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Friday March 01,2013
Back to fundamentals

Hit up the bar scene yesterday with the wing.  We go in and my wing opens and then I go find a set to open also.  I see a chick sitting on the couch and open her up with some basic shit.  My goal was just to walk up say whats up, hows you're night (you're cute etc) but couldn't do it.  Instead I hook the set.  Tell her I love her, tell her im shy all while maintaing a very good vibe and just making her love me.  The logistics are awesome, shes from new hampshire and shes leaving in the end of the night with NOTHING to do.  Too bad it was too early in the night and I knew we were leaving and the girl wasnt a DIMMMME, but she was def cute as fuck.  After talking, bullshitting, i lead her to dance floor, talk bs some more, could have closed her here but really didnt give a shit, makeouts mean nothing to me, i have a few hundred of those under my belt (no ego...... ;) ) and dont feel like getting more of those.  Sometimes they actually do fuck up the interaction and take away the tension, if I do do it now, I usually will eaither make it very short or go for the cheek in a much more sexual way that a makeout.  

Next set was this other chick, we're talking, im bullshitting same shit, i love you, i hate you, marrige.  All the crap.  The girl was chill and very receptive but I didnt lead her anywhere which was my fault but wasnt at the point where  I cared too much. Next time however, ill prevent that mistake, will focus on leading.  Once again, mission of mine was just to say hello, but cant force myself to do that haha... idk if thats a good thing or a bad.  

Hit up 3110 , but really donit see too much potential and kinda bull shit around.  I think I hit up one chick there, eh.  

Next was victorian.  We walk in and I see cute blonde girl, and pass her like a puss. Wing says eh just get get the approach under your belt.  I go aheadand d the approach, very big.  Approach a few other sets, get some refrence experiance, common theme didnt lead them anywhere etc.  Didnt care much honestly because my goal was simple for the night, because I am in this for the long haul.  There was also a drunk girl I remember, chick was all over us fake boxing and shit with me.  Actually took a swing, its good she was like 5'2.  Cute lil blonde girl though.  Fucked around with her because I'm not messing with no drunk bitches.  Kept asking her how it feels.  she says how does what feel. I say yeah baby, maybe, sometimes.  Too fun, thank you julien sir.



Biggest lesson I learned was calibration AFTER the approach. Huge.  Going to keep that as priority.

-Untill next time. 
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March 9th 

Hit up Main again same objective, same routine.  Hit up bunch of sets, just small chunking my way back to consistant momentum.

First venue is Main on main:'
         Hit up a few sets, nothing too crazy.  Not a big crowd or sets around so after a few sets we dip to the next spot

3110:
Hit up venue, no line so we're happy.  We walk in do a few approaches.  One of them which I remember were 2 french girls.  I approach, extend the convo and just start fucking around with them.  This continues and me and my wing know we're staying in set untill they leave/untill the bitter end.  Did another approach before also whic hi was happy with.  opened with a simple "hey.....______ blah blah blah" was a nice cute pause after the hi which I love because it's just desensitizing me further to any "social pressure" to keep talking etc.  Next set I remember is 2 girls, one cute as fuck one with a beauty ass.  Her friend is getting hti on at the bar so i tap her and say some shit and offer my wing to save her.  She agrees tries to go get her and then comes back with her friend.  Cool, so now both of us are in set. Im getting to know the chick

RN:"Whats your name"
Girl: Jessica
RN: thats a shitty name
Girl: haha i know so common

ty alex, just breaks the ice very nicely.

Chat some more her friends drunk though so shes watching out for her.  Eventually dips and I see her leave, dont feel like going for number.   Shoulda been a little more physical from the beggining, even though I did grab her face because I was tired of her going in and out because she was standing while i was sitting, lol.  So that helped, still want more though.  

Hit up victorian then.

Same ol' its funny how its gotten to the point where everyone there knows us. lol.  Hit up a few sets, wing it for with this 2 cute girls and some fatty. Was flirting with cute blonde girl and just fucking around with the fatty a little bit.  The other hot girl is being very lame and just not talking at all, is just being wack.  I try to engage her, and plow but no use.  Eventually she pulls the set away.  This was earlier in the night actually (before 3110, I just suck at time framing all these stories, lol)  Open up some more with just simple Hey... _____ blah blah.  

Finally: Hit up circle bar (i know how much my wing loves that place) lol.  Open up like a set and call it a night

Overall good night, did my approaches.  Also for anyone reading this, my goal after taking a pretty large break (~10 months or so ) from the game, I'm just easing my way in.  Trust me, it's not as fun for me to go up to a chick and TRY not to fuck her, but simply just gettinig baack to being comfortable with approaching and everything in general.  Small chunking and Tyler's video of getting back into the game (and anything) It's starting to click again but I'm not going to try to go for the fuck when I'm still just getting used to approaching lots of sets.  Large shift in thinking and much more comfortable than I was before.  It'll all take time and don't worry for anyone following this ( Lays and some crazy ass stories will be soon to come ;] ) 

Lessons:
Little physicality in the beggining is fine ( I used to overesculate in the past because I didnt feel like talking, lol. ) 
Positive/Negative is cool, play around with that
The paradoxes is also fun thing to play around with and sprinkle.  (im shy, i love you, hate you, etc) 

Objective for next nights:
Go in for a real man blow out, see where that takes you.  Eventually will lead to Hi, youre adorable, who are you, etc- direct shit that I used to do all the time and lovveed with a passion.

Right now it's back to fundamentals fellas until I feel it's necessary.  I will constantly up the anti you can say every week.

**
Also chick from okcupid, cute asian girl I might meet up with If i feel like it along with another chick.  Both are down, but time is honestly an issue.  Will obviously report.

-Rightnow
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March 10th, 2013


Hit up same venues overall pretty shit night in terms of sticking to the process.  Frustrating to say the least because I know what I'm capable of and ridicilous to know you have control over something and aren't able to do it. Still approached which was chill, but obviously missed some good sets due to not taking action and not diving in and letting shit fall where it may.



video hit home and is exactly what me and the wing will be doing for the next couple of nights out.  I'm going to try to also start hitting up shit on thursday nights also, will def work some time out for that.

Lessons/Goals:

Approach.  Nothing more.

-R.N.
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lol i watched that the other day and didnt think it applied to us.

glad to hear him verify that vegas is infact the better spot for hotties
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Open, talk/fuck around --> LEAD
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http://www.rsdnation.com/brad/blog/spinning-plates-full-guide-getting-gi...

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Also sick post of just about everything one needs to know in terms of game:

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/332422/forum

good stuff.
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 March 16/17

Pretty similiar nights, hit the first venue nicely but dont take action after.  It now just comes down to the point where i have to take the responsibility and accept that I will take action and give myself a chance to explore into a girl and see who she is and if she fits into the life and the kidn of girl I want.

http://manwhore.org/eye-contact/

beautiful article which made me have muiltple epiphinies about some of the old shit I used to do that  I completely forgot about when I went out.

So far this is quite a muddy and grungy road back up with me and my wing, but I'm resiliant as fuck and wont take failiure on the one thing that I clearly have control over, which is myself.


Also will be starting a board of to do lists for each day:

Including shit like

Reading
Meditation
Gym
School related

These will be the main but I will throw in random things every once in a while anywhere from an adventure by myself or call up a bunch of people and plan something epic.  This will test my will power and will get me into the habit of doing something because I am the authority, not my fucking emotions-- no matter if I'm tired, "dont feel like it" I'm going to do it, no excuses.  

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 March 21st 

GAY CLUB + Actress K close.

End up going out with my boy, a very good musician for his 21st bday. We end up at Tigerheat...which is a hollywood club, but on thursdays its gay night.  haha, fucken glory. 

Key notes:

saw some sets and didnt approach, cant lie.  However there were some where I initially didnt want to approach, but ended up doing it anyway and it went well.

See black girl dancing, sexy girl, was super down, my boy keeps walking down and doesnt stop so i run up to him and say hold up bro.  Go back and hit up this girl

I get right infront of her, stare deep in her eye and hand of god her.  Pull her in, shes grinding on my dick eventually get her by her hips, spin her around and now we're facing each other.  Go for her neck, great, try to K close she actually slightly moves away, so im like ok haha cool, play it off because I know it's coming soon anyways.  Couple seconds later my fucken boy comes in to fuck around with me with his sister and she actualy catches this picture.

Evnetually eject adn actually smacked one of her friends in the face acidentally. lmao.  didnt give a fuck, moved on got my refrence experiance adn a little reminder of ":oh yeah, girls like you and you can get away with this shit." 






The picture was actully taken by the girl in the next story

This girl is an actress, appeared in some films, shes a beauty and also my boy's big sister lol.

We end up going in the dance floor, im just dancing man, having a great time, fucken around and it straight up seemed right after she saw me with that other girl, she wanted a peice of me and was like damn ok.  Our escualtion goes from just me clawing her and dancing side to side to eventually me moving her away and grabbing her by the hips when a girl tries to talk to her or anything.  There was a LOT, and i emphasize a very good amount of eye contact but calibrated so I give some and take it away and do my own thing.  I also love music and know about eveyr lyric to songs so I usually stare right at the girl and we sing to each other, very fun shit haha.  Evetnaully we're grinding, she does her cute lil girl thing where she puts her head back, i give her a quick kiss, soft lips, great kisser.  Push pull some more, literally. lol.  Eventually when I know we're going to leave soon, I can tell she doesnt want me to go and we're holding hands, shes rubbing my hand, just every indicator that she is hooked, hard.  Eventually remember my fav thing to do that i learned from brad.  The preview.  Had the first kiss behind her and then eventually push her a littloe away from me and then a second later grab her in hard, grab her face, stare, tension, boom.  Love that shit, I will always, always stare at the girl in the eyes for at least a COUPLE of seconds before kissing her.  That little glow you get from her face, priceless.  Plus it makes for a SEXY make out sesh.  Bite her lip near the end and make it not too short, but not to long. 

Anyways, eventually walk out of the venue, i scan for logistics.  Im dropping my boy off and i tell her ill call her right after I do that.  She says to keep him safe and i say, i will.  Then added the , do you trust me? line (ty julien) lol she says I do.  investment.  I drop him off, call her and plan to meet with her.  Its about 3am at this point.  I tell her to give me 10, Im assuming she meant ill call her back.  I end up there and fucken doesnt pick up the phone.  Would have been pissed if it was far.  Ended up taking a 3am ride on my motorcycle down PCH, beauty times.

Going out tonight, same goal as always, to appraoch.  Make shit happen, give yourself more oppertunities.  
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 Friday 22nd
Chillin back


Hit up same venues again but this time try a different approach, a night more focused on being chill and taking action.  Just chilled back while wing is hitting up some sets early in the night.  He hits up some birthday group and I end up talking to the 25 yr old birthday girl, hot blonde chick.  Beautiful eye contact, been focusing on that more really and can see the improvement in my sets.  Forgot how big of a part it was in my game previously, that was the majority of the game.  Quick glitch in the system is if you stare at a girl's eye you will be in presance and glory happens from that.  

Some noteable things from the night:

Hit up asian girls, fucked around with them and then hit up a older asian chick on the dance floor.  At first she blows me off and is like we're not interested.  I stand there looking at the asian chick staring right in her eye just shaking my head.  She's keeping eye contact.  I decide to plow, dont hook but I sucessfully plowed the set longer than I usually would have done with a reaction like this.  Im used to good reactions, want more bad ones (be careful what you wish for) just so I can get used to actually having it when the girls dont light up right when I hit them up.

Did a good job:
Opened sets that I wanted, without "momentum" just control of myself.

Still Improve:
Still was some oppertunities wasted with sets I didnt approach that this time I have to accept and do it anyway, no matter the context.  Roll dice and put yourslef into the situation is the sucess, i know inside I can handle what happens next.  Need to prove it to my brain again.  
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 Sat March 23rd

K/Number close : Bahston Girls and annoying comsetology bitches

Hit up main street at around 11:30 tonight and headed to first venue.  The line was fucken ridicilous for it so we decide to pass and go to option #2.  

Enter venue my wing gets into set, im just fucking around, dancing just enjoying my time.  Eventually see a 2 set, one cute girl one fatty that i tell myself im going to hit up.  Hesitate, but eventually hit it up.  The girl giving me one word answers and bull shit but I stay in anyway because I know eventually she'll turn if I win the frame battle.  I call her out on the bullshit and plow and stay in set untill I eventually get tired of her.  Not worth the trouble.

End up seeing another cutie, and right before a guy seems to chat her and her friend up so I walk up to her and in her ear tell her to "tell me when you want me to save you from the creeper" I've done this before with girls/guys found its a great way to see dynamics and also she'll usually laugh and be like haha please and then you're set from there.  Swithc it up and ask her name and shit, shes from Boston so i fuck around with her about her accent etc.  Shes very receptive I already know this shit is pretty set.  Keep talking to her she's actually a pretty cool chill but logistics were found out a little late (so i def want to view logistics much earlier than i did in the interaction) 

End up leading her to the dance floor on a high (obviously we're hand and hand), as im walking to it right before we enter that big ass crowd, i grab her, throw her against a wall, and we make out. Cool.  continue leading to front stage .Dance a little bit, go back to her friends and try to introduce my wing to the set but it goes in a funny fashion.  lol she tells him she knows hes just winging for me or sme shit like that , ahha whatever.  Was supposed to meet up with Approachmachine 88 also, my bad for missing out, we'll get together another another week.  

Anyways we just fuck around the venue and i take her to little couch area where we eventually are vibing. im telling her about me and pretty much just establishing a me and her connection. At one point we';re sitting oin the couch and theres that silence which once again flashes back to the old days and just as it did before, Im looking into her eyes and she jumps on me.  Obviously leave her wanting more, pull back with a lip pull on the bottom lip. kinda my signature move, that and the top lip.  Too descriptive?good.  Plan the day 2 with , have coffee with me tomorrow etc.  She tells me shes going to the beach the next day and she tells me shes here only till wed.  Debating if to go tomorrow, might just resched so I dont have to take her away from her friends which might be a pain in the ass.  Wil prob tell her some shit came up and ill get her on monday whiuch is my day off. 

Will also text the actress that I really want to have sex with also,  so i'm going to re initiate the convo in a couple days also prob.  Other than that, good times.

Key notes:
Be your own authority, tell yourself, im going to go say what up to the girl and you go do it.  You know all the theory you need to know, you know how to communicate and when to throw girls at walls making them wet and when to fuck them.  You know all this but optomize your oppertunities by approaching muiltiple sitations.

Keep plowing even when the girl is being "difficult"  it only helps to prevail through that and blast through that shit.  Sometimes even when I know its not going to go anywhere, just to stay there and believe it will and watch that shit flip.  That will be a goal that I want to get very good at.  

Going to try to start going out 3 times a week now, Th.F.Sat

so far haven;t missed a week of gaming yet, great start 2013 :)

cheers
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