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December 6th, 2016
Simple but Profound realization: This shit works
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Ballgames

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Join Date: 07/25/2011 | Posts: 2584

 I've been on a tear lately. Anyone whose gone out with me recently can tell you- somethin is different. Somethin is clicking- A lot of those same guys have been asking me to write up some kind of post about what I think has changed in my game and why shit is poppin off

I fucked 6 different girls in a week
I had a threesome
I've fucked 2 8.5+'s in the past two weeks
I pulled off one of the most epic day 2 fucks I've ever had
And I fucked over 10 girls in the past 1.5 months

Those are the results from this past 1.5 months

It's not a fluke (although I obviously realize there is always fluctuation and my results will down down again at some point- but def. enjoying this while it's here)

I say it's not a fluke though because if you were around me 6 months ago and you're around me now... I'm a different person. 

If you were to look at my texting from just a couple months ago to now- It's entirely different

This isn't just some dude who stumbles on a little bit of success.... This is a guy whose worked his ass off for it and is getting a taste of what he deserves. 

So I wanted to go through some of the major things that have changed in my game and what I can take away from this- even if it were to all end tomorrow (which it very well might, and I'm okay with that)

1. Manwhore Training- this is the guy who basically got me into this shit. He's talked to me about this stuff more than anyone and is a great influence on me. His training is MONEY. Can't say enough. 
2. Adding structure to my game - I've had the natural stuff for a while now but what structure does is really fine tune your timing and allows you to sorta "see the matrix" where you actually start to see what's actually happening in the interaction
3. Becoming RUTHLESS- Like literally saying "fuck you" to the stupid feelings of guilt, or wondering if "lieing" is okay lol... Basically just saying, "Fuck it- I'm going to have sex at any cost"
4. Really naililng down Push/Pull - WOW is this stuff potent when you start to get it down and really start to understand the TIMING involved.... TIMING is everything with push/pull and if you're running micro loops, or at least have that understanding, it will help a lot- but you have to be able to make it seem unreactive, which means you can't be thinking- you just have to know what to do, instantly. 
5. Luck- prob has a decent amount to do with it... Like just standard deviation shit... can't take credit for everything

But the biggest revelation I've had in the past 2 months or so is basically what I said in the post title: This shit works. 

And the more it's reinforced, the more I have confidence that I can replicate it. I am starting to lose that "Fear of Loss" that I've had in the past when I've been on runs like this. 

Anyway- I would say that for anyone who is in that "Intermediate Purgatory"- adding a little structure to your game will help. As will just really hammering into the rsd concepts and talk to manwhore- that guy knows his shit
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A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"

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PUARain2

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Join Date: 08/19/2012 | Posts: 196

 i have trouble becoming ruthless for pushing to sex. 

how do you do this and be outcome independent at the same time. its kind of a paradox. you want to fuck the girl really badly but you also don't want to be outcome dependent and fuck it up...

i guess the answer is get more girls but when theres sets that are solid you just dont want to fuck it up and just get the lay... when i think i have a chance at fucking hotties i get extremely outcome dependent and think too much and fuck it up.
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Ballgames

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 Oh also- prob THE biggest thing:

SURROUND YOURSELF WITH GUYS WHO ARE AMAZING AT THIS

realize that you have value and even if you aren't as good as them AT THAT MOMENT.... be fun and approach a lot and just be a cool guy to hang with and even the best guys will want to roll with you. 

But do everything you can to surround yourself with the best possible guys. Just being around people who are doing crazy shit will rub off on you- and then on top of that, talking game with them and breaking shit down and getting amazing critique... this one is HUGE. 
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"    
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 The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars

A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"

Buddha
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CANM

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 What would you reccomend is the best resource for outter-game?
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Ballgames

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haha yeah- I've showed pics to a few guys.

Not postin stuff up on the forum though lol- lil too close to home : /
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"    
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 The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars

A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"

Buddha
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Ballgames

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 This is a review I made a while back of manwhore's skype coaching: http://manwhore.org/forum/content/thanks-manwhore-reviews-mw-coaching
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"    
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
 The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars

A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"

Buddha
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IndyJones

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Join Date: 10/14/2012 | Posts: 49

hahaha wow... so fucking solid dude, used to read your FR's back in the day

It is truly awesome what can be done when you give yourself permission to step up
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Ballgames

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Yeah... you gotta be cool with fuckin it up. 

Also- you gotta just be willing to do anything- lie, steal, cheat... but at the same time- if it doesn't happen ,it doesn't happen and you're cool with having done everything you could have done to get her
PUARain2 wrote:
 i have trouble becoming ruthless for pushing to sex. 

how do you do this and be outcome independent at the same time. its kind of a paradox. you want to fuck the girl really badly but you also don't want to be outcome dependent and fuck it up...

i guess the answer is get more girls but when theres sets that are solid you just dont want to fuck it up and just get the lay... when i think i have a chance at fucking hotties i get extremely outcome dependent and think too much and fuck it up.
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"    
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
 The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars

A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"

Buddha
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 Ruthlessness is one of my keywords, and is 100% mandatory for success in ANY area of your life. 
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Matt281

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Awesome man. I'm experiencing something similar right now. No 3 ways yet, but same kind of thing -- it's just all cascading right now, just kicked a girl out 10 minutes ago.

And yeah man, the understanding that this shit works is the simplest but the most amazing epiphany with this. In fact, that was my 1000th post hah.

Anyway, props dude. You deserve it.
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T4rzan

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I'm experiencing my first breakthrough right now, It took me a year of getting just makeouts to finally get a lay and lose my virginity two months ago, in the two months since I've gotten laid two more times. That may not be much by RSD standards but it feels pretty amazing to go from virgin to fucking three girls in two months
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