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 June 26th/ Wed

Hit up hollywood to hit up moscow with a homie.  Forget my wallet in car and start walking back to get it and see 2 girls coming out of the place we were going in.  Decide to open and ask them how it was in there.  Girl replies with "better now." lol.  Decide to make them my pull.  Get married with my girl, we go on our honeymoon.  Decide to hit up the venue that they are heading to.  Get in its some rock bar or some shit, some very sexy girls.  Open a set with some random shit, dont take it anywhere.  Get back to my original girl, shes being weird, prob rolling o some shit now that i think about it.  I stay because they tell me they have weed, which the girl ends up giving me some.  They were calling it a night and pull wasnt going to happen so I got her # told her are we going to hang out later? she said maybe, i said no maybe, yes or no.  she said maybe. this bitch.  I make out wit her and she leaves. at least i got weed

Hit up main after.  Dont see any sets and hit up anotehr bar.  Same shit, say what up to my homis which are bouncers there and pretty much call it a night.  As were walking back to my car, i said yo lets go at least say what upt o this one 3 set we saw but decided not to go to.  We agree.  go in, i open with tap tap, you look fun.  Set blows open, i move my girl around to the dance floor.  This time with leading I followed the rule that if you dont get strong resistance, assume the lead.  Grabbed her hand and now were on the dance floor.  Tell her its prom season, we dance like its prom just by getting to know her.  Move her some more and some more.  Eventually shes on the other side of the bar and says damn you managed to move me across the bar from my friends.  Talk some more, she compliments me, I'm just killing time since she is the target for the night since there wasnt too much going on. .  Set fizzles out, she asks me for my number i ask her what shes doing the next day.  Tell her to come to a bar with us, prob not going to do that honestly, rather have bar time tomyself.  Will save it for the weekend instead. 

What I could've done different better?:
1) asked for logistics earlier/seeded the pull
2) more polerizing negative/positive spikes
What I did good:

1) moved around
2) kept convo going in begg.
3) physical

etc. man nothing coming to my brain. will update if any other insights come through

answer is always to approach.
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 shit night. took no action and me feeling exhausted won't be an excuse.

it takes about a month to form a habit so I'm making a strict goal to hit up X amount of sets immediatly when i hit the venue within 10 seconds.  Tonight was the last straw and I realize i'm to off and on with this shit and want to be more consistant.  This is my only sticking point, which makes no sense to me, but I will address it and when I set a goal, a specific one, it will happen.  Will post the beauty tomm.
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No more B.S. Crawling my way through this bitch:

Friday June 28th:

Hit up avalon in hollywood with homie and his sister (actress from previous field report)  Goal was simply approach 3 sets.  Hit it up, get in for free, $60 tickets, fuck that.  Want to piss, in the mean time open girl to the right of me with a guy. Nothing crazy, just a lil chat.  Near the bar, see 2 cute girls while I'm standing there talking to actress, they order a red and blue drink and i open them giving them shit for the cop colors.  They laugh, could have took it further, didnt.  Didnt need to, honestly.  Had a strict goal, was going to stick with it.  Might sound stupid but this is how shit works for me, step by step baby, put on hold, im okay with that.  cool im at 2.  Open up a few more sets wanting nothing in return than a short interaction and beauty.  When I hit my 3 i put the 3 in the air and yelled "3 MOTHA FUCKAAAAAAAAA" man that felt good.  Take actress to dance floor, we dancing, looking into this girls eyes she smiles and giggles from the tension and does the cute "whhhhhhhattt" as i just give her the douchebag smurk . love my douchebag smirk.  Take her outside, we talk, she tells me she doesnt like any of her brothers friends.  i say you like me.  she says yeah. youre cute. we make out. take her to dance floor, dance some more shes down to fuck and i establish logistics and we set it in motion.  DIdnt fuck. :(

great night

good:

1)approached
2) had fun
3)leading and eye contact and setting up logistics in hard situation.

Saturday June 29th

Hit main with wing and my boy.  Goal was same, 3 approaches.  First set was girl getting married, set blows open, dont take it anywhere because still first set. tell them we'll see them around.  approach unnatraactive girls just for the refrence, they respond the worst out of all the girls in the night.  they just say hello and walk away.  Opened couple more sets, eventually hit 3.  See girls at bar taking pictures, i ask if theyre taking pics of the drinks or themselves.  the girl big tits, tatoos, ratchet bitch, but i'd fuck her. she shows me the pictures, we talk, shes clearly down just needs a little more time with me.  I see this girl later o nwith her ugly friend and everytime I try to swoop her she comes with me, but her friend gets mad and drags her back.  Bitch was horrible the entire night.  Try to hand of god her but her friend cock blocks again.  Eventually when her friend is not looking i grab her bring her towards me go for the kiss, shes receptive but doesnt fucken do it with a smile on her face.  Her friend quickly sees and grabs her backa nd pushes her, she looks back at me with a smile when her friends not looking. lol fucken A.  See a previous co - worker, she was drunk as fuck barely concious, her friend wanted my dick after I winged for my buddy with her.  I try to go for co- worker go but no go, shes too out of it and attention span is horrible.  Open some girl I was debating on.  she was cute but wasnt a strong urge to approach her honestly.  Did it anyway.  Fuck around with her, tell her we're getting married, she doesnt want to get married adn go to vegas with me that night.  slut.  jk.  

Did a couple more sets after that and hit up another spot

Get in, we kinda bs around.  See this sexy girl walk past me, and didnt fucken open. i was pissed because i had that urge that i wanted her.  I actually see her a minute later after the place is starting to close down.  See her quick, approach. its on.  she becomes my girlfriend for the remainder of the night, chat a little bit, i DONT seed the pull and asy something like im hungry, lets get food after this etc.  lesson learned.  Get her number ask her if we're chilling after this, she says maybe.  Annoying.  We depart, I kiss 2 cheeks, and do a quick makeoiut with her and call it a night.

Currently also trying to set up with the girl from hollywood. Shes been on my dick, sexy lil thing cant wait to explore






couldnt hang out because i was trying to hit the club SON. haha
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Repost FR. whoops

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 Wed July 3rd

Went out, didnt do much tonight. came in saw 2 sets didnt take the opperunity, bit me in the ass. obvious lesson learned again. 
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 July 4th

Hit up hollywood, no sets, suprisingly dead.  Hit upa bunch of venues too.  Opened 2 beauties though at the W, noticed one thing about my actions that I will step off the gas a little bit of she doesnt show automatic signs.  Fixing that now, glad I picked that up. 
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 July 5th 

Bleh been lagging a little bit.

My boy was leaving town so ended up being a homies night, which I decided is essential to have; a night where you just go out and have a good time, maybe talk to a few girls but most time spent is with your friends.  I'm okay with this, since I've been devoting a lot of time to pick up, especially the weekends.  

Anyways.  Not too many sets but asian girl that was there had a thing for me(one of the friends told me, lol)  She was an option.  I see 2 girls outside of first bar though, open them with something situational.  Set blows open.  Theres blonde girl who isnt too attractive and her cute lil friend.  Absolute cutey.  Talked to her with one of my friends, trying to incorperate him in the convo etc.   He obviously wasnt winging it, let alone if he knows what that even means.  So I just honestly do what I can in that situation.  Good set though, I grab the number before we go.  Obviously could have set some logistics for later on the night or something, but it was kind of last second because the entire group decided they were ready to dip.  Homies night, lol.   Texted her and going to set up a day 2 and get a few drinks and get to know her.  

The black chick from circle bar wants the dick, she asked me to stay with her in san diego with her grandmas. lol.  we'll see how this plays out

holywood chick also still on the dick, but she is sketchy.  Cant figuire out if shes eaither obsessive or crazy.  I think if i have sex with her i just might have a stalker on my hands. Worth it? lol we'll see...

Next girl, the actress, kinda played it to gamey. Whoops.  Still have my seed, and still know she is attracted to me.  Would love to sleep with her just so I can watch her film and know. sorry, ego thing.

Things that I am re-realizing:

I can keep a convo going anytime, anywhere

I know the blueprint of my game: Open/hook *(some sets,. a lot of them actualy hook right from the intro, very fortunate for this); when they dont I have to keep it going and not ---> lead and get to know them, the beggining should be just some superficial bull shit about random shit to see if she can relate to anything that I like.  

Going to play around with some "game" tactics like elastic snapband, disqualification and maybe cold reads.  I only want to do this because I have never actually really used them, and if I did it was subconiously.  

I am also working to be my own authority- julien.  I am forcing myself to do things to get used to realizing that I know at all times the best answer to any situation and the right action.  Gym, food, reading, work, etc.  
The thing about me is I usualyl do not get much anxiety, i am very much not in my head at all, especially while approaching.  The problem for me is the actual action.  I am not nervous, I have a blank state thats very chill and numb to the atmosphere.  What this training of me making myself willl do is force me to listen to myself on approaching and taking action in all areas.  I trust in myself and do not get nervous, I just need to tell myself to take action and make that a habbit.  
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 Day 2 July 9

I end up meeting up with the hollywood chick after some days of flirting back to back.  I see her face, kiss her cheek and grab her hand so we're holding hands as the first thing.  We hit the beach during night time, just lieng down together and flirting and playing music.  Eventually, get a desire to eat some food.   She also smokes ciggs and I told her I dont want her to smoke, and if she wants to she can go a distance and do it.  she didnt smoke that night after that.  She's 3 years older than me so kept calling me a baby. fucken A, you know how annoyin this is, and it doesnt stop with just her.  I got used to it after a while with a better response, just brushing it off.  I can def see how a girl saying omg you're too old can apply in the same way.  Anyways, back to the story.  After food we go to a look out spot, start hooking up.  She keeps telling me im cute and that im intimidating.  The whole time al she's doing is laughing and laughing.  Just looking her in her eye really.  She couldnt understand why she couldnt control herself.  i thought it was adorable.  funny how you can have such an effect on a girl.  Start hooking up some more, she backs off and says we're moving too fast and that she likes me and didnt want to rush it.  fuck are you kidding me, did i really just get that line.  I tell her to just cuddle.  She tells me she cant even just cuddle because she knows she'll fuck me if she gets on top of me.  her words.  Didnt care too much, but what the fuck.  Man I wish my hosue was open, would have been a done deal in that situation.  Gonna see her again today actually and going out to Hwood later tonight.  That girl has 1/2 more shots with me, anything after that is stupid and retarded because she has to play the game of trying not to fuck because of this stigma that it's bad by society.  Overall was good date, everything went pretty smooth.

Learned/Things i did well

1) Lead
2) Introduced tension, maybe should've introduced more at points
3) good convo, was easy no anxiety, usually never is with my day 2's.  
4) When i knew I had her, i just sat back and enjoyed
5) we had little fights, disagreements (on the 1st fucking date, the fuck) Made things interesting and tested my frame, handled them by honestly not addressing them.  Could have just cut the thread a lot quicker instead of letting it settle in the air.  Caught me off guard, glad it happened 
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 June 10th

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Hit up hollywood spot with my 2 wings and another rsd dude, one of rick grime's wings also.  We rolled in 4 deep.  Our mission, to make tyler proud. Get in, immediately I see a seated 2 set and I say lets approach.  I go in introduce myself and set blows open.  End up talkin to her for a while, lots of eye contact, she's completely down.  Wing says "ok man ready to go?" I say yeah, and invite the girls to come lol.  He later told me he just wanted to eject, i said fuck that.  Lead my girl hand and hand to the stage area and just kinda chill there for a little bit with her.  Eventually go and check on my wing whose getting a drink at the time.  I tel him lets look for other girls but get her number.  He gets his girls number and i get mine.  I tell her were going to kick it later.  Kiss her on both cheeks and then get her lips.

Open up a few more sets which has been easier for me simply because outside of pick up I started being my authority in different areas of my life; reading, gym, diet etc.  self control and dicipline.  deadly combo.

As the night progresses I see these 2 people arguing infront of us.  Right behind them is a girl whose looking in terror.  After the situation is difused I just do a small open with her telling her how much I enjoyed her shock.  I notice she tells her friends to go and lit up when we were talking.  Didnt hit me that she was down.  If i followed the rule; if shes infornt of you, shes interested, I would have handled that situtation differently.  I walk around after this and actually see her, and make eye contact.  I give her a smerk which she reciprocates.  I go back to rick grimes, tell him to wing me really quick.  I go back to the area where she was at, and shes gone. fuck.  Well there goes that lesson learned.  But no.  There she is, alone, right infront of me.  I say hello, open, and we talk.  I take her back to my wings and introduce them all to her.  Couple seconds later she tells me she thinks she knows me.  I say nah, highly doubt it.  She takes out her phone and asks, is this your number? I say prob not.  I disreguard the number and start reading the text and holy shit, its the girl from 3110 that I ended up get away but got her as the night was ending.  Fucken small world.  Take her to dance, she tells me how hawt I am.  Stroking my ego, how sweet.  I throw in that I'm hungry to hook for logistics later that night and ask her what shes doing; shes free.  Nice change from the last time I saw her.  We go outside with all her friends after dancing and I try to go for the pull.  Her cousin isnt down for me to pull though.   This is after some BS story that I came up with.  Honestly, I thought I was being pretty convincing and the girl was with it, but wouldnt fly with the cousin.  Shit.  The girls end up finding out from some random dudes there that there is a mansion party after and they are down to hit it up.  Ok...cool, I can pull and close at this house.  We end up planning to meet at this party which was actually quite a distance away; around 20 mins away.  I try to get her couusin through some bull shit story again to roll with me so I'm "not alone" which works not well at all unfortunately.  Oh well.  Put on my music and off to an adventure at 3am.  

               Get there and no ones there.  FUCK. lmao.  Luckily one of the guys who invited them ends up coming couple mins after me.  Cool.  Learned that If we are going somewhere and youre not rolling with another member of the group, get all their numbers so you can solidify the logistics with everyone just incase someone fucks up in some way.  You are dealing with semi drunks you have to remember.  So cool they're there and inside the car is one of the girl's sisters so obviously they're coming through.  Spend some time talking to one of the girl's sisters which is a story for another time.  My girl eventually comes through and we learn that there was a misunderstanding and we're not allowed in the house.  lol.  ok..  What I did during this entire time however was talk to my girl's cousin, befriending her while my girl is off doing some other shit (mingling and getting alchohol for the supposed party that was now canceled)  This very much helped along the way.  Once we realize the "mansion party" isnt happening I plan to go back to my home turf and invite one of my homies to wing it.  We plan to smoke and drink at some cool spots around my city, they agree.

             Once we get to my boys house I already made a plan that I would go get the weed from my house and can only bring one person so i dont wake up anyone and I dont want to be lonely.  So i leave my buddy with one girl adn take my girl to my house.  :) .  My boy knows what im trying to do so its all good.  We get to my house, she sits on my bed as i grab the weed, grab the grinder/  I get everyting say, lets go and get on her start turning it up.  Clothes come off, ooo this is nice.  Pull out condom, she tells me shes allergic to latex.  FUCK.  lesson  learned here; have LATEX CONDOMS AND NON LATEX CONDOMS ALSO, KEY, HUGE.  She ends up giving me great fucken head and tells me it turns her the fuck on.  coooool.  Finish, she swallows and we leave.

         Hit some spots all around the city untill its fucking 8am.  We decide to call it a night.  They want some food So i drive them back to their car and make a plan to meet up later after they were done eating.  Obviously this was an all nighter situation.  Me and my buddy get into my garage and are waiting for them.  We give them 10 mins, they dont show.  Call it a night.  Right as I'm pulling back to my garage after dropping him off I get a call from her.  she tells me shes on my way.  I tell her cool.  To wrap this all up.  her friend is too out of it to drive back home so my girl sleeps in my house and her friend sleeps in the car in my garage. lol.  We get to my bed, its like 9:30 am at this point.  I turn her the fuck on, clothes come off and the latex condom isnt a concern.  I had to keep her really quiet, cause mother was literally in the other room.  Prob heard it all, oh well.  She told me to cover her mouth and told me how no other guys usually get a chance to do what I was doing as quickly.  I laugh it off in my head.  Glory times happen and we kncok the fuck out.  Wake up at 3pm, go get lunch and wish her farewell.  she tells me, you better text me after all this. haha.  cute.  she left her bracelet at my house too.  Till next time.

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 YES!!!!

You fucked her,good man
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