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May 28th, 2017
How do you get more masculine polarity? Is it related to being more happy?
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AlexV

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 go out and approach
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Go fight people randomly on the streets until youre the boss
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 Be whom youre meant to be.
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 @Serpico

I didn't really get the video, lol. Is he saying that you should have both masculine and feminine polarity? tounge
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You gain masculine polarity through taking T4. duh... lol

steroids......

It's from watching other men that have a masculine pull. Get on their level and experiment with that way of acting.

Once you cultivate lots of positive reference points you will become more comfortable taking those actions.... in times where you were a chick ... .Now you have cultivated ways to overcome your weaknesses and you are a fuckin' man!

So yes being more happy in taking new masculine action is the key. That comes from acting consciously in the new way you want to be and accomplishing manageable smaller goals that are attainable.
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Excellent post by Trent3Reznor. Good stuff.

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Leo Shelby

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For me masculin polarity it's the deepest layer of attraction. The same as a Hot girl attracts you just because is very femenine, you attract girls without nothing just because your masculinity. Happyness is an amplifier of your polarity is like giving a  very strong signal. Masculin Polarity is the content of the message. For a men can be hard to sense someone with a very masculin polarity, but for a girl is easy. With a strong polarity you can attract girls without being happy (But being happy makes the thing a lot easier, like a million times).

But better go out and find out yourself.
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 Yes, David Deida is the right man for you if you want to learn about masculinity. Wild Night is great, wild and short book to read
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If you're like me, you're probably thinking to yourself "wtf does being on your own path mean?"

The answer lies when Trent was saying that you take joy from the actions you take.  In other words, drawing state from within.  Now, again if you're like me you're like "wtf does that mean?"

It means that you pump your own state.  In Julien's manifesto video he says that you get that "feel good feeling" by taking the action.  For example, you're debating whether or not to open, you say fuck it, push past your comfort zone and open.  That rush you get from opening/living on the edge is one way to draw state from within.  Other ways include:

-getting aroused just by looking at her (as opposed to her giving you IOIs and leading things sexually, which makes you feel aroused)  -->state transfer happens here
-saying things to make it fun, pumping your own state (as opposed to waiting for other people to give you permission to have fun)  -->if you're sitting there bored waiting for things to happen, and then feel good when someone else has fun/brings the party, you're not drawing state from within. Again, state transfer happens here

An example of this is teasing the girl, not to get a reaction, but you take joy from proactively messing around with people.  And the fact that you're the one who made it happen instead of waiting for someone else to do it is ultimately attractive.

Most people rely on the environment to tell them when they are allowed to feel state/feel sexual/feel social/feel entitled/have fun.

When you are reaction seeking (trying to get her to like you/trying to "game her"), it's a symptom of you drawing state from your environment as opposed to you drawing state from within and that you depend on the paths of others for fufillment (it communicates that you don't see the world through your own eyes, you're not a leader, you have an ego which means you have issues which means you have a bad past which means you are probably often dealing with issues that only chodes deal with).  When you say things that pump your own state, it's a symtpom of being on that path (which communicates that you see the world through your own eyes, you make things happen, you are resourcefull).

Hope that helps.
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 Masculine polarity is deeper than being happy, it's a lower level of peace, a deeper unshakable groundedness that's in every man. This is the raw form of masculinity which creates natural attraction. On the surface you can be deeply depressed, crazy, and unnatractive but if you just be your natural self, let go of the ego and go out, then girls become easy as cake.
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