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December 6th, 2016
3 Keys To Being The Prize
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Trent3Reznor

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JamZx

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Hey mate, excellence on your own rythm article, but I have some feedbacks for you

1.Being picky could be a fucking limiting belief, why the fuck would you wait for a woman to create arousal or feeling towards you?, when you should be the sexy life guy who has his own fun and shares it with sex starved girls who will have sex just to feel the fun out of it. At least girls are the ones who will be picky for you.

2.I agree on establishing boundaries, very important. But, expectations could kill you in the field, don't expect girls to be like " gentleman" to you. Instead, expect yourself of what you are, what you offer to yourself and what other will enjoy with your giving.


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Be The Screener


Be picky about the women that you approach. Genuinely screen them even before you approach them, and especially as you interact with them. Never compromise your value by mindlessly approaching women. Running around the club like a decapitated chicken is compromising your value. Approach the women who inspire arousal, or create interest in you. Your time is precious, so the privilege of even meeting you in the first place must be earned.

Be ruthless about who you spend your time with. If a girl bores you, or you dont find her attractive, dont even hesitate to walk off in the middle of conversation. Your time is precious, so spend it with physically attractive, and socially experienced women.


Express Your Boundaries


Establish your personal boundaries, and project the standards of behavior you expect from others. Communicate your dissaproval for petty behavior, and compromise your boundaries for no one. Have expectations for how people conduct themselves in your presence.

Whenever I interact with somebody, I expect them to be polite, engaging, and positive. I have a general vibe that I expect from others, and I communicate those boundaries immediately. If at any time they cross those lines, I'll immediately express my dissaproval. Treat people the way you want to be treated, and expect the same from them.


Move At Your Own Rhythm


Communicate at your own rhythm, and remain consistent to it, regardless of how the girl is reacting, or what she's throwing at you. We all have different voices, energy levels, senses of humor, and much more unique individual characteristics. Enjoy expressing who you are, and projecting the strengths in your personality.

How she reacts never shifts your behavior off course. You know who you are, and you don't compromise that for anybody in the world.
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Meh to much limiting beliefs in this thread as someone else has said. Being picky doesn't "earn" anything other than less girls over the same time as a less picky person.
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Socially Dynamic wrote:
Meh to much limiting beliefs in this thread as someone else has said. Being picky doesn't "earn" anything other than less girls over the same time as a less picky person.
High value men have standards and are picky.
I'm perfectly fine with having less girls, as long as the girls I'm with are high quality.

If you prefer quantity, then that's cool too...do whatever you wish.
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Trent3Reznor wrote:

Express Your Boundaries


Establish your personal boundaries, and project the standards of behavior you expect from others. Communicate your dissaproval for petty behavior, and compromise your boundaries for no one. Have expectations for how people conduct themselves in your presence.

Whenever I interact with somebody, I expect them to be polite, engaging, and positive. I have a general vibe that I expect from others, and I communicate those boundaries immediately. If at any time they cross those lines, I'll immediately express my dissaproval. Treat people the way you want to be treated, and expect the same from them.

Have you ever punished women for violating your boundaries?
For instance, let's say a woman was acting rude and told you to fuck off. Expressing dissaproval won't necessarily change the situation.
Should you verbally punish her instead? Maybe highlight the fact that she was acting like a total and get her to apologize?
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Trent3Reznor wrote:

Be The Screener


Be picky about the women that you approach. Genuinely screen them even before you approach them, and especially as you interact with them. Never compromise your value by mindlessly approaching women. Running around the club like a decapitated chicken is compromising your value. Approach the women who inspire arousal, or create interest in you. Your time is precious, so the privilege of even meeting you in the first place must be earned.

Be ruthless about who you spend your time with. If a girl bores you, or you dont find her attractive, dont even hesitate to walk off in the middle of conversation. Your time is precious, so spend it with physically attractive, and socially experienced women.

I've found that I need to screen more. When I'm in set, and things are going well with a girl, I've just been going on autopilot and getting numbers and setting up day 2s. I got a girl's number this weekend, and afterwards I'm like, "This girl is cute but really lame. Why am I doing this?"  I guess because I'm a noob, I find myself in this "mindlessly approaching" women state. Time to start screening harder for what I really want.
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Yeah the more I get into this thing, the more important i find it to screen and qualify the girl.
It's fun to have the power in YOUR hands.

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Juju Shaka Khan

If a girl was rude and told me to fuck off, then she's an idiot. 

Why would I waste my time with a negative, pessimistic troll, when I could be having the time of my life with a hotter, much more socially intelligent woman? 

My time is valuable.  By being a socially retarded, blackhole of negativity, this girl just rejected herself. 

When I meet a girl whose not only stunning, but charismatic and engaging, she can feel the authenticity when I compliment her.  This is because i actually have standards, and deliberately impose them when I interact with anybody in the world.  She's earned my attention, and instead of developing a relationship based off neediness, our relationship is grounded in legitimate chemistry. 
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What about shit tests? I mean you could consider that rude and walk off or you could plow.
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 You could be surprised when you decide to plow through with those girls,

Most of the time girls who are bitchy end up being chasers after you push the interaction succesfully.
Trent3Reznor wrote:
Juju Shaka Khan

If a girl was rude and told me to fuck off, then she's an idiot. 

Why would I waste my time with a negative, pessimistic troll, when I could be having the time of my life with a hotter, much more socially intelligent woman? 

My time is valuable.  By being a socially retarded, blackhole of negativity, this girl just rejected herself. 

When I meet a girl whose not only stunning, but charismatic and engaging, she can feel the authenticity when I compliment her.  This is because i actually have standards, and deliberately impose them when I interact with anybody in the world.  She's earned my attention, and instead of developing a relationship based off neediness, our relationship is grounded in legitimate chemistry. 
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My favorite belief:
I'm more than the best for myself.
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same;
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My original favorite lines:

I'm adoptiing you, my kids need a dog
Shhh! I love you, Shut up! I love you!
We are going to have two kids, get married, fly to Los Angeles, and at honeymoon I'm gonna cheat on you and take the kids for me.
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