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iiSwoosh

iiSwoosh

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 Well shit, looks like I'm back, in college now. For those that don't know me I've had a previous field report, which I edited because of personal reasons...but yes, to reiterate, Im back on the grind.  Will post the FR if I find it, lol its burried somewhere deep in my histroy.  Been quite lazy over the past couple months, got with a couple girls and kept them around which got me lazy as fuck and didnt go out for 10 fucking months.  Well, breaks over, and has been over for the past month and a half.  I'm going to start the field reports from this day.  If you're curious what I've been doing since I've been back, the summary is simply hookups every night but the lessons I learn are far better than any or hookup you can get (for now).  I feel like today is going to be the best day to start the reports because I finally know exactly what I have to do to hit the next level and at the point where everything else is handled completely (closing, esculation, throwing you against a wall and looking you deeply in the eye and pushing her away from a simple makeout.  

PS* if you want to wing and you're chill and approach hard hit me up on pm (ages 21-26)


I DO NOT DRINK, THAT MEANS EVEN "ONE SHOT" nada.  
if i do..it will be on a very rare ocasion; birthday of a homie or just something rare.  

What I want right now in terms of girls:

Abundance.  Abundance to the point where I have no time to hang out with half of the girls that I have in my life but will stay make room for the ones i actually like.  Because of the lack of time I have with school and work I will only let a handfull of girls in my real circle where I actually have interest in knowing them and potentially taking it somewhere more than just a fuck buddy.  For now it'll just be stricly fuck buddies because I have no time for anything more UNLESS the girl really shows me something special that makes me want to wifey her down.  Am i going for a girlfriend right now at this point in my life? probably not but there is always a possibility depending on how big of an impact the chick makes.  

I try to make my field reports as descriptive as possible and will post convo's that I remember and hopefully it helps someone else vicariously like it helped me.  
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 Saturday Jan 19, 2013

"This conversation is turning me on so much"

---Hit up Mainstreet with some of my homeboys and my fellow rsd wing, ZackG--we've been hitting shit hard this entire month, shotout to him even though he didnt wing the fatty today (motherfucker) haha.  Our mini mission tonight was simply hit the venue and hit two sets up one after another without any hesitation.  We end up at victorian, a sick ass spot that completely filled up.  Beautiful blondes, brunettes, just females in geleral, there was some talent tonight.  

We walk in and I open a 2 set, chat for just a second and head inside.  Cool, one down, lets get the next set.  We walk upstairs and zackg hits up a 3 set while im chilling with my homies and eventually wing him with a sexy londe while he has a brunette.  Blonde is being boring as fuck, to the point where I just start fucking with her.  Set eventually dies down and we bounce and hit up another set before dipping.  There were some conversations here and there with others but nothing to memorable.  I also ended up buying a jack and coke which was fucking 13$ which was nasty as fuck ( I dont love alch, always sober) and gave it to my homie instead to kill.  Eventually dip out of the place and hit up another bar

Next bar we walk in and make a mentle note to make friends with the bouncer or bringing a grip of girls with us so we can just walk in, fuck a line.  We actually end up introducing ourselves to the bouncer right before we left and man will that makea  difference next time we hit up that spot.  Anyways, we get into the spot and I see 2 girls with 4 guys around them at the bar, hell yeah im hitting that up.  I open up the girl, just a simple smooth "hey"  she responds with a nice soft voice and locked eye contact, I knew I had her right there.  First thing I said to her was "whats your favorite color" she says "did you ask me my favorite color" which i respond with BR tonality, "yup" while looking at her in the eyes the whole time.  The vibe the entire time is more chill and there are slight perfect pauses that just set the vibe upfront correctly.  She says "it's red"  I look at her friend then and say, look, I like your friend, can i borrow her for 5 minutes.  Her friend is completely cool with it (only reason I asked because it was a 2 set, otherwise i would have just told her, ay, im taking your friend for 5 minutes, or just simply tellin her to come through.  Different set, different dynamic.  

Take her to dance, we're dancing face to face, just getting to know her.  Quick questions, just simply the shit that julien mentions in his manifesto.  Just wait for the vibe to settle in, grab the back of her hair and go for neck, she loves it and grabs me closer in.  Cool, dance some more, and still getting to know her, and actually get into a debate about gun control, lol.  I isolate her further and keep moving her to a quiter spot.  We';re talking, im telling her my position on it and she throws out the "fuck, this conversation is turning me on right now so fucking much."  I try to pull at this point, but might have had a little bit of an outcome in my mind and she responds with I can't leave my friend, fucking 2 sets.  I didnt try to fuck around with logistics, i dont know why but def just made a mental note to still apply and exhaust the pull, number is always second.  fuck a number, always go for the pull.  Eventually dip hang out with my friends untill lights out and talk to some other girls in the mean time, but I already had my girl on lock and did my "mission" so I was just chilling.  Eventually go find my girl, shes dancing with some 6'4 black dude.  I see her grab her, bring her in close to me, and see the dude roll back his eyes with a "god damnit, just got swooped by this motherfucker."  His buddy tried to stop me and said Nah man.  I look at the guy and say " I know her buddy" (in a fuck you voice tone)  Shit was done from that point

I try something and got her to invest again and tried getting her number even though she already had mine.  I actually stopped myself and said, you got my number if you want to chill hit me up, if not, thats cool while leaving with that last look real deep in her eye leaving that tension alive.  Get home, get this text vvvv, I'll prob end up setting up a day 2 if I have time.  I have another chick that I have yet to set up a day 2 with also so we'll see what ends up happening.





Untill next time.

Goal for next time:
-Keep the approaches going, one after another, after another. (2 non stop is the goal)

Lessons:
-Approaching non stop right when you get into the venue is key
-Not kissing them on the lips was key, i made a concious effort to stick with just the neck and the cheek and actually pretend like Im gonna kiss her and not go through with it.  Keep the tension there.
-Put your number in their phone, plan a date beforehand and put the responsbility of hitting you up on them.  (gonna field test this a few more times)

cheers.
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Doge~

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Where do you go out? I'm in LA now but I'm helping with filming so I can't go out with too many wings except when the crew is out of town and I'm not tagging along.

I'll PM you next time I have free time to go out by myself.
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 Sounds good haze, we're out Thursdays, friday's and saturdays normally.  Pm me your # and we'll all hook up. 
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 Jan 24th, 2011

Rock Bar

End up rolling through to hollywood after a failed attempt at main street being sucky because of the previous drizzel.  We find parking which is pretty empty for a thursday night and head over to the bars over there.  Go into the first one and it is EMPTY, like 1 couple and 7 dudes chilling.  We just piss and dip and actually make friends with the bouncer (darnell?) pretty sure that was his name, wished him a good night.  End up at some rock bar where we literally see 1 set.  We open them up and he gets his girl and I get mine,  We planned on just blowing ourselves out and then hitting up UCLA or a frat party possibly, something other than this 1 set bar,  Funny enough this ends up turning into the set for the night.  I start talking to my girl, started off with plowing and continued on untill the set just hooked strongly.  This girls easily prob around 26-27, lol and we have everyone around us looking at the two 21 year olds macking on the only girls in the spot.  End up moving the girl, get the kiss and she tells me, thatsall for now (hinting at, there will be more later)  I scan for logistics, they SUCK and we end up just going to Mels Diner with them grabbing food and just chilling.  Overall it was a solid set, talked to the girl about everything, smart girl adn shes an actress.  Will prob use her as a fuck buddy if we ever end up in hollywood, since her spot is so close by.  Gave her my number, told her you have it, use it if you want (in a very i dont give a fuck what you do kind of way)  Because honestly, I really dont care.  I'm at the point where we're meeting a new girl every time we go out, abundance baby, its coming back nicely and better than ever before :)

Goal for tomorrow is to shatter this approaching shit and just hit shit hard.  Ill also update and tell you what she ends up texting me. 

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 Friday Jan 25th, 2013
GLORY

Hit up mainstreet with the wing,, rain all over and whole time I was wondering how the hell anyone is actually going to go out.  Man was I wrong, lesson learned. 

Walk by some random bar and chick tells us there is no cover so we say fuck it, and head in.  It's a very nice place, mostly an older crowd present but still good reguardless.  Wing gets in set, I wing him with some blondey I didnt want to talk to.  Was a good warm up set, but that was basically everything there.  We decide to leave but I sneak in an approach with a 2 set,. fuck around with them, plow, but since it was my first set the plowing worked but in my head I was like what the fuck am i saying, haha.  Eventually bounce and hit the victorian

We get in and it is pretty damn full.  We approach a bunch of sets, first set was this sexy brazilian girl and her friend.  I open WHILE walking to her and I notice right as i say hi, that my words are coming out faster than they should be.  I try to land the plane but i blew one of the wings haha.  I'm recovering and fuck around with her get her laughing but her friend dips and takes her with her.  Plowed though to land the plane, man shit is key.  Opened a couple more sets there and made friends once again with one of the bouncers (so key, especially when they know you by name and face)  We open a bunch more sets to the point where I dont even remember how many we opened or how many sets.  All attractive beautiful girls, its a beautiful thing.  Opened some girl in line too and laughed later on how we didnt continue the convo simply just because that shit just landed in my lap.  

Eventually went to a different bar, did some more approaches.  Mostly focused today on opening and making it numb to the point where I can see and go automatically.  Man was there a day and night difference from even a week ago.  It's a beautiful thing.  

We see these beauties infront of us when we're walking home and my wing was like just do it, get blown out and call it a night.  I hesitated and didnt go in when they were standing fucken still.  Eventually cut through the bull shit and opened them (situational opener) and hooked.  Got the blonde girl while wing had the other girl.  We end up actually losing them because we didnt lead them to another spot which they were looking for.  Would have been an easy fucken pull, damn, lesson learned.  

Overall beautiful times and damn what an improvement.


lessons:
1) Approach, teach your brain its cool, it's the only way.  There will be times where you siked yourself out, go anyway, man will that build charadter
2) Go out, even if it rains- consistancy is key

Goals:
1) Keep going out 3 times a week
2) Open and plow, that is the only goal for the next couple of weeks

cheers. 
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 Goals that I'm also sticking to everyday:

1) Meditate at least 11 mins a day
2) Watch TED talks at least 1 a day
3) Read for at least 30 minutes a day
4) Gym 3 times a week/ Bulk diet
5) Go out a MIN of 2 times a week (3 is ideal)
6) School work will always come first and then play.


In the future I will add a little like

-more adventures
-trying new things, shit I never used to do years ago.  

:)
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 Feb 1st

Went to  Hwood hit up some bars all I remember is approaching sexy puerta rican girl, who was very down.  It was the first set so i moved her away from the group we just chatted, plowed talked about some random bs, jango the movie etc.  Moved her to the bar and this is where the fact that it was my first set of the night killed me.  I take her down her number but tell her to take mine at to which shes like nope, and i just stare at her im like im arragont we can do this all night. \ Eventually give in (sigh) and get her # even though I know it is the wrong thing to do lol.  Best learning point was a random guy walks up to the set to try to hit on her.  I immeditately open the guy, said hey sup man, i know you? he says nah i dont think so. I say oh, whats your name man, he says his namea and I say, cool man and completely turn away ignoring him and start talking to the girl.  Guy walks away.  Set eventually fizzles and i text the girl just to fuck around bc i know it's not going anywhere, so I have my fun there.  

We end up at mainstreet after since Hwood was kind of a bust.  We get into the venue and I appraoch, try to follow the locking in rule.  Eventually get this one girl grinding on me basically giving me a lap dance, grabbing her ass etc, but honestly all i was trying to do was warm up and enjoy the process of locking in (haha) I wanted other girls so I basically told her ok cool im good. Approached a few others but nothing too crazy, was overall a good night.

Feb 2nd

Hit up some place where you cook your own food with a couple of girl homies and homies in Korea town.  Was fun but had to leave early to meet up with the wing to pimp.  We meet up and hit mainstreet.  First place we go to is something that always cracks, it's one place that is free before 11 and is just beauties, dimes, kablam everywhere.  love it.  Get in venue and I immediately jump into set.  I'm focusing the entire time on just locking in, start off slow and adding a little more to every set.  I eject adn the girls give me a "aw you're leaving" kind of goodbye lol.  Next set that I remember (lot of the sets I forgot because we did hit up a good amount, they're all just  coming to my head as I write this)  was a girl standing alone with her hands crossed looking pissed.  I open ask her what up, she telsl me she and her boyfriend got into a fight.  I ask how long theyve been going out ( because I wont fuck with anyone thats been going out for 1 year+, if its less, ill swoop so fast) luckily she said 7-8 months but told me it was "actually 1 month" I told her we're going to make him jelous by making out and how I would just grab her and usually I wouldnt give a fuck that she had a bf or not.  She was very receptive and actually she told me the bf was in the venue lmao, so I told her to give me her number she did and held eye contact the entire time leaving.   Actually saw her later at the night fighting with this dude, just yelling and shit.  I should be hearing from her soon, ha

Next set was actually a set that my wing got blown out of.  I approach with just hey, and then just plow.  This girl is easily a 8.5, beauty, tall sexy blone.  She telsl me shes from minesota so i fucking around with her and talking about the Laker gamae from earlier that day.  Tell her shes cute she responds you are too with a smile.  I pull her in, we're dancing and then her fucking friend comes in cocks block hard.  Most of the time ,esepcially if its a guy ill get out of it and just continue talking to the girl but honestly at that point there were so many hot girls I really didnt give a fuck.  What i took from this set was my plowing was very good and I was actually talking very loud so there were no "what"

Next set that I remember was another dime peice blonde.  I touch the wall and approach her.  It goes very well, my gola was just to get the lockin period down so we talk and it was one of those sets where the girl is down and I knew it.  Let my wing actually get at her because I knew my only goal in that set was to just approach and take a real man's blowout/plow.  Occupied the friend while my boy talks to the dime, her friend was recently single, cool,and still was a cutie but no way I can fuck her and not the dime.  Wing a lil more and then eject to do some other sets.

We get a good amount of other sets that i dont even remember (which is a damn good thing)

What I did well:
1) Went in venue and automatically approached and added to every set
2) plowed, talked loud 

Work on
1) Keep the process going, add a little more everytime.  Start slow and then eventually just hit stride after a few approaches and hit your natural self and let that shit shine 
2) I wanna swoop more.  So many chodes talking to hot girls and im going to steal the girls away from them, ive done it before and want to work on doing it more. so fun for me, haha
3) Keep following the process



the first 3-4 mins are the most important for me.

Goals:
1) get in and add a little more to every set, every new venue also.
2) keep moving them around and get physical from the beggining more (make it a hug, w\e)
3) Be direct
4) Stay 100% sure.
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 Dear we approach a bunch of sets, first set was this sexy brazilian girl and her friend. I open WHILE walking to her and I notice right as i say hi, that my words are coming out faster than they should be. I try to land the plane but i blew one of the wings haha. I'm recovering and fuck around with her get her laughing but her friend dips and takes her with her. Plowed though to land the plane, man shit is key. Opened a couple more sets there and made friends once again with one of the bouncers (so key, especially when they know you by name and face) We open a bunch more sets to the point where I dont even remember how many we opened or how many sets. All attractive beautiful girls, its a beautiful thing. Opened some girl in line too and laughed later on how we didnt continue the convo simply just because that shit just landed in my lap.
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 yes^ lol. thank you for the quote
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Alright going to start this up again, been real busy. bleh

Feb 23rd/ Feb 24th , 2013

Hit up manstreet again consitantly 2 nights in a row for the first time in a week or so.  Was just 2 mediocre nights that I didnt take good action, or at least as much as I wanted to.  Literally was having girls walk by me that I normally would open but just didn't.  Realized I have to ease into this process, and I'm not going to be at the calibur of where I was few months ago since I took a break and even though I've been getting pretty good results, there are still blindspots in my game that I want to address before going completely ham.  One of them is literally the initial approach.  for some reason, the act of walking up them at SOMETIMES is strange to me.   I'm comfortable with slamming girls against walls, making out and pulling their hair 5 mins in when I meet them but this is after I actually approach, lol. Some sets I'll do it perfectly and other times theres something stopping me, not anxiety, not fear (I literally feel calm and relaxed 99% of the time i'm at a venue) it's just something invisible that is preventing me from motion.

My plan:

Going to follow tyler's plan on keeping it simple and working my way back into it while addressing my sticking point (see girl-->go)  

I will make it a priority to literally for as long as I need untill I get this down to a level where it's very efficiant and to where I am more comfortable of approaching than not.  

The process:

I will simply open (Hey, I'm ___, you're cute) followed by simple bull shit convo, nothing more.  I dont want more.  In the beggining I might even rig it even more and just start off by introducing myself and asking how their night is going and BOUNCE to the next set with the same shit.  that is it.  Will report back on how this works.

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