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30 Day Challenge 2013
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SexyMachine

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Initially, I thought I would take a break for couple of weeks after my dental procedure.  But, that lasted over month and a half, because it wasn't healing fast enough.  And, another family emergency poped up and I had to scramble to get that handled for the past month and a half.

So, my two week break turned into a 3 month break.  It stalled my momentum and I pondered about lots of things.  But, these things happen, and I didn't stress about it too much.  I knew I'd be getting back into the game, so I just chilled out and became a high level chode for the past 3 months.

Anyway, I had these great excuses for taking a break and not going out and not working out.  But, in my mind, I knew that no matter how good, or how relevant the excuses were, these were still excuses.  I could use these excuses for long time, but I know I had to step up, take action and disregard the excuses.

I still have to take care of my family emergency, but so what, it's not going to stop me from working out or going out.

Also, my reasons for going out, working out has changed drastically from the past, when I first started the game.

When I first started game, it was about girls, specifically the lack of girls, and trying to change that neediness into somehow getting girls.  That opened my eyes to my needy behavior and how I was approaching game as some sort of quick fix I could wear and hide behind while I was chasing girls.  That kind of works somewhat, but it kind of leads into it's own pitfalls, and it basically results in that infamous intermediate purgatory.

Now, I know better, I've learned my lessons, so I'm starting this cycle with a fresh start and fresh perspective.

30 day challenges work.  Every newbie should do a 30 day challenge.  Also, anyone trying to build up the momentum from a stall, like my break, should just jump into 30 day challenge.  No need to do drastic, shooting sparks from the ass type of bullshit for the sake of field report glory bullshit.

My past 30 day challeng was about the girls.  How to approach girls, how to chase the girls, how to better utilized techniques to interact with girls, etc.  That kind of gets old after a while, I couldn't quite put my finger on why I couldn't do more than the first 30 day challenge, but now I know why.  I simply outgrew my motivation of chasing hot girls.  

This time, the 30 day challenge is just that, a challenge for me to execute the process, no matter what, no matter how.  No matter what the obstacles or other bullshit happening in my life.  All that excuses, I simply overcome with action, I overcome with executing the process.  This challenge is about me, stepping up, getting it done, no matter what.
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SexyMachine

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 Jan 6, 2013

Went to a local karaoke bar, it was ok for 9:30 pm.  

I can feel my lack of momentum, there was couple of groups I could have approached, but I choded out.  It was pretty much all mixed sets with mediocre girls.  Bunch of 6s and guys that hang around these girls in a social circle.  I see these guys with these average girls and it kind of disgusts me, I mean, it's so average and there are so many options, other girls, yet these guys choose to spend time with these girls.  Then, I realize I'm too much in my head, so I approach some chubby mexican girl.  She walks off quick so she's not into my charm, yet.  I half assed the approach, so I didn't expect much.

I see a chubby blonde from that mixed set walk by, I almost approach, but I notice her face and I had to pause.  She looked ok from about 20 feet, but when she walked by closer, her face was lacking that feminine features.  She wasn't ugly, but she wasn't pretty either.  Anyway, I can sense that I'm getting judgemental about these girls in these social circles, so I decide to leave.  I'm not into it yet.  But, I have to note that it's not too bad at this bar at this time, so I'll have to check it out again next Sunday, same bat time, same bat channel.

I go grocery shopping and I notice a tall blonde looking at toilette paper.  Her back looks awesome, tall, thin, wearing the slutty fake fur jacket, kind of trashy look to her with tight ass.  So, I approach with my awesomeness, and she hooks immediately, she's reaching out trying to grab me.  But, her face is awful, specifically her teeth.  It's seriously messed up.  She's got a tight ass, but it can't make up for her fucked up teeth.  I see the sparkle in her eyes, but I have to let this go, her teeth are the stuff of nighmares.  I walk off mid sentence and go on shopping.  It's kind of like a two face situation, except that her ass was seriously tight and sexy, but her face was blech.  Cut bait and move on.

Bitches are abundant, there's no need to prolong any approach interaction with girls I know I don't want.

That's it for today, slow sunday start for my 30 day challenge, but it it what it is.  Just get it started and focus on the form and execution, take it slowly and with purpuse.  Put my shoulders into the approaches baby!

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Jan 7, 2013

Today is one of those hectic days.  I had lots of shit to do, I have to get up early tomorow, so I have to go to bed early.  So, perfect excuse day to skip out.  Now, if I wasn't doing a 30 day challenge, I would have just gone home.  But, I'm in it to win it, so I go out.  Just working on my going out muscles, doesn't matter where or what, I just had to go out.

Went to a local sports bar, caugh the tail end of the BcS bowl.  I see lots of mediocre couples, fat couples at a bar eating greasy bar food.  Mental note, I am NEVER eating bar food, that shit is nasty smell and looks awful. 

I see four fat white girls sitting at a bar, two are alone, two are talking to each other.  It's as demotivational as it can get.  I can't muster up the enthusiasm to approach.  It could be the chode ego thing or it could be just an excuse, but I just can't bring myself to approach the fat white girls.  Probably combination of all the excuses, but it is what it is.  I flirt with the ok looking bartender chick, but that's pretty much it.

Logically, I know it's not big deal to approach these fat white girls.  But, I know for a fact that I'm not attracted to these girls, so why bother mentality.  Besides, I'm not staying too long so it's not even a warm up situation.

It is what it is.  I just have to get used to the situation and deal with the hand that's dealt.

Suburban fatties, learn to love it as it is.

Anyway, I've also been pondering my state of game and this is my latest ponder.  I used to see game as a technique to get girls.  And, this does work.  And, it's ok for most guys.  I mean, things seem to work, I'm getting results, and what not.  But, there still a part of me that's not quite sure about that mindset.  It's too much chasing and holding on for dear life, basically being tossed around the waves and hoping I don't crash into a rock or some bullshit.  Again, I'm seeing results, but I get the sense that I'm stuck in intermediate purgatory.  maybe other dudes stuck in the intermediate purgatory may feel the same way.

Anyway, I'm realizing that my game is my state of being.  My state of being is all about me, it's all about what I value, it'a all about my effort, it's all about my development.  I am game, it's ingrained in my being.  It's king of inner game mumbo jumbo, but there's truch in this lind of thinking and being.

It's fun and cool to chase around girls for fun and profit.  But, ultimately, it's all about me being that cool, awesome guy.  No matter what, no matter whether I "Pick Up" girls or not, it's my value, how I feel about my value, how I percieve my value, how I project my value, that's key.  Girls are finely tuned to feel my value, so I have to project my value and be congruent to the situation at hand.

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Jan 8, 2013

I forgot how much I have to force eye contact with girls.  When I was going out regularly, it was just part of my process, but I have to relearn the eye contact thing again.  That's like 80% of game, the eye contact.

Also, the whole point of this 30 day challenge is just going out and building up my going out muscles.  I win by just going out every day for 30 day, doesn't matter where, doesn't matter when, doesn't matter how.  I just have to go out.

Went to abs and chatted with the bartender and flirted with the waitress.  I saw one fat white girl sitting alone at the bar, but I didn't have the inclination to approach.  I saw couple of cute blondes but I couldn't tell how old they were.  This is the problem with these type of restaurant bars, there are underage girls and I mean underage like under 18.  

Or, it could be my chode ego rearing it's head and me thinking bullshit thoughts like that I'm afraid of rejection.  Anyway, that's the other point of the 30 day challenge, work out the kinks and cobwebs of the chode ego and feeling afraid of rejections.  

The process for success is what I'm after bitches.  Chasing results is like chasing girls, it's not effective, it's basically going around and  begging for the fish.  I want to learn to fish, so I can get the fish whenever I want bitches.  Same thing with girls, I'm not chasing girls around begging for the here and there.  Nahh, I'm learning how to be that guy, the awesome high value guy that girls want and that girls are begging me to fuck them.  So, I work on my process, I work on executing the program.  

It's the game baby, I love the game, I love me, I love the process bitches.

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 Jan 9, 2013

Another night of practicing going out muscles.  It's laughable how strong the inner whiny chode is, bullshit thinking like, I'm too tired to go out, It's too late, It's too early, it's going to be empty, it's going to be just fat white chicks again, I have too much stuff to do, etc.  Yup, the default inner talk is negative, defeatist, and a whiny little bitch.  So, that's the point of the 30 day challenge, simply overcome all that bullshit thinking and just execute the program.

So, I go to the local karaoke bar.  It's ok, mostly fat white girls again.  couple of decent blondes, but I'm still not feeling it.  I'm out, but my approach muscles have stagnated, I'm feeling the chode ego, the chode pride, the fear or rejection, the inner bullshit thinking that what if everyone sees me getting blown out by the ok looking blondes, all that negative self defeating bullshit thinking.  Anyway, it is what it is, I just stay congruent, I chose to go out, I'm out, it's ok the way it is.  I sing my song, I haven't sung in about 10 months, still I kill it.  I love the song, and it shows.  There's no substitute for passion and exuberance. 

Realize I have to show passion and exuberance for pick up again.  It's matter of time.  That's the benefit of 30 day challenge, lot's of room for screwing up, but slowly starting up the momentum process.  Love the game bitches, love life, love the process and love executing the program.

Thought up another opener, hey, you're pretty, give me a hug.  Just have to approach a pretty girl and execute, it's matter of time bitches.  Suburban girls are ok, but the sight of the hotties are pure motivation.  I'm ok with the stagnant approach muscles for this week, but I know I have to push myself more and more for the weekend baby.

Approaching girls and sending all my love.

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Jan 10, 2013

Went out to the lolipop bar, it was what it was.  Fat subarban girls again, and I mean girls are getting even more, most fatter.  Even the so called "thin" girls have a pudge in their tummies, it's pretty bad.  Anyway, I'm working on overcoming these negativity bullshit thinking, but it's still some sort of haze that I have.  I have to overcome that haze pretty quick, tonight is the last night of this kind of bullshit, yay.  That's the problem with losing momentum.  I don't just stay still, treading water in the same place.  No, when I lose momentum, I actally fall backwards, far, far backwards.  Again, I'm dealing with lots of other issues in my personal life, but I am grinding that shit down, relentlessly grinding away, not letting that type of petty, bullshit thinking cockblock my progress in the game.  Also, I'm starting to realize that I can harness that stuff into my self, kind of the jujitsu move to work with all the bullshit that's happening in my life and see it as an opportunity to grow and work in my favor.   After all, it's just my mind that thinks that all the bullshit is bullshit, or I can just choose to deal with it and over come it and make it my bitch.

Half heartedly approached a cute blonde that just walked into the bar with two dudes, but one of the dudes had and expired license, so they couldn't buy alcohol and they had to leave.   Got a lame ass smile from her before she left and I didn't make any other attemp, so it's what it is.  But, it got me thinking about all the bitches that asked me to by them drinks.  I was getting annoyed by that, but I'm realizing those are cool opportunities to man up and dominate.  I have to play my hand, I'm the old dude at the club. I got that shit locked down, so when girls are bitching about a drink or some bullshit, I have to peg her down.  These girls used to seeing two types of guys.  But, I'm going to stand the fuck up and draw their attention, they aint seen nothing like this.

First, buying girls drinks at the club never works, NEVER.  Even girls that are "attracted" and I've made out with and fingered at the bar, as soon as I've bought them drinks, poof, the bitches are gone.  So, it's the law, I never buy girls drinks, like ever, like that song by that country chick TS, I'm never, ever, ever, buyin girls drinks, like ever.



The other options is simply not buying girls drinks, awkwardly refuse the girls.  This doesn't work either.

So, girls are used to seeing two types of responses to the silly buying girls drinks shit test, either chodes don't buy girls drinks, or chode buy girls drinks.  Either way, with this simple shit test, girls know that they're dealing with a chode and they behave like bitches.

But, there is a third way, Jeffy has his classic "I'll buy you a drink if you can kiss well" routine, which is a classic.  But, I want to draw this out more, use this shti test as an opportunity to step up and knock it out of the park, so I'm going to experiment with few of my ideas on effective responses.

This shit is so fun, I love the blowouts, I love rejections, I love social experimentation frame, fucking with girls and seeing what happens, seeing what works, seeing what doesn't work.  Working the process, executing the program, learning what is effective and what is not effective.

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 Jan 11, 2013

It's Friday and it means one thing, it's club timeezzz bitchezzzz!!!



I head out early. That's my mantra for this iteration, go out early, go out often. and, approach early and approach often. and, pull early and pull often.

I get in the club and it's sparse, so I get my beer and start talking to this dude, turns out to be a navy guy. He's with a bunch of navy dudes and couple of girls. He turns out to be married to a navy gal, this chick likes to fuck. She has 5 kids, 2 with this dude, 3 from some other dudes. And, she says they're swingers, asks me to join them. I'm just laughing at the situation. The chick is maybe a 6, but since she's in the navy with tons of dudes, she can fuck as often as she wants. I looked at the dude, I don't think swinging was his idea, and it looks like the was in charge of that marriage. Just goes to show what happens when guys have no choice, no abundance in their life. Had to settle down and marry a chick with 3 kids and the is going around fucking other dudes and calling herself a swinger. I just laugh at the hilarity of it all. Awesome part of going out and hitting it up, see aspects of girls that mainstream social conditioning media never acknowledges. Girls love, love to fuck. As I'm talking to the bitch, I see a cute girl walk by and I hit her up, the sees this and starts commenting on it. I laugh at her.

I start hitting it up. I'm working on my approach muscles, I can see how rusty I am from not approaching for past 3 months. I had forgotten about hand of god, so I incorporate that into my approaches. Also, my frame is way more dominant. I am the boss, I am the leader. There's a huge difference between aggressiveness and dominance, it's subtle yet it's a huge difference. My take is aggressiveness is more an immature style and dominance is more finely tuned, calibrated, focused style. They're both important part of game, but guys have to learn about the subtle differences. Like, some girls like aggressive guys and some girls don't. But, most girls react to dominant men.

Side note, I had always been somewhat antisocial. Probably because I've been uncomfortable in group situations or such and I wanted to just keep to myself, didn't want the attention, didn't want the responsibility for other people, etc. So, I've always avoided any part of being a leader in most situations What's funny is that I am a natural leader and I have natural leadership qualities, my persistence, relentlessness, drive, etc. are all high value leadership characteristics yet, I've shunned being in leadership positions, because of many reasons. Still, everywhere I go, people, strangers are always looking at me for leadership, looking to me to make the decisions. It's in my vibe, it's in my aura, I radiate my boss qualities.

I am the BOSS. So, it's highly weird and incongruent when I act like a chode. it's like all my life, I wore this silly chode mask to hide the fact that I am the BOSS. It's kind of funny to think that bullshit.

Anyway, due to recent events, I've had to be honest to myself and accept the fact that I am the BOSS. I am a natural leader. I tried to avoid being a leader for what, 44 years, but that shit is over now. I have fully accepted the fact that I am the BOSS and I am the leader. So, I'm learning all aspects of being an effective BOSS and effective leadership qualities.

The reason that being the BOSS is important is that I've learned through experience that leading is a very important part of game. Girls are ALWAYS looking at guys to lead. When I approach and act like a chode, the girls get bitchier and nastier, in a way, it's a shit test to get a rise out of me and show my real BOSS qualities.

It's funny that I wore this chode mask for so long, thinking that this bullshit socially conditioned chode mask is the way to get stuff in life, yet the reality is much, much different. I am the BOSS and I am the leader. It's who I am, and I fully accept it.

Alright, back to the field report. so, I'm approaching with my dominant BOSS frame. I am pushing myself to approach, Tyler's robocop style. Methodical, relentless grinding approaches. AND, having a fun time and blast approaching. Love the game, love the life baby.

I am the BOSS and I am the spectacle. People around me notice my approaches, some laugh at me, guys come and try to talk to me about my approaches, it's all funny to me. I approach all night, but nothing sticks in the club. So, I have to work on my hooking muscles.

I use my patented Hi, you're pretty, give me a hug opener on a tall brunette. She doesn't quite hear me, the vibe is off. This kind of talking openers are not effective in loud venues, I have to adapt this to street game and quieter venues. In loud clubs, it's all eye contact and physicality bitchezzzzz. So, I revert to hand of god and all variations of making hand of god hilarious, eye movements, hand movements. that's a huge part of game, making anything I do hilarious and funny, not taking myself seriously, self amusement for the win btichezzzz.

Twilight hour game, I head out for street game. I see a chubby 6 standing with a bunch of dudes. I use my patented Hi, I'm SexyMachine, people call me SexyMachine opener. She hooks, she's waiting for her friends to come out. She's from Alaska and she's a 6, so I'll call her Alaska6. I dominate her and command her that I'm going to stay with her until her friends come out. She complies. That's the subtle difference, I didn't ask her whether I could stay with her, I commanded her I would stay with her, and she complied. I was the BOSS and she simply accepted that I was the BOSS. Once this frame was established, it was smooth sailing. She's hanging on me. Some dudes walk by and she asked for cigarettes, and I commanded her to not smoke, that I don't want girls smoking around me. So, she comes back to hold me and tells the other dudes that she had to stay with me. The bitchezzz have to be kept in line, girls are ALWAYS testing to see what's up. The pimp hand is strong.

After a little bit, I command to her that I'm going to take her to the hotel. She complied and started following me. I didn't want to fuck her, I just wanted her to suck my dick and just drop her off at the hotel, kick her to the curb. She knew what's up and it's down. As I'm pulling her, I mistakenly took her by the main entrance. She spotted her friends and squeeled and the pulling frame evaporated. Mental note, always be aware of surroundings and keep her away from her friends as I'm pulling the girlzzz.

Anyway, as soon as she finds her friends, her anti defense kicks up and she's into the social status mode. She found herself a high value man and she wants to show me off to her friends. I get annoyed. I just want my dick sucked by a 6 and now I have to run through the dancing monkey scenario. I could have dominated the 3 other girls, but I wasn't in the mood, I wasn't feeling it.  This was supposed to be a quick pull and it's turning into a longer game than I wanted to deal with.  Anyway, working on my pulling muscles for the win.  She senses my ambivalence and she pulls away, I walk away.  Abundance bitchezzzz.  I go to find more girlzzz, but they evaporated at this point.

Anyway, good night of working out my approach muscles and pulling muscles.  I have to work more on my hooking muscles, get that shit dialed in, eye contact, smile and physicality for the win bitchezzz.  

Love the game, love the life, love the process and love executing the program.  This is automatic bitchezzzz!!!

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Good luck in your journey bro!

There is ONE thing I can tell that quickly is distinctive... YOU ARE THINKING TOO MUCH..

I mean the SHIT with numbers giving about the appearance.. This puts you down bro.. Like Brad is saying, "Get  the reaction time to ZERO" ..

Till you don't FEEL REALLY LIKE THE BOSS, just approach every girl you see.. If you are attracted at the first "millisecond" , TAKE ACTION. Don't let the thoughts come in your mind..

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Cool, thanks for posting.

Lets get real here about the thinking too much thing.  My take is different, it's not about stopping thoughts coming into the head or  getting the reation time to zero.  For me, it's more about building up the muscle memory with EFFECTIVE ACTION and EFFECTIVE RESPONSES.

For guys that don't go out, yes, the mantra is to take action, any action, to get the momentum started.  Simply build up the action muscles.

However, once guys have that basic taking action muscles down. then it's time evolve and experiment and see what's actually effective and not effective.  Social Experimentation frame, as Tyler would say.

For me, it's about experimenting with different thought processes and frames, learning which are effective and which are not effective, which are congruent to my personality, which are not congruent to my personality.  It's important part of the game.
Mr.Sociable wrote:
Good luck in your journey bro!

There is ONE thing I can tell that quickly is distinctive... YOU ARE THINKING TOO MUCH..

I mean the SHIT with numbers giving about the appearance.. This puts you down bro.. Like Brad is saying, "Get  the reaction time to ZERO" ..

Till you don't FEEL REALLY LIKE THE BOSS, just approach every girl you see.. If you are attracted at the first "millisecond" , TAKE ACTION. Don't let the thoughts come in your mind..

Cheers
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Jan 12, 2013

Saturday Night.



It's cold and it's saturday night, time for the club timezzzzz.  I start out early, well early for me, but I'm working on actually starting earlier in the night.  For some reason, Seattle doesn't start partying in clubs until 11:30 pm, and most time well after midnight.  Which is really stupid, since all the bars close around 1:30 to 2:00 am.  

I'm working my approach muscles, approaching everything I like.  Lot of blowouts, lot of girls telling me they have a boyfriend, fiance, etc.  Hooking girls and then her bitchy fatty cockblock drag her away.  I'm getting resistance, I'm getting lots of resistance, it means I'm going in the right direction.  Anyway, what's important is how I handle these blowouts. Do I slink away into a corner and cry like some short turban wearing indian dude?  Fuck No.  Though, I'm seriously thinking about wearing a turban and going to the club.  Though, where can I get a turban?  Does it count if non indian dude wears a turban?  Doesn't fucking matter, what matters is learing the effective responses.

Anyway, working on my dominance muscles, hand of god and pulling the girls in with eye contact, smile, man to woman vibe, physicality.  This is very polarizing and vastly different with how most other guys approach girls.  Girls have a visceral reaction and the hotter girls go immediately into hardcore shit tests.  I'm the BOSS,  I approach tons, but there were parts of the night when I caught myself aimlessly wandering around looking for girls to approach, so I had to push myself to take action at that point.  

The focus of my approaches this week was to just go out and approach.  That went ok.  So, I'm slowly ramping this up so the focus or my approaches next week is just go out, approach and hook every sets for at least 30 seconds.  Doesn't matter what I do, what I say, if I have to cling onto girls for dear life, I just have to hook these girls for 30 seconds and stick in the set, I can't bail and I can't let the girls walk away or blow me out, for at least 30 seconds.  Working on my hooking muscles bitchezzzzz.  And, working on my initial shit test response muscles.  Lot of times, the initial blowout is just a shit test and the girls are keen to see how I respond.  So, I'm working on variety of dominance mucles in my responses, seeing what's effective and what's not effective.

Another point of sticking in the set for at least 30 seconds is to grind gown my pickup ego.  Lot of times, it's my pickup ego that prevents me from sticking in the set, from escalating, etc.  So, by me sticking in the set for at least 30 seconds, I am not givine my pick up ego and excuses to bail on me.

Twilight hour. 
I see a black girl with pizza box, I ask her what she's got.  She says she has pizza, I ask can I have it, and she gives me the pizza.  So, I am now carrying a pizza box and approaching girls.  My pizza game is on tonight.  I approach a group of girls smoking around some dudes.  They comment about me carrying the pizza box, I ignore and spit game.  But, I can't stand the smoke, so I bail.  I'm not approaching girls that are smoking ever again.  It's my new rule.  Also, I'm not letting any bitches around me smoke, ever.  They can do that shit on their time, just not around me.  I am the BOSS, I set the rules and I set the boundaries.  The pimp hand is wise, it's strong.  So, no mo bitches smoking around me, ever.

Some fat bitches are sitting down and comment about me carrying the pizza,  I go over and look at them and I stare them down with disdain.  These fat bitches shouldn't eat anything for fucking month, let alone a pizza.  They go on about how they want the pizza.  I just stare them down, part of me want to berate the bitches for being so fat.  But, part of me still want to be the nice guy, not say anything mean to the girls.  The bitches get anxious and nervous of my staredown.  I walk away from the fat bitches.  I give the pizza to some homeless woman, I'm not eating that shit.

Awesome night. Went out and had tons of fun with girls, learning new experiences and learning more about myself and what I do, my personality.

Love the game, love the life, execute the program.

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 Sunday, Jan 13, 2013

Working out the going out muscles.  Pretty empty at the starbar, so I just flirted with the bartender.  Cute face, but she's a fatty getting fatter.  

Ponder more on effective thinking in relationship to game.  Thinking process like I'm the boss, I'm the superpimp and I'm so ridiculously handsome with a large penis.  It's all good.  

Now, effective thinking is great, but it's only part of the process.  Effective thinking by itself won't do jack shit at improving game.  In order for effective thinking to work, I have to go out and live the life I want, sort of practice what I preache type of thing.

Thinking that I'm the super pimps is one thing, but I must go out and actually take action being a super pimp.

Effective thinking and effective action are a two part catalyst, that creates a positive feedback loop.

Much like chode thinking and chode lack or action creates a negative feedback loop, chodes getting chodier.

Tyler made a video about this 
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