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December 9th, 2016
I lied to her.
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Ghettoguru

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Last night this girl from the college B'ball team invited to her dorm room. We did the deed. In the middle of all that she asked me if I told my friend that I was going to see her. I lied and said no.
I made the rookie mistake of texting my friend this morning. When he asked if I went over I said yes.

I JUST got a text message from her:
HER: You told me you didn't tell AJ you came over.
HER: that was a lie.

I forgot this guy know A LOT of people especially on the sports teams.
How she found out? i don't care.
I know i have to confront her but I don't know how to do it and what to say to remain on somewhat good terms.
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 I'd say downplay it man. A chick read a text I wrote to my friend the other day when he asked how she looks and I said "She is a 6, but a certified freak" and flipped out on me. I acted like it wasn't shit and that's how she treated it. So yea control the frame. Act like it's no big deal. Like "yea I guess I told him, I forgot. What's the big deal?" or some shit like that I dunno.
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Situations like this is why they have "don't shit where you eat".

Either don't "shit" (don't do things you don't want to get caught doing, such as lying)
or don't shit "where you eat" (if you're gonna use lies and tricks, preferably do it with people you won't be seeing again; aka save it for clubs, malls, streets etc.)

I used to lie every once in a while to DHV myself; what happens is girls have fucking RADARS with this shit and once they pick up on 1% of it they will SHIT TEST YOU like crazy! I failed some of the tests hard and it was NOT pretty in the end. She was someone from my social circle too so even though I don't think she told anyone, it really hurt my confidence when I was out with a group she too was in.

Since then, I don't shit where I eat :)
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Ghettoguru

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 *sigh* fuck it lol.
yeah it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be. I thought i'd go honest but she took over the convo.
I called her prior to pre-gaming with my boys.
I started with "i'm sorry" she inevitably started talking shit.... this is the part where i shut the fuck up.
Meanwhile i'm not making a big deal out of it nor reacting to what she's saying, my boys trying to contain their laughs in the background.
She said ended her speech with "never again, it's over....it's over. Bye"

@Julien lololol.
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 "i'm sorry" you made a big deal out of it
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The best thing to do when someone caught you lying, is to keep lying.
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 You
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 That's not very cool :\
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Ghettoguru

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Well she went chasing after the truth and got it lol.
Congrats to her... that's REAL good...
I'll write this up in my FR later
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Immediately I thought of the dane cook joke about lying lmfao!! Thanks Julien for linking that haha
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