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ludvig

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I´m not even going out these days but this video felt like A change to my thinking patterns that´s been holding me back
the last 5 years. The ending especially drove the point home :) 
So Im putting it here to remind me to watch it again.






I wish I could get this next bit burned in my brain too. Around 90% of the time I dont get attention from girls but around 10% of the time I do. It makes me chase that 10% all the time and makes me think I cant get girls 90% of the time.
So I wish I could install this into my brain. Post by Tyler this week:


It's harder for a guy who is 5'7 - 5'9 and who is average looking to accept his looks than it is for an UGLY PERSON.
That's cause the little short ugly guy is like "Well ya I'm ugly, but I'm a cool dude in other areas, it is what it is" and fully let's it go, never to mentally agonize over it ever again.
 
(If he WERE to dwell on it all he'd get is negative thoughts.)
 
For guys who are "almost good looking" it's like, "Dammit, I'm soooo close!  I can look good!  I'm soooo close!"
 
Then you can look in the mirror again and again, suck in your cheeks, puff out your chest, dress in your best clothes, and kind of rationalize, "I AM good looking DAMMIT!"
 
But you go out and see your better looking friends getting pussy, while you go home alone.  And the house of card is destroyed.  You are NOT good looking.  Booo fucking hoo!  :_(
 
Of course in reality it's obvious you should hit the gym and dress well to maximize what you have, but ULTIMATELY your compulsion to imagine you're "good looking" comes from the desire to RE-ENTER THE MATRIX OF GROUP THINK.
 
It's pure mental laziness.  If you were good looking, you wouldn't have to look through the world with your own eyes, and see that attraction has so many other elements to it.  So many in fact that it's not a big deal if you don't look as good as you wished in your little wanker fantasies.
 
That being the case, you need to become like me.  Look at the video in my sig, look at the infield sections in all my vblogs.  I GANGSTER that shit.
 
Nobody gives me PERMISSION to be a bad ass.  I simply TAKE it.  I appoint MYSELF the right to be a cool dude.
 
You're wishing you looked good so you could give yourself permission to be a bad ass who approaches girls with the swag and high value behaviours you know would work.  You want society to tell you it's okay.

Well guess what?  You're not rich or good looking, so society is NOT going to tell you it's okay.  In fact it's going to tell you that you're not good enough and should cry at home in your basement.
 
My suggestion is you stop waiting for society to give you permission and appoint yourself.  Then practice this again and again til the fucking cows come home, until you have the girl that you want in your life.
 
This doesn't prevent you from improving in areas like your style /  fashion / fitness / money as well.  Do it concurrently if you choose.  But don't wait around with your dick in your hands going YEARS WITHOUT while you wait to accumulate these things, as your youth drips away year by year.  Start getting TODAY. 
 
Tyler


And a nice one from RSD Facebook:


END OF MENTAL MASTURBATION ON THIS TOPIC
LET´S SEE WHAT HAPPENS ONCE I GO OUT AGAIN.
BACK TO THESIS AND MAKING MONEY...

About 48 days left before my big 30.
 
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“Wealth File
1. Rich people believe "I create my life." Poor people believe "Life happens to me."
2. Rich people play the money game to win. Poor people play the money game to not lose.
3. Rich people are committed to being rich. Poor people want to be rich.
4. Rich people think big. Poor people think small.
5. Rich people focus on opportunities. Poor people focus on obstacles.
6. Rich people admire other rich and successful people. Poor people resent rich and successful people.
7. Rich people associate with positive, successful people. Poor people associate with negative or unsuccessful people.
8. Rich people are willing to promote themselves and their value. Poor people think negatively about selling and promotion.
9. Rich people are bigger than their problems. Poor people are smaller than their problems.
10. Rich people are excellent receivers. Poor people are poor receivers.
11. Rich people choose to get paid based on results. Poor people choose to get paid based on time.
12. Rich people think "both". Poor people think "either/or".
13. Rich people focus on their net worth. Poor people focus on their working income.
14. Rich people manage their money well. Poor people mismanage their money well.
15. Rich people have their money work hard for them. Poor people work hard for their money.
16. Rich people act in spite of fear. Poor people let fear stop them.
17. Rich people constantly learn and grow. Poor people think they already know.”
T. Harv Eker, Secrets of the Millionaire Mind: Mastering the Inner Game of Wealth
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Hey man,

Sweet journal ! I like reading about people taking action :)

Quick question ;

Why don't you create your own product instead of working with adsense...?

By the way, i'm doing my master thesis as well, so we're both on the same boat.

Pickup, business, thesis, school.

How do you manage your time man ? I run around all the time^^
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I used to be into self help when i started playing guitar, dreaming about becoming a rock start and building my own brand like Gene simmons, 50 cent, P diddy etc...
Really burned my motivation to the ground when i wasn't progressing fast enough but on the past month i've been getting back into it.
Here is a youtube channel were you can find lots of inspiratinal videos from the guys who really made it!
http://www.youtube.com/user/mycomeup?feature=watch



 
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Thanks, guys!
I´ll reply here soon.
Busy now..

Just wanted to throw this here to remind me to write down my goals on paper and put it on the wall:
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I told my bosses today that I´m quitting. My contract makes me stay there until December 31st 2013.

Then I´m on my own...

IM
A few days ago I started finding my first PR5 domains for my blog network cause I really gotta fuckin rank on command if I want to make money.
Ended up bidding accidentally 1100$ on a poor PR5.
And won.
Somebody had bid right up to 1100$. If he had bid 5$ more I hadnt been forced to buy it.
Sigh.. hope it works.

I´ve also been thinking about joining OMG Machines which seems like the best SEO guys on the planet that also teach you holding your hand.
The catch is it costs 4999$ for life to join.
Most members there have started to earn 5-figure sums per month after joining. Feels really tempting but it´s just too much even if it worked for me and would make me
10 000€ + / month.
Then again a true business man would take a loan from a bank and go all out on a chance like this..

Then again I know a LOT of stuff already which I should be able to make 2000-3000€/month with already so I guess I´ll pass...

 
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Finished my thesis on 17.11.13
and sent it.

Let´s hope it´s ok this time.

Now I´ve started to work hardcore on making money with SEO after work days.

I really should take a break to relax though.. I feel like my health will soon break down seriously.
 
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4 days at work again and 3 days at home this week. Gym only 1xweek. Not going out at all to get girls.
I considered taking a relaxing day on saturdays but being broke and having no safety net in 1 month and 1 week is too scary so it keeps me going.

Besides going to a bar is just as stressful for me as working these days. Except maybe it would have been fun now that I have my mojo back again for a while, love it. Real, organic maca, brasil nuts and ginseng. I feel almost like back in 2010 when I was the most energetic and horniest ever :)

Anyway, what have I been up to lately? What am I doing to get to at least 1000€/month in 5 weeks?
Making a BIG recipe site and hammering it with PR links. So basically I spent this weekend translating recipes. That´s so silly.. :)

The reason I´m doing this is my latest succesful site that got hit was a recipe site and it made me at least 200€/month so now I´m trying to do the same x 10.

I´ve been also asking for coaching from the succesful guys from my country. NObody wanted to do it. Small country. They are afraid of losing their share, and probably have no interest in coaching.

I´m thinkin of doing Youtube video ranking.

Losing my hair here hardcore and stressing out big time...

We´ll see what happens...
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17 Wrote:
Hey man,

Sweet journal ! I like reading about people taking action :)

Quick question ;

Why don't you create your own product instead of working with adsense...?

By the way, i'm doing my master thesis as well, so we're both on the same boat.

Pickup, business, thesis, school.

How do you manage your time man ? I run around all the time^^


Thanks, man!
Nice to hear you´re on the same boat.
I run around all the time too. Work, groceries, SEO,gym, girls. I rest for 15-30 min a day :)
Brad said it. Put stuff on maintenance mode and focus on 1 thing at a time to get the most important stuff done.
But yeah I feel like people who talk at work saying "I think I could go see a movie today or shopping"
are from another planet, hah. Probably sounds familiar :D
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Jatao Wrote:
I used to be into self help when i started playing guitar, dreaming about becoming a rock start and building my own brand like Gene simmons, 50 cent, P diddy etc...
Really burned my motivation to the ground when i wasn't progressing fast enough but on the past month i've been getting back into it.
Here is a youtube channel were you can find lots of inspiratinal videos from the guys who really made it!
http://www.youtube.com/user/mycomeup?feature=watch
 


Thanks, I´ll check those! See you next weekend!
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