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TYLER what are things to focus on infield? (others can answer too)
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Nj

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Join Date: 03/29/2012 | Posts: 243

Since there are too many things like fredom from outcome,entitlement,RAS,buyer seller dynamic,subcommunication,being not doing, ETC.

But what i have found is that many a times i get stuck in my head because os somany stuffs and then end up attaching to the outcome and not approach..Its this thoery becomes new excuses..

I  can logically understand this concepts but cant seem to fully apply infield...and end up thinking abt it.....
also i sometimes decide not to anything conciously and approach .approach approach..without thinking but i feel just approaching is not going to improve me...FOR EG..lets say infield..if i keep a thought in mind that be buyer not seller..then i know that i will be focused on being buyer and not seller....but if i think then i get stuck in my head..and i dont approach...but other way if i go and approach and not think ...then i will end being seller..

So my question can be summarized into this>>>How do i learn and apply concepts properly infield without needing to think?
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TheGoodLife

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Be Present and out of your head. (eliminates outcome dependance, makes you cool/calm, no anxiety) 

Be Clear in your intent/ Man to Women frame (You want to fuck this girl, not make a friend)

And Have Fun.

Sidenote: Remember, ALWAYS BE CLOSING


Imagine you have a beautiful girl at home wearing lingerie, and NO girl you talk to is going to even compare to her.

Sometimes it helps me get in that state of abundance and there's no pressure in talking to any girl because no matter what happens I have that Dime Piece waiting at home for me.

Nj wrote:
Since there are too many things like fredom from outcome,entitlement,RAS,buyer seller dynamic,subcommunication,being not doing, ETC.

But what i have found is that many a times i get stuck in my head because os somany stuffs and then end up attaching to the outcome and not approach..Its this thoery becomes new excuses..

I  can logically understand this concepts but cant seem to fully apply infield...and end up thinking abt it.....
also i sometimes decide not to anything conciously and approach .approach approach..without thinking but i feel just approaching is not going to improve me...FOR EG..lets say infield..if i keep a thought in mind that be buyer not seller..then i know that i will be focused on being buyer and not seller....but if i think then i get stuck in my head..and i dont approach...but other way if i go and approach and not think ...then i will end being seller..

So my question can be summarized into this>>>How do i learn and apply concepts properly infield without needing to think?

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JohnM

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 There no such thing as focusing on freedom from outcome. 
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GAME1010

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do not try and "focus on being present"  thats a mindfuck and you'll drive yourself nuts.  instead focus on having FUN.  Best mindset to pick up girls is in is a FUN and SOCIAL headspace.  Try to have as much fun as possible, play retarded games in the bar like Alex does, or dance like a goofball in the middle of the dfloor, yell and jump around and talk to your friends, and then go pickup girls from that headspace.  all you gotta do... is have some fun.. thats ur only focus.  then still take action and open.

if ur all serious and shit you will suck.
:) have fun!
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#1: Look in eyes, have a relaxed body posture, smile, talk loud and in a flow, do some lightly touching, move closer.

#2: don't open with logic --> no questions or anything she can cut you off with a y/n answer. Open with statements and get in her "personal space", let her know that you are there.

#3: talk, talk, talk and talk some more. Since you are a stranger and need to get her hooked, you should take care of +80 % of the talkiing the first 1-5 min.

#4: Share stories and relate as much as possible. Be passionated and let her see what a cool person you are. Do push-pull. Avoid "normal conversation stuff" (where you from, what do you do etc.). Turn everything to something positive and be a warm and confident person. Tease her. Qualify her.

#5: don't be afraid to get the rejection. Focus on success that you opend and not on the close/rejection.

#6: Never never never, beat yourself down. "Okay, now I have tried that", instead of telling you self that you suck and so on.
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JohnM

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do not try and "focus on being present" thats a mindfuck and you'll drive yourself nuts.
If you have no reference experience of being present it will drive you nuts.
If you practice meditation and  "focus on being present" can mean "do the stuff you do when meditating".
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Seedro

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 Focus on all those things as they come up the slight amount they will in your new emotional headspace...

The truth is ideally your brain is full of fucking nonsense baby-babble-talk WHILE IN FIELD AND IN STATE, you still need to be logical when your in business-mode or on the forums or school or something.

Then that stuff comes out and is called waffle, then bitches vags get all wet.

Emotional, sexual, narcissist side -> club
Logical, rational, humble side -> when alone or learning
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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/443667 - Building an army of bad bitches, one boring office broad at a time.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/455130 - Be a hero, get chased, less cold-approaching, more warm-approaching.
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 Actually doing something
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CANM

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0bbi wrote:
It's kind of ironic that Tyler purposefully makes his stuff super cryptic vague and new agy to weed out guys who don't go out..

meanwhile..

Alex comes up..
breaks down pickup process to the extreme..
puts all he pieces together..
compresses it down to four stupidly simple steps that any kind of dummy can understand..
and delivers THE MOST POTENT METHOD EVER.

Don't worry Tyler, "you'll always be my hero, even though you've lost you're mind"
Where can said method found?
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testo123

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pStv5PyANyI
CANM wrote:
Where can said method found?
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CANM

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testo123 wrote:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pStv5PyANyI
CANM wrote:
Where can said method found?

Thanks a lot.

Holy crap, 2 hours.

Would you say this is worth watching?

As Tyler mentioned in his recent video, I need to "buy in" to this before I decide to invest 2 hours watching it. So would like to see opinions.
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