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Review of Alexander~ Hotseat in Amsterdam 2013
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Zonk~

Zonk~

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Join Date: 04/12/2012 | Posts: 91

Review of Alexander~ Hotseat
Amsterdam
05.-06.01.2013


Hey Folks!

The only one RSD program I’ve attended before was a hotseat with Julien in Munich in March 2012. Back then it was an eye-opener for me, and the start point of my “serious” game career. Actually his and Tylers type of game doesn’t fit best to my personality. Anyway, I had some success with their methods and strategies. As I’m an observant reader of RSD content on RSDnation, I also was getting in touch more and more with Alexanders~ content and his Natural Instinct Method. I recognized that his type of game is perfect for me and I also could see that I already was using some of his techniques. With some pressure from my wing Mountaineer- I finally decided to attend Alexanders~ hotseat and bootcamp Amsterdam.

This shall be a review of my experiences during Alexanders~ Hotseat in Amsterdam in the beginning of 2013. If you’re also interested in the review of the Bootcamp, you can read a review here!
Furthermore, you can also read my field report of my week in Amsterdam here

Timeline
The first day of the Hotseat started on Sat 5th of January 2013 at 1pm and ended around 10:30pm. There were around 50 attendees. For us bootcamp attendees were reserved seats in the first row. Nice.
In the beginning Alexander~ was explaining the cornerstones of his Natural Instinct Method. You can find them below in this article. Then he started to show us infield videos of 2009 and 2010, when his game wasn’t as mature as it is today. But so he could also show us his own development during the last 4-5 years. The videos were well edited. As highlights, there is additional information inserted. Like time in the night and time in the set. Additionally there popup signs when he shows negative or positive emotion, when he makes a physical expression and when he endures test from the girl. Some videos he stopped very often to explain what was happening in the set. In some other videos he didn’t stop that often and just let us watch the interaction. Beside the infield videos, he also was showing some self-amusement videos and a video of the creepiest guy in the world (he was half fiction half real). This video about the creepy guy should just show us, that actually nothing serious happens, no matter what we’re doing. Educational and highly amusing!

The second day of the Hotseat started on Sun 6th of January 2013 at 7:30pm and ended around midnight. This was a bonus day for people, who signed up early enough. But in general everybody who attended the 1st day was allowed to come to the second day too.
The videos on this day were a bit newer than the videos on the day before. So we could see his development. In the newer videos he was much more chill and relaxed, with less escalation than in the older ones.

Natural Instinct Method – Mindsets
1. There is no reason why you’re not enough – „I’m enough!“
2. Don’t be attractive, be arousal
3. Time is your ally

Natural Instinct Method – Skills
1. Create initiative
2. Enduring tests
3. Physical expression
4. (waste time, speak slowly)

Conclusion
In general you can say that his videos are not as spectacular as the videos of Julien/Tyler. But he has even more success with his method. Nevertheless you can see pretty well how his style of game or rather the Natural Instinct Method works. It’s a masterpiece of game education. During both days he was answering a lot of questions of the audience. In a professional way, didn’t matter how stupid the question may seem.
As bonus, if you sign-up for an Alexander~ hotseat, you’re going to receive links to 4 videos, which explain the main skills of the Natural Instinct Method. These videos alone, together with his new Attraction Manifesto, are already that excellent that this could be an own charged product. Summarized you get amazing content, if you attend an Alexander~ Hotseat and it’s definitely worth to pay these 300$. I just can warmly recommend to sign-up for his program.
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Julien Hotseat (Munich 2012)
Alexander~ Hotseat (Amsterdam 2013)
Alexander~ Bootcamp (Amsterdam 2013)


Check out my field reports: 
Zonks~ time in Vienna - adventures of a Wiener
See also the field reports of my wing Mountaineer-~
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Zonk~

Zonk~

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Join Date: 04/12/2012 | Posts: 91

As little bonus, here are my notes from the Hotseat!

Natural Instinct Method – Mindsets
1. There is no reason why you’re not enough – „I’m enough!“
2. Don’t be attractive, be arousal
3. Time is your ally

Natural Instinct Method – Skills
1. Create initiative 
2. Enduring tests 
3. Physical expression
4. (waste time, speak slowly)

Techniques
 Be responsive, not reactive
 Be creative
 Clear your head:
 Tap to music
 Move shoulders
 Stay centred, low gravity
 Express positive AND negative emotions
 Self-amusing
 Be emphatic
 Not fighting with the girl
 Make complements
 High risk – high error <> low risk – low error
 The more time you spend with the girl, the more attracted does she get
 Give everybody a fair chance
 To win a frame battle: hold the frame, make her react
 Physical in beginning -> shoulders, claw
 Brush & lead
 The claw (between elbow and wrist)
 Statement of empathy:
 Say sorry
 Say that you understand how she feels
 But stay as you are
 Talk slowly
 Everything is good enough to say - no filters!
 When you run out of things to say, make compliments
 Tell the girl why you like her and why you want to have sex with her
 Arousal is not to be liked
 Talk to the friends, social rapport
 Neck kiss, late makeout
 It doesn’t matter which moves you do. It matters that you do moves
 When you walk away from the set and come back, the frame can reset
 When you start to believe that “you’re enough” you start to be lazy – be aware of that!
 No state! – instead: relaxed arousal
 3 types of girls:
 Bitchy, relaxed, testy (these girls are normally single)
 Friendly, relaxed (probably has a boyfriend, but he isn’t in the bar)
 Bitch, bad, unfriendly (probably has a boyfriend and he is in the bar too)
 Screen early - Screening matrix:
 Check logistics
 Check if she has a boyfriend
 Check her plans for the evening
 Warm-up in several sets, then choose the best one to stay there
 Be an innocent alpha male
 If there comes a friend of the girl, introduce yourself instantly
 Let the girl give you a head massage
 Story telling:
 Explain everything what you can sense (see, smell, taste, feel, hear)
 Emotional description
 Don’t think too much about game
 Daygame instant date invitation: voucher get 2 coffees for 1
 Avatar sex

Lines
 When I’m with you, I feel like a king.
 If there is a guy around: Is he your boyfriend?
 I love you!
 Do you think we’re lost in the moment?
 Wait, wait, wait, wait
 That’s like a porn movie I know.
 I thought you wanted to kiss me?!
 I try to be nice, but I can’t promise that.
 I knew, you would say that.
 She: I want to go home. You: With me?
 My company pays my hotel, taxi, drinks. Let’s get lucky together.
 I understand!
 If I’m too confident, tell me to slow down.
 I’ve done talking a lot, it’s your turn now.
 There is something between your teeth.
 What’s your favourite Disney movie?
 I want to explore our relation.
 Come here! Sit down here, so that I can understand you better.
 Let me tell you a secret. -> kiss on the neck
 Sorry, you made me think of it.
__________________
Julien Hotseat (Munich 2012)
Alexander~ Hotseat (Amsterdam 2013)
Alexander~ Bootcamp (Amsterdam 2013)


Check out my field reports: 
Zonks~ time in Vienna - adventures of a Wiener
See also the field reports of my wing Mountaineer-~
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