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BS85

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testo123

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when a newbie makes a post about getting a specific girl, the only answer is next and go out, sorry.
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Here's what I recommend; and it's going to suck going through it all throughout -if you do-, let me tell you that up front:

Go for it. I can't tell you what to say because 99% you'll wreck it anyways. Seriously, just go up to her and tell her how you feel and see what happens. Most likely you'll get rejected, but rejection is better than regret. Regret is an extremely toxic fucking thing. At least you won't spend the rest of your life every once in a while remembering your wasted opportunity and slapping yourself in the forehead. So go for it, go and get rejected.

Then, you man up and go out. Going out the first night, you will feel better even if you do zero approaches; because you'll see: "HOLY SHIT, there are so many beautiful women out there that are better than my oneitis anyways!"

You keep going out, probably won't pull but at least get some makeouts. It'll CURE your oneitis.

I know reading this you probably think it's bullshit and won't work for you; I know it's not what you want to hear. But I guarantee it WORKS. Just follow the instructions, it works.

Go get rejected, then go out. Keep going out.
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The most profound lessons I found in my journey so far:
-More often than not, great men are not born, they are built.

-There are two ways to get good at becoming attractive to women: You either become a good enough liar, or you become a good enough man.
-Value x Escalation = Sex. If you want more sex, simply increase your value and/or your escalations (escalate more girls, or escalate stronger)
-Self-improvement is what increases your value. Self-acceptance is what makes it easier for you to escalate.
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Ask her out. Get her. If you succeed, great. If you fail then just go out and do pickup.

I recommend doing both simultaneously to be free from outcome.
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Read this:

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/225503
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My Field Reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/208534/forum

If you are a Newb READ THIS FIRST, THEN GO OUT:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170650

Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed girls off my list, except as tools for my sexual needs." - From the 1977 autobiography "Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder" by Arnold Schwarzenegger
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honestly not reading any of this. if it's oneitis it's coming from scarcity with women. i can tell you right now you need to stop trying to get at this girl, at least for now whle still in scarcity, because every attempt you will make to secure her and lock her down will be coming from an extremely needy state, and it will be completely unattractive. so in essence, the more you try, the farther you push her away. you need to stop seeing her/thinking about her and GO OUT and meet new women. take massive action and introduce yourself to 10+ girls every single day. go on dates with them, fuck them, etc. once you come out of scarcity (or even just start taking massive action to do so) you will realize how much of a faggot you were being and how weird/creepy/needy you were being to the girl. it's going to be extremely hard and painful, but you're just going to have to deal with it. the universe does not give you what you want, but it does give you what you need. and you will eventually be thankful that this happened and made you take massive action.

refer to these vids





+ the vid in my sig for more insight on everything i just briefly spoke about
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BS85

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 Thanx for that some good vids here on the topic, some arent directly related but still very relevant so the situation
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