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April 24th, 2014
How is it possible for successful guys in life to not be getting laid?
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Marko

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This is a serious question to any guys out there who make good money.  I wanna know how its possible for you to not be getting laid?  I mean, like, you'd either have to be the biggest pussy in the world or just so consumed with work that you have no time for anyhting else in your life. 

If you're a dude who's making near 100k or more.  Literally, all you need to do is the following:

1.Live in a nice aparmtent close to the nightlife.

2. Dress well.

3. Go to the same 4-5 venues over and over.  Tip your bartenders well and get to know people that work in the staff.  Just keep showing up, tipping, and being a non-needy guy and eventually you will make friends with all the staff and they will treat you cool in front of other people.  (Give you social proof)

4. If you notice another cool guy who is genuinely cool and not a loser who will leach off you, buy him a few rounds of drinks and get connected with his social circle. At the very least, you will have a cool wingman for that night who you can go back to if you are rolling solo for the night and need to set up a "home base' 

5.. Approach the women that show up to the venue.  Invariably, some are going to hook and like you. 

6.  For all the girls that hook, buy them drinks. As long as the girl is still standing there that means she likes you.  Give her an incentive to stay next to you by buying her more drinks.  

7.  One you've been chatting with the girl for 45 minutes to an hour, you can either go for the pull or set up a day 2.  ( if you have good game, you'll pull that night.  If you have average game, you'll get stuck on a day 2)

8. Set up your day 2's at a cool/chic place for dinks and some appetizers. (Make sure the place is close to your apartment. Refer to step 1)

9. Buy the girl drinks on the date.  Have a good time.  Get her horny by drinking, laughing, and flirting.

10. Bring her home on the date for more drinks and some dessert.  Make dessert be the excuse for her to come over.  Tell her you have chocolate cake. 

11.  Once she comes over, fuck her.


Can someone please tell me if I'm missing something here?  Just so you all know,  I am not a wealthy guy AT ALL.  This isn't my personal forumala or anything, but I have friends who are succesful, and this is their basic gameplan. Their verbal game is very mediocre at best and they never approach enough girls to hit "state" and beast up the club.  But basically, they just BUY THEIR RESULTS. 

Hell somtimes they dont approach at all.  Usually I'll approach a set and then wave the guy over to buy rounds of drinks.  From there, he'll just start talking to the girl he likes the best.  Usually, the girl is more attracted to me at first, but he just keeps buying more and more drinks for the girl he likes.  Eventually, he'll be able to keep the girl around just by buying her another drink, which leads to more conversation and more "getting to know each other".  becvause his game sucks, he never pulls.  But he sets up dates with these girls.  Usually, once he gets a date hes competent enough to fuck atleast half of these girls.  If he had any game at all his number should be at like 95% close rate at day 2.  But it doesnt matter, because hes atleast having sex with hot women.  Because his game sucks he usually loses the girls too.  But STILL, the dude is getting his dick inside hot/ intelligent women on a consistent basis. 

Seriously, if you have money, and you are on this forum, how are you not getting these kinds of results? Are you seriously too much of a fucking loser to not be able to even BUY some pussy?  To me, its more shameful than dudes who claim that cant pull cus their good looking.

 
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Sunny667

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1.Live in a nice aparmtent close to the nightlife.

2. Dress well. according to masses default, Abercrombie or Hollister shirts

3. Go to the same 4-5 venues over and over.
since going to new places probrably will make you uneasy
Tip your bartenders well and get to know people that work in the staff. Just keep showing up, tipping, and being a non-needy guy and eventually you will make friends with all the staff and they will treat you cool in front of other people. (Give you social proof)
since you cannot be true friend of the bartenders, you can buy them off

4. If you notice another cool guy who is genuinely cool and not a loser who will leach off you, buy him a few rounds of drinks and get connected with his social circle. At the very least, you will have a cool wingman for that night who you can go back to if you are rolling solo for the night and need to set up a "home base'
since you cannot be true friend of the guys because you are a loser, you can buy them off

5.. Approach the women that show up to the venue. Invariably, some are going to hook and like you.
Numbers game

6. For all the girls that hook, buy them drinks. As long as the girl is still standing there that means she likes you. Give her an incentive to stay next to you by buying her more drinks.
buying value again

7. One you've been chatting with the girl for 45 minutes to an hour, you can either go for the pull or set up a day 2. ( if you have good game, you'll pull that night. If you have average game, you'll get stuck on a day 2)
8. Set up your day 2's at a cool/chic place for dinks and some appetizers. (Make sure the place is close to your apartment. Refer to step 1)
9. Buy the girl drinks on the date. Have a good time. Get her horny by drinking, laughing, and flirting.
buying value again and getting her tipsy on your expense

10. Bring her home on the date for more drinks and some dessert. Make dessert be the excuse for her to come over. Tell her you have chocolate cake.

11. Once she comes over, fuck her.


This is not game, this is "natural" playboy social purgatory.
But it does work.
But to me, feels like cheating
when you see, live demonstration, of the instructors doing that to strangers and pulling in 10 minutes without showing them any dolar sign. (and going to van)
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REDAFehT

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A pussy is a fucking pussy.

A chode is a fucking chode.
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Desmond

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But that only works under the assumption that he already is a COOL guy, and not a acts like a CREEPY WEIRDO like the majority of people on a forum like this. You're describing a guy who can ACT NORMAL, feels socially entitled and is comfortable with flirting, sex and dating... In which case he wouldn't need money anywas.
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The Driver

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I'm not the most successful sucker, but a big part of why I don't approach any girl is b/c I refuse to waste time w/ trash. That means the girls that I am after are of equal or higher value, which means I have to game it up to get w/ them.
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Getting drunk with a girl on a day2 is the easiest way to fuck. 
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They probably arent tall enough
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There are lot of chodes, because of social conditioning and mass media culture, being chode is the default state.  That's why guys that get into pickup have to snap out of all the bullshit thinking and challenge the "normal" societal standards.  Now, guys that are "successful" by societal standards are put through the ringer, by society and girls.  So, it's really tough to challenge this type of thinking and go against the grain, so most chodes don't bother and they just go with the flow.

There are variety of chodes, the virgin chodes that earn good income, but are addicted to porn and believe that they can only "fuck 9s and 10s", the virgin ego.  And then there are the provider chodes, that basically have to buy their "value" and maybe fuck a few girls here and there, but they pay huge, huge price for that pussy.  They end up being a worker drone to support the girl's lifestyle and the baby, whether he gets married or not.

That's why social conditioning and mass market media culture is such a losing deal for guys.

Part of "pickup" is to break out of that bullshit cycle and learn the skills and knowledge to build OPTIONS and ABUNDANCE of pussy.

Go out and get more girls. 
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jakewetz

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It's because you get what you focus on.

They are focusing on money and other aspects as opposed to getting laid.

With the current society and being able to " be successful but be socially retarded" this is even more prevalent....
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This is bad advice
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The Driver wrote:
I'm not the most successful sucker, but a big part of why I don't approach any girl is b/c I refuse to waste time w/ trash. That means the girls that I am after are of equal or higher value, which means I have to game it up to get w/ them.

That's probably why you're not successful
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