got some older girl's number who hooked hard in the begg.  She wasnt doing it for me so i decided not to hook up with her.  Did lead her around and just chatted very casually. got her #, wont text her though very likely

 


Also...

ran into a hot Philippina girl and her tranny "sister". 

Hot girl wanted a 3some with iSwoosh and CEOArob...under the condition that homosexual acts be performed. 

Favorite quotes from hot Philippina girl, "I've been watching gay porn lately and that shit is hott, I wanna actually SEE it."

and, "I want to fuck you in the ass with a strapon...so let's go to the sex shop and buy one". 

and (my personal favorite), "Guys who wear white shoes are gay" 

Overall, interesting night to say the least.

Fortunately, not all Philippina chicks are like her...maybe she was just sexually frustrated from Law School. 

Bruin Spirit, eh? 
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lmaooo. get your ass back to LA
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December 13th 
finally got a chance to be back again


We hit a bar in redondo beach, 5$ cover  Cool spot , less quality than the bars naer my city, but still all good.  We walk in the bar and I jump in set real quick to get shit started.  Girl is some fatteh but honestly she was very chill and we had a good conersation but I ejected and told her I had to find my friends and gave her a little hug, hope i made her day.  Should have complimented her also and raised dat self esteem--mental note made

Talk to some random girl that my friend introduces me to.  We're talking and eventually find a comminality between us and that hooks the set.  I dont persue with it because Honestly the chick wasnt sexy enough for me to invest that nigth towards her vagina--I knew there was better.  Still fun experiance though and I continued on approaching more breezies in the breezy Californian weather.  Outside, I talked to 3 chicks, just a short convo as the 4th chick is grabbing her friend to bring into the bar, so these chicks are just standing outside there with me.  I open them like I said already, and chat for a little, nothing more than a couple of sentances but they were social which is always good.  Side tangent, girls that can be social naturally is a very beautiful thing, a lot of girls really cant hold conversations in the beggining of interactions until they remain comfortable with you--which I do by just talking to them, light kino and  just moving them around and getting to know them.

Anyways, I essentially just continue approaching, gave my number to some girl that asked for my number that I had no intention of sleeping with.  She was chill talking to with though, so all good.  Im going to now skip to the end of the night...

My buddies bring over 2 random people, a dude and a girl.  Im confused and my firend says we're going t smoke them out.  I said ok, and started to get to know them.  I introduce myself and shake ehr hand but we exchange the long overdue look that adds little bit of sexual tension to the interaction.  We then continue to talk and shes staring me right back in the eye without a blink and its essentially on.  Eventually I do some dumb uncalibrated shit, I still dont know why.  I lead her to go dance, but then stop her before the dance floor to talk, which is all good but it all goes down hill when I sit down and ask her where she was from again.  Some stupid shit I would have never done or said, and it just fucken exploded right infront of my face, it was fucking amazing.  I cared of the outcome for that ,little time and I tried to save the set by changing thr subject but at this point it was a wrap.  Good news is my boy got her, so  it didnt go to waste but I laerned some good lessons-- when you lead, take them to an actual place (ie outside, dance floor, etc ), approach from the beggining, and just get into a social mood which you did today and it felt fucking great.  All it took was 2 approaches and I was golden.  Where i fucked up was after i approached consistantly, I then stopped and went to chill and sit down.  This actually got me into a tired mood and took the momentum away.  This was worse because I havent gone out in the past 3-4 weeks so I really see it as a muslce/skill--and if you dont work it out consitantly,it weaks overtime.  So essentailly I need to continue to dive right in when I get into the venue, and continue talking to people. Dont force fun, if youre not having fun dancing, just go do something else at the time.  

To wrap up

Good shit-keep doing:  1) Lead to specific places, eventually outside to pull.  - 2) approach/ compliments, make peoples day in the start of the night--3) you can test with compliance early see where youre at in the interaction if deny say for sure and continue convo. 4) my game is essentially very simple im realizing and solid once i stick to it.  

I open, find out information about each other untill some conversation hooks, will sometimes take a couple seconds but like today sometimes took 2 minutes and the girl number closes you when she realizes, oh , hes cool.  So big lesson is keep talking , eventually they will see youre a cool dude given the right time.  If theyre not down they'll just walk away so as long as theyre infront of you keep talking untill obviously the set is hooked and she is interested in who the fuck you are.  THen you chill the fuck back and let her game you as you pull to glory. :)

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been going out, havent updated this will start again

I'll make it quick since theres a decent amount

After Hotseat:
-Pulled girl and was PERSISTANT.  Girl kept meeting random people she knew randomly on the street so i had to say ok nice to meet you lets go baby like 3 times.  Eventuallyme and her are both near the car and a group of 20 of her friends comes out.  She runs to them and is like omgg hiii!!  .  At this point Id usually give up and say fuck it too much trouble, but no.  I went in tried to solve the problem of this situation and did all i could think of to get her to come with me.  No go, but i tried all i could do.  Great lesson and happy bout myself there

Saw 2 girls in bar, my buddies i went out with were under 21.  i walk in point, hi five, and bring them in.  Its 2 milfs.  Self amused fuck around she wasnt down though bc of the age.  

Made out with 2 girls then and pretty much called it a night


2 days ago:

-Went to main, bull shitted around, didnt approach right when i got into venue so tisk tisk on that.
- Eventually near end of the night I see a girl, cute as fuck and i actually opeend her months ago
-we talk anime eyes are on and its on.  i ask her what shes doing later and she asys idk, i offer food and kick it she agres. we leave because lights turn on and start walking but then she says wait i need to tell my firned im leaving.  I let her do that, dumb mistake should have said no and rushed her out of there and see if she would go.  SHe comes out with the friend and i engage friend entire time. Plan was she droppes off her friend and goes kick it with me.  We get to her friends house and this wants to stay with us.  sigh. Me and my wing try all we can do to get her the fuck away from my girl but nog o.  fuck this old hag.  We really did try everytthing.  My car was also parked in Hollywood so i actually get her to take me to hollywood (20 min dfrive) to pick it up. lol.  So pick up the car adn tell her to help me with unloading some shit from my trunk as a way to try to get her 1vs1.  SHe comes outside i essentialy tell her look I understand your friend is looking out for you but i rather just kick it with you and smoke and kick it thats all.  SHe says yeah shes kind of crazy lol and then says shell drop her off and then hit me up.  I text her the addy and i get home but dont haer back from her.  Weird shit, in this situation i acutally dont knwow hat happened.  Eaither the girl really convinced her not to, i dont know why she would do that though, i was cool with her, or otherwise I raelly dotn fucken know. lol.  Weird shit, still havent heard from her.

Quick Lessons:

1) Approach from the start and keep that convo going to warm up son (always makes a difference) 2 sets in a row 
2) Self amuse, lead and enjoy 
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