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Where can I get a turban? i want to wear one so bad
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#21

SikhDude26

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Seedro wrote:
He's getting you used to shit-tests, fag.

You should thank him you ingrateful cum-swallowing whales vagina.
SikhDude26 wrote:

Macavity wrote:
 Lol you should change your name to SuckDude....cus you suck dude! ho ho. Merry christmas. 
hey!! that's kinda mean how your always subtly tooling me every time. You help me out, but you tool me afterwards. i don't get it, but yeah man merry xmas thanks for the advice though.



ah i see... so is this a shit test too or are you guys tooling me?
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Adil

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Macavity spits truth.
"The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them." - Einstein
It's so true it's not even funny. Consistent action will change your mindset.
You clearly lack understanding of how a person evolves.
There was a similar chode AsianRSD who received so much valuable advice on the forum yet kept complaining and finding excuses.
Find his threads and you'll see your reflection in the mirror, you delusional piece of human being.
And you shall understand why people tool you. They absolutely hate these traits that were in themselves when they were chodes, myself including. Really, I would slap you in the face if you were around for being such a pussy.
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SikhDude26 wrote:

bargnani wrote:
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i don't know man, even with this counter-evidence, i don't buy it....

what if they met through social circle or is rich or high status?

When I bring up my turban or beard, i was referring to a Strictly cold approach pickup and i don't think they met through a cold approach

wow, you are such a hard headed noob. 

why can't you just accept the fact that it's a limiting belief believing your turban is hindering your success?  As long as you don't smell like shit or have really ugly teeth with bad breath, the way you come off will easily supercede your turban or your beard. Bargnani is simply helping you out, giving you counter-evidence to your limiting belief, but yet you still come up with ways to believe in your limiting belief. even macavity himself who's an indian guy who wears a turban is showing you counter-evidence. Isn't that enough proof itself? I mean cmon, why don't you post a picture of yourself?  are you really that repulsive?
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#24

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 HAHAHA,

hell yes

we should hold an RSD "wear a turban to clubs" day :D
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We'll even have a Turban tying contest!


wtfjusthappened wrote:
 HAHAHA,

hell yes

we should hold an RSD "wear a turban to clubs" day :D
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SikhDude26

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ApproachMachine5000 wrote:

SikhDude26 wrote:

bargnani wrote:
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i don't know man, even with this counter-evidence, i don't buy it....

what if they met through social circle or is rich or high status?

When I bring up my turban or beard, i was referring to a Strictly cold approach pickup and i don't think they met through a cold approach

wow, you are such a hard headed noob. 

why can't you just accept the fact that it's a limiting belief believing your turban is hindering your success?  As long as you don't smell like shit or have really ugly teeth with bad breath, the way you come off will easily supercede your turban or your beard. Bargnani is simply helping you out, giving you counter-evidence to your limiting belief, but yet you still come up with ways to believe in your limiting belief. even macavity himself who's an indian guy who wears a turban is showing you counter-evidence. Isn't that enough proof itself? I mean cmon, why don't you post a picture of yourself?  are you really that repulsive?




I don't think i'm a hard case at all. I take a lot of action and soak in the advice given, so i'm open minded. BUt yet, i'm not dogmatic either

I don't think that guy in that picture has ever cold approached in his life or got totally annhilated in a club(which majority of us had to go through from a cold approach perspective). So it's unfair showing counter-evidence to something that isn't relevant to cold approach pickup. 

I'm not "hatin" on the guy or making up excuses on why i still believe in my limiting beliefs, but i'm not stupid either. 

If you guys are giving me counter-evidence, then it has to be relevant to cold approach pickup, like mavacity here. He said it took him over a year to get results, so i believe him.
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Macavity wrote:

SikhDude26 wrote:

Macavity wrote:

Let me ask you something. When you first started, how were you doing? And what was your background? were you a shy/virgin/chode like me? or were you just a normal guy who has some friends (but not super cool anything) and just want to get laid?

i appreciate the advice you are giving, but it's kinda hard to internalize it right now. You guys say "STFU, own up to it, go out and approach, see me in a year or 2 and maybe you will get results". WEll tell you what, I do go out and take a shitload of action(probably more than half of the people here). i went to vegas for 3 days

I was a hardcase. Took me six months just to get use to approaching. No experience with women coming into this. Never kissed a girl before game. Had my first kiss six months in. Lost my virginity to some fat after one year of approaching. Couldnt hold eye contact. Couldnt have conversations with strangers. Very low self-esteem. Not much social intelligence. Massive victim mentality. Very shy. Sooo many limiting beliefs regarding my looks and religion. Like I said I use to whine about not being able to get girls in my diary everyday. Almost in tears. Super frustrated. SERIOUSLY religous family. Typical strong asian background. I still have a lot of issues now. 

The only things I had going for me was that I was funny and witty. But those two traits about myself developed as a kid from a place of wanting approval and reaction seeking. Trust me when I say dude I use to fucking suck. 

"I do go out and take a shitload of action(probably more than half of the people here). i went to vegas for 3 days"

........statement of the century.

I really really do want to help you out dude seriously. But you do realise how fucking dumb you are right?? How utterly retarded some of your comments are?? 

Paraphrasing Jeffy - "To get good you got to approach a lot. Oh and the first couple thousand dont count". I've done a couple thousand approaches myself. THIS SHIT TAKES TIME. Do you understand? Ill say it once more.....THIS SHIT TAKES TIME. 

Three days wont do you much unless your on a bootcamp or something. 

I actually made a thread like three years ago about a night where I got blown out 30 times in a row and it was awesome. Because at the end of it I was so fucking indifferent it was amazing. And from there on my results got better and better. But I still always have ups and downs too just like everyone else. THIS SHIT TAKES TIME. Change doesnt happen that quick. Thats why i'm saying come back in a year or two. If you think taking three days of action is enough you are highly deluded. Which is why I say that your comments are so fucking dumb.

Everything you are saying is coming through the perspective of a chode. Everything you think is coming the perspective of a chode. You are going to read this post and interprete it through your chode perspective. Also I can tell through your responses that you lack certain social intelligence. 

Your getting advice from a guy who has done several thousand more approaches than you. Who isnt coming from the perspective of a chode. Who has way more experience. And who started off in the exact same position, was just as bad and has the same background. 

Of couse this isnt going to get through to you. 

Thats why the only thing I can really say is: 1) Stop complaining about your looks. Dont complain. Dont blame. Dont compare. 2) Take massive fucking action. For a long period of time. 

You cant get good the way you are now. Sorry. You need to evolve and grow. And that only happens through taking action. I sucked shit big time in my first year. And I was forced to change. Everytime I grew as a person (through experience) I got better. I realised all my old ways of thinking were flawed. 

Theres not really much more I can say. Except that I still wanna grab you by the beard and slap you in the face hahahaah would be soooo funny!! 
I don't think i'm playing the victim mindset. When I tell people that i'm shaving my beard, cutting my hair, and getting rid of my turban, it really means that i'm doing it out of looking more attractive. I'm not changing my identity at all. i'm just removing variables that will disqualify me from women. 

so how is this a limiting belief? why can't I look attractive? So far,  i'm taking a lot of action, going to the gym, learning how to fight(thanks to my MMA friend), and making myself look more attractive(makeover). I think you guys are hardcore into the "i'm enough" mindset, but in reality, 26 years of being a virgin, do you guys seriously think 'm enough? i'm just "changing" for the better.

yes, i am following your advice macavity ("taking massive fucking action. for a long period of time). And yeah, i need to stop complaining, or blaming. But dude, why not? maybe it's true on what I complain about and i just needed acknowledgement? It's not like i'm going to quit pickup, but i just want to know the truth(about whether or not my turban and overall superficial attractiveness is hindering me). Ther'es nothing wrong with knowing the truth. And so what if it's true? i will still try my best and take action. Big deal

macavity,you won't be able to slap my becuase i'm shaving my beard. I will probably be exhiled by the punjabi/sikh community(no turban, no beard, cutting hair) but who cares. i'm a grown man making my own decisions.

Like neil kinda said "turban/beard/hair" is not a choice, shaving beard/hair/getting rid of turban IS a choice.
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It helps to make yourself attractive as possible when your a chode because you have no game... You suck balls and have extremely limitting beleifs... But on top of all that... Your extremely fucking ugly.

So yes, shave your beard, cut your hair, take off your turban.. Get your skin waxed and bleached... After you get some fuckin game from going out every night... Then you can putyour turban back on etc. Oh yea, and take a speach class for your horrific accent.
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#29

SikhDude26

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afl3x wrote:
It helps to make yourself attractive as possible when your a chode because you have no game... You suck balls and have extremely limitting beleifs... But on top of all that... Your extremely fucking ugly.

So yes, shave your beard, cut your hair, take off your turban.. Get your skin waxed and bleached... After you get some fuckin game from going out every night... Then you can putyour turban back on etc. Oh yea, and take a speach class for your horrific accent.
yeah that's where i'm heading towards. So i'm doing whatever it takes to get good, even if I have to get rid of my turban.

I"m not fucking ugly or anything, maybe in the western culture. IN the eastern culture, having long hair, beard, and turban means purity, so it's a turn on over there and also shows status. So maybe in the western culture aka white girls, but not punjabi girls. This is the reason why i'm taking off my turban(because i want to attract western women)

speech class? i thought chicks dig guys with accents? 
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Macavity wrote:

SikhDude26 wrote:

but i just want to know the truth(about whether or not my turban and overall superficial attractiveness is hindering me). Ther'es nothing wrong with knowing the truth.
I told you the truth in my first post. And I will say it again. 

IT DOES NOT MATTER.

IT IS NOT NECESSARY TO BE GOOD LOOKING TO PULL STUNNERS.

GO FIND THIS OUT FOR YOURSELF AFTER COLD APPROACHING FOR A LONG PERIOD OF TIME SO THAT YOU ARE NOT TALKING TO WOMEN AS A CHODE BUT AS A CHAMP. YOU NEED TO CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY, BEHAVIOUR, BELIEFS AND MINDSETS. THIS CAN ONLY HAPPEN THROUGH A VAST NUMBER OF REFRENCE EXPEREINCES. 

Not just three nights in Vegas after a 100 or so approaches lol. 

I only saw this 'truth' when my game stopped sucking. However even during the times I doubt myself, girls themselves would be the ones proving me wrong by showing IOI's, checking me out, being into me, calling me, taking pictures, texting me, being excited to see me, getting with them, introducing me to their friends, makeouts, sex, braging to their friends about me etc. 

Now go do this dance:


i wish I can believe your theory macavity. But due to my own reference experiences, i've gotten a lot of negative attention and racial/stereotypes with my turban/beard. So what makes you think it doesn't turn off women?(assuming that you got a shitload of racial stereotypes/glares/stares from people?) 

Maybe when my game gets better, i will put it back on because although i have a turban+beard, my game will be icey, so it compensates with my bad looks(especially towards western women). 

Maybe your reference experience was different from mine, but growing up, I did get a lot of racial remarks. (thank you bin-laden for bombing 9/11) and a lot of misunderstanding of my religion and ethnic background. 

i've arleady gotten advice from my white/black friends who are naturals, and they all told me to lose the turban and beard and have a clean cut look. If you want to attract certain women, be the man she fucks. So if i want to attract goth/tattood chicks, dress like a goth/tattoo'd guy, or if it's a white girl, then dress like a guy a white girl would fuck(and most white girsl that i've seen are making out with tall good looking white guys). I got all this advice from my natural friends.

I am putting fort the advice from my natural friends over yours macavity. But the advice yall have in common is to take action and approach and get good at game. however, when it comes to beliefs, due to my overwhelming reference experience, it is IMPOSSIBLE for me to claim that "it doesn't matter, that it's all "game and Sub-com"" even if it were true(which i doubt it is).

i'm not having an "ego" or being "stubborn" or a "hardcase". but i refuse to believe in somethin that is hard for me to believe because it contradicts Everything i've experienced growing up. Maybe when I get good at game, and my reference experience change, MAYBE and just Maybe i will claim that "it doesn't matter" that it's just "me being a chode/pussy who bitches and makes excuses", until then I am going by what my reference experience is NOW. 

i hope you guys understand. 
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