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December 11th, 2016
Be Engaging!
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Tyler

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Here are a few notes I made to myself the other day....

-obama seemed disengaged in first debate -- this nearly cost him the election, NOT because people wouldn't vote for him, but he literally looked like he wasn't up for the job

-engaging: your mind will FOCUS on what it's doing, as opposed to meandering about cause you don't care. it enjoys the process of what it's doing, but not self qualifying

-it would be hard for me to get laid tired now? why? id take it if it was easy, but i don't want it bad enough to be engaging,. my mind wont focus enough

-EO board analogy: some people were nervous and self qualified, some seemed aloof, but those who were engaged were best

-sweet spot: not nervous, not aloof, simply engaged

-why would a 6 go home with a hot guy who will have her give head and blow her off, when she can get an average guy who will ravage her?

-john gray "1 rose per day" is better than a dozen twice a month, cause it shows the girl youve stayed engaged

-girls biggest fear of HS recording is stop engaging them, theyd even makeout with other girl but want to stay part of the process

-girls used to like palm reading or cube cause you were engaging them

-julien may create drama, but at least it's engaging. most girls he'd be too lazy to

-you can talk your way out of anything with a girl if you stay engaging, as long as it doesn't slip into self qualifying

-girl may make you wait for sex to see if you can stay engaged with her that long. it's a great screen: most girls i don't have the patience, but those i do im really into

-RSD is popular cause students sense we LIKE teaching them and are engaged with them

-they don't question if they could find a better teacher cause although there may be better, they won't find one more engaged with teaching them

-RSDN vids show people "if i took a program with them, these guys would teach their asses off for me, not ignore me.."

-the day im not not engaged id stop teaching, similar to how tv shows should just stop once they lose interest in engaging their audience with great writing and performances

-girls don't like it when guys wack off and dont fuck them cause they seem apathetic

-aside from breach of trust, girls fear of cheating is mostly based on that the guy is no longer interested in them and engaged with some other girl

-if the guy stays engaging they dont really care usually

-girls dont like guys who are apathetic towards LIFE cause it implies a lack of engagement, they like guys with passion, guys who have something that engages their minds

-my biggest fear for my kids wouldn't be if they followed in my footsteps like a lot of egotistical dads, it's if they were disengaged towards life

-guys do these "half assed approaches" and girls walk by shoo'ing them away, cause they don't feel the guy really tried

-i say to these guys "you didn't get rejected,cause she never even got to meet you"

-i'd bet the girl doesn't even view it that she rejected him, rather he wsn't REALLY interested

-guys say "well what im NOT engaged.. Why should i have to be. THEY dont have to be"

-well why do i have to be engaged with YOU? cuz ur time resources r in demand.

-i made a firm choice to ACCEPT this and make it fun

-if u dont like the girl be engaged with momentum itself self amuse

-Julien is so good cause he loves enacting scenes,  he's found a way to get himself engaged even if the girl is crap

-minimalist game works when ur super present and even tho quiet she can see in ur eyes ur engaged.

-combo of minimal game + lack of engagement is super wack

-Women's purpose in the world is to MAKE your mind focus

-You see a hot girl and it MAKES your mind become engaged

-Her view is "Dude if I don't make your mind engage" GO AWAY!

-Julien is amazing cause he managed to get his mind to engage whether he likes the girl or not, cause he likes to create the dramatic scene

-Being self amused means your mind is super engaged anyway, so it helps you to pull girls who you wouldn't be as into otherwise

Tyler
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TheGoodLife

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 Thanks, enjoyed reading this.
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dcampo3

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: I. Interesting. Very interesting.. but..
Too advanced for me. Going back to my newbie cave
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VictorGarcia

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 Love it. How about: 

Engage the PROCESS of pick up, instead of just sitting around hoping for results. 

Engage the learning process and engage the info learned from Tyler and Julien and RSD - instead of simply letting it run over you and being like 'oh thats cool' 

Engage in the PLEASURE of pick up, instead of looking for the quick result or the ego boosting. 

As alex puts it, spending lots of TIME with the girls makes them more attracted more time = more attraction = more likely sex. Why? Because I have the opportunity to actually engage with the girl, instead of spend 2 minute spitting game at her. 

Being present means engaging what is in front of me - instead of trying to force things to be what they are not and not engaging the current situation. 
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Trent3Reznor

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Awesome post. 

It's just like on the basketball court. 

If I'm playing some scrubs, my game is lazy and I take stupid shots, because I'm not engaged. 

But throw me in a fullcourt game with some legit athletes, and I'm slashing to the hole, crossing defenders, and dominating from the mid range. 

The key to being engaged in any area of life is challenging yourself and enjoying the process of competing. 
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chinaski

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cool name for a new rsd product:  Engagements    
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Socially Dynamic

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Great reaffirmation post! Always love the stuff you post Tyler, thank you!
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dave7-

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I guess engaged makes us feel more alive?
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Resmat

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 great stuff.. so I guess you're going to delve deeper into the concept of engagement huh?
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Mackiavelli

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It's funny because I was LITERALLY thinking about this today, I just came out of one of those "depressive" states by remembering how amazing life really is and to not take the emotions and experiences for granted(good and bad), I was also thinking about how my best friends growing up (who were naturals) always loved to tell people about silly little things be it lord of the rings, or a show they saw on TV about aliens, they were always in SINCERE amazement by little things, which I thought was funny but I could see people being mesmerized by them while they explained whatever it was, because they really were engaged!

also thanks for unbanning me :) cheers
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The Duck ✘

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WOW. I really really REAAALLLY liked this. Particularly relates with me in the business world. At the conferences it's the dudes who are engaged with their speech who get all kinds of reactions from the audience.

I write thoughts down in bullet points as well and find them to be valuable later on.
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