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December 8th, 2016
YBP's Daygame Uni Adventures Pt. 1
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YBP

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Join Date: 12/17/2012 | Posts: 188

Newbie journal chronicling interactions and ponderings. Inspired by the not-so-late and very great Cat 3.0 journal (which you should all check out in case you've been living under a rock at the bottom of ocean the past decade).
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YBP

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Join Date: 12/17/2012 | Posts: 188

Tuesday

Wake up. Head to school. See a cute girl sitting by herself so I sit right next to her. "Hey, what's up? I'm YBP."  To my surprise, she's very smiley and friendly. Doesn't give me much to work with, but I plow. Chit chat for a few minutes, get her digits, jet to class.

Get out of class and meet some friends. Bullshit for a while before going our separate ways.

Hang out with a suuuperrr cute girl I # closed last week, but recently found out she has a boyfriend. Since then I've switched from "game mode" to "friend to friend". It's cool since I'm working on expanding my peer group a bit.

Leave her and take the train home. See a cute girl board and almost open but out and kinda linger. Don't have anything to do so I tell myself I'll get off when she does and open her. We exit the train, I stop her with a comment on her jacket (which was SUPER nice) intending to switch to direct afterward. She's pretty uncomfortable and a bit hestiant to give me her name when I ask out of courtesy. *Shrug* wuteverrrr. I immediately realize she isn't nearly as cute as I thought she was, so I end the convo quickly.

Realize I'm around my friend's place, so I give him a call and grab some late afternoon lunch to catch up with him. I get back on the train and head home.

Not much today in comparison to last week, but it's cool. I'm really glad I stuck to my guns and ended up stopping train girl, even if it was only to find out she was pretty uggs.

Until next time!
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Wednesday

Get off the train still half asleep, see a cute girl. Stop her for directions. She's smiley and laughing and responding super well to physicality. I tell her to sit next to me on the bus. We talk some more. She keeps telling me how outgoing I am, and insisting I must be in a fraternity or something because of how friendly and cool (Shoutout to Tyler!) I am. I keep telling her I'm actually super shy and scared of girls, lol. We get to school. I get her # & tell her we're hanging out later when we're both out of class. We hug and hold some intense eye contact for a few seconds. Feel like I could have/should have went for a kiss here, but didn't.

Half jokingly hit on some girls selling stuff around campus. I tell them they're the cutest, annoying sellers I've ever seen. They brush me off. I laugh.

Meet friends, bullshit a bunch. See a girl I had class with before, stop her, tell her I have a crush on her (lol), get her #.

Go to class. Leave class. Bump into friends again.

See a girl smile at me so I immediately open her. "Hey, how's it going? I'm YBP." Get her # tell her we're hanging soon. <-- I really like these less direct/straightforward openers when I'm at school. It's a super high pressure environment, and I used to open direct but I would neverrrrr get anywhere. Girls would just get uncomfortable and I'd have to salvage it and show i'm not some creeper. Instead, I drop intent later in the convo and/or through text or the day 2. I think this slower, longer, gradual game is way more solid for school. I still open direct when I'm on da streetz or pretty much anywhere but school, though.

Literally seconds later I see another girl who's friends with a friend. Introduce myself to her, chat for a bit, get her #, tell her we'll hang in a bit. I end up getting lunch by myself instead because she has class soon and doesn't have enough time to get there, eat, then come back, but I really want to hit the spot up so I go anyways lol.

Open a girl at the bus stop while waiting for the bus to get to the food place. She says she's on her way to dance, so I give her a spin handshake and then dance with her for a bit. She's cracking up and can't believe I'm real lol. We sit next to each other on the bus and I # close before she exits.

I eat a bomb ass late afternoon lunch, head back to school, finish some homework up, get to my last class, then jet home. Hitting up all these #s now, lots of responses so far. Time to try for the day 2s.

Til next time :)
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-Spaceman-

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Join Date: 07/13/2012 | Posts: 363

Good to see another university journal. Keep up the good work bro!
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Haha

Right on man, thanks for the kind words and shout out.  I was like who is copying my nonsense... oh!! ;)

Start small and work on being consistent.  It's only when you really dedicate yourself to this that you can slowly ramp up the intesity of your energetic investment and eventually put a bunch of energy into this.  You have to begin slowly and focus on consistency. 

I'll be watching (:
-Cat
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Thursday

Wake up to a text from the girl I sat next to Tuesday. She says she can't make it for lunch but would love to reschedule. I'll be following this one up soon. She genuinely seems interested, so we'll see what comes from this.

Head to school. Go to class. Hit the library to do lots of reading.

On my way out the library I happen to bump into a girl I have class with. I vibe with her for a while. Her friends meet up with us. One is absolutely amazing. I immediately focus my attention to her. Lazer eye contact, lots of physicality right off the bat. Starts really small with our knees pressing against each other, me putting my arm around her, holding her hand, etc. We jokingly roleplay a bit. I get her # and leave. <-- This one is super solid. Def following up with her soon.

Go to another part of campus and introduce myself to a girl sitting by herself. Chat her up. Moments later, the girl I had just left passes by. I awkwardly wave and say hi. Lol, whoops.

I find out the girl sitting by herself has a boyfriend (legit) so I stop trying to "game" her and just be friendly and cool. I meet up with a friend and end the day by seeing some friends.

Friday

The usual routine. Wake up, head to school, go to class.

I get out of class and see this girl from far away with a pretty solid physique. Walk up "Hey, how's it going? I'm YBP." She doesn't hear and asks for my name again. We're standing face to face and this girl is suuuuuperrrrr ugly. Seriously disappointed by this, so I tell her I just wanted to know where she got her scarf (lol) and politely introduce myself to her friend before taking my leave.

Train girl from Wednesday randomly texts me a wink face. I reply pushing for a meet up. She says she would but she usually leaves school as soon as she's done with class. I tell her we should hang out sometime after school instead. No response.

Bump into an old friend and chat with her over coffee for a solid half hour before meeting up with friends to end the day.

Work in the morning, so not going out tonight, unfortunately.

Just one approach today as I spent the majority of my day in class/with friends, but I did set up two day 2s for the upcoming week. Eh, still could have done better..

Til next time!
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YBP

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Saturday

Walk down the steps toward the train after work. See a couple of girls. Walk up, open situational, introduce myself to A, chat with her for a bit. Introduce myself to B and notice she seems much more receptive than A, so I shift my attention to her. Their train arrives and girl B is yelling her # as she runs to catch the train. I pull out my phone only to find out it's dead.

Take a nap. Girl from class texts me. She wants to see me. This girl has been sexting me all types of shit the past few days, so I figure she knows what's up.

We get dinner at a cheap taco place. I drive her home. Park. Take her to the back seat. Pick her up and put her on top of me. Make out hardcore. Try to finger her, no dice. Try undoing her bra, no dice. She's thrusting her hips and we're basically fucking with clothes on, but she refuses to let me physically escalate.

I have no idea how to handle this (I guess it's "LMR"?...) and kinda just sit there thrusting my dick through her pants while she's rocking her hips back and forth until she says she has to go home.

This is the second time I've been in this EXACT same situation, making out with a girl in my car hardcore but not being able to physically escalate. When I brush against their thigh and try to work my way up, they always push my hand away (albeit while still giggling/smiling/etc). It's not like a "NO, STOP. RAPE!!" rejection, it's just bullshit that I know I need to get throguh somehow. I just don't know what to do to get past this. Any help from some more advanced guys would be great.....I seem to be able to get day 2s and makeouts easy enough, but my ability to calibrate and get past this LMR bullshit is horrendous.
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YBP

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No approaches Sunday or Monday. In short, work + sleep deprivation + cold weather = me being lazy.

However, I have used the time off in a some what productive way. I'm starting to analyze my behavior patterns - both good and bad - in order to see how I can modify them for the better.

Since I began trying to cultivate my skill with women two-ish months ago, I stopped hitting the gym. I've also been slacking as far as school and nutrition goes.

I don't think this means I should stop trying to cultivate the pickup skillset; rather, I should balance the things that allow me to maintain a healthy eco-system of positive emotions while simultaneously working on success with women. Things just need to be a bit more balanced out.

I need to focus on regularly hitting the gym, utilizing my downtime to study + complete homework, meditating, cooking nutritious meals, et cetera. All while making a conscious effort to continue trying to get better with women.

And on that note, I'm going to cook a meal and finish some reading for my class tomorrow. Peace!
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Tuesday

Go to class. Do some half assed approaches. No #s.

Hang out around campus with a girl I met last week. Spend 248384 hours in the library.

Hit the gym. Go home.

Blah. Uneventful day.
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Go through some of my FRs and notice the following principles I'm gonna relay to you:

1) I always close girls in the closing location.  

YOUR CAR ISNT A CLOSING LOCATION lolololol.  That's a super low % closing location man.  You need a BED!

2) I vary sexuality.  I use sexual language on the date then bring it back and talk about our families.  I wallslam her then bring her back on the couch and just stroke her leg.  I take my dick out and then put it away.  

You need to escalate and SLIGHTLY deescalate during sex.  This is an experience thing which is probably why I get it quickier than other dudes -- I have a lot of experience cailbrating this part of my game so that I can sense RIGHT BEFORE she is going to pull away and I do it first.

This creates sexual tension and intrigue.  

If you just go full force the whole time, esp in an uncomfortable situation, shes going to swat you away.

3) Make her sexually escalate on you by taking her body and putting it in an easy configuration to escalate.  I don't force a girl to blow me... buuuuuut... I often take my dick out and watch her look at it.  I often will get on my knees on my bed with her on her side (with my dick right in her face) and, as I'm taking off my shirt... what do you know... she puts it in her mouth.  I will take her hand and put it on my cock and tell her she's making me do bad things.  I'll get RIGHT UP IN HER FACE without kissing her to make her "feel" the kiss before it happens.  

These 3 things will get you a long way.  
-Cat
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Saturday

Walk down the steps toward the train after work. See a couple of girls. Walk up, open situational, introduce myself to A, chat with her for a bit. Introduce myself to B and notice she seems much more receptive than A, so I shift my attention to her. Their train arrives and girl B is yelling her # as she runs to catch the train. I pull out my phone only to find out it's dead.

Take a nap. Girl from class texts me. She wants to see me. This girl has been sexting me all types of shit the past few days, so I figure she knows what's up.

We get dinner at a cheap taco place. I drive her home. Park. Take her to the back seat. Pick her up and put her on top of me. Make out hardcore. Try to finger her, no dice. Try undoing her bra, no dice. She's thrusting her hips and we're basically fucking with clothes on, but she refuses to let me physically escalate.

I have no idea how to handle this (I guess it's "LMR"?...) and kinda just sit there thrusting my dick through her pants while she's rocking her hips back and forth until she says she has to go home.

This is the second time I've been in this EXACT same situation, making out with a girl in my car hardcore but not being able to physically escalate. When I brush against their thigh and try to work my way up, they always push my hand away (albeit while still giggling/smiling/etc). It's not like a "NO, STOP. RAPE!!" rejection, it's just bullshit that I know I need to get throguh somehow. I just don't know what to do to get past this. Any help from some more advanced guys would be great.....I seem to be able to get day 2s and makeouts easy enough, but my ability to calibrate and get past this LMR bullshit is horrendous.
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Cat, have I ever told you how much I absolutely love you?

Wednesday

Wake up late, skip breakfast (unfortunately), go to class.

Get out of class. Bump into a friend. See a cute girl getting coffee. "Hi. How are you?" Tell her I like her bag. Chit chat for a bit, but then I bump into my other friend. I leave her without going for the #. I'll prob see her around and go for it later.

Grab lunch with the girl who dumped me two months ago. She's the reason I got into the game. As we sit there eating, I can't help but feel so FUCKING cool. It seriously makes me so happy thinking about how much things have changed. I bet she expected me to be the same needy, non-expressive, non-leading, non-self amusing chode as I was when she left me. NOPE. WRONG.

I completely own this shit. I'm physical off the bat. Strong eye contact. Solid vocal tonality. Completely vomiting and saying whatever I want whenever I want to amuse myself. Literally just not giving a fuck how she feels about any of it.

I go for the make out numerous times before she finally cracks. Every time she turns away and I just laugh it off and pretend nothing happened. Before I leave, she asks if I'm upset she won't kiss me. I tell her I don't give a shit (I really don't at this point) and that we can just be friends. Complete ice. So money. I genuinely felt congruent with that. I WANT her, but I don't NEED her. We make out. I go home.

Man, I'm not anywhere near abundance, since I still haven't even had my first lay while in the short time I've been part of the game. But honestly, I'm so content with where I've come the past two months. I was in such emotional pain when this girl left me. She was all I could think about. I wasn't doing ANYTHING productive when she left me. I was a loser. Fast forward 6 weeks or so and I've got more leads than I have time to work with. I've gotten a handful of day 2s and makeouts. I'm approaching on a daily basis...It's just awesome. I feel like the future is bright and has so much more in store for me.

Til next time :)
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