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April 24th, 2014
You Need to go to Alex's Hot Seat
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Tron9K

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Join Date: 01/19/2012 | Posts: 2

Alexander's program is the most different, but one of the best I've seen. His method is simple, but effective.

Basic rules are this

- You are enough (I read this before, but it didn't make sense to me as much until I attended the program). If you are hygenic man, take care of your self, there is no reason you aren't enough for a girl. The girl is attracted to the relationship, not to you.
- Touch, talk, tests, and time. Beat tests by not emotionally reacting, not reacting at all. Treat her like the little kid frame/man in her life frame. Look after her, but call her out.
- You can't game the girl, game yourself. Do things that make you laugh, happy, etc, as long as their socially adjusted.
- Touch. Make moves. Get physical with the girl, but you don't have to go too far. Don't blow yourself out with friends, or others around there. I'd say just go with what you see the girl is comfortable with at the time, and if she's not, or even before hand, he recommends statements of empathy.
-  4x Rule. You can ask somoene anything up to 4x. No more. If they don't comply up to 4x, then you stop, leave. But ask up to 4x. Courtship, not pickup.  (This worked with me actually this past weekend with a girl who said no to dance with me, another for the #, another I tried she complied, but her friends dragged her off).

Alex starts and ends on time with his Hot Seat, he answers all questions even those that are clearly armchair, or guys maybe off the point...He'll call it out of he thinks so. He's very educational in all his answers to his perspective, without letting things go off on tangents. There are breaks, and a few funny videos so it's not a constant bombardment of pickup. It lightens the mood, keeps you interested throughout.

Full pickups are shown unlike in other hot seats. From open to close. To the time of night, time spent with the girl. Key instructional terms on the screen showing Positive, Negative Expressions, and the number of tests he gets. Things I wouldn't even think tests, but before I'd think well, that's the end, he lists as tests. Courtship. 4x rule again huge.

Another great fact. He did the videos sequentially as his game improved. From 2009 where he was very high energy, like many of us, "Game! Game! Game! Game!", to the slowly where he go to the path now. The best videos are shown on the bonus day, which he did even while sick, and it's something you NEED to see.

Overall, just go. I doubt he'll be hitting up these places again.

It's not a bunch of flash, which serves no purpose. It's the real deal.
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CaptainAmerica

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Join Date: 08/07/2010 | Posts: 2

 I agree completely! Alexander is one of my favorite instructors! I always listen to his videos. After the first week of watching videos and practicing i met my current f-buddy!! After that i was sold and drove to seattle to visit his hotseat. Im always taking bits and pieces of his videos and applying them to my game. Ive brought home another girl since then and am becoming more of the man i envision by every passing day :). I also helped my friend get laid by telling him the 4x rule along with the other rules mentioned above and helped him with her friend last night . Alex is a true coach, and if you come with an open mind and a willingness to learn you will definitely gain alot of value from hotseat (and bootcamp of course!). 
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Join Date: 05/15/2007 | Posts: 3132

 Hell yeah mate, I;m glad you got a lot out of it and i Hope that the results and transformations begin now!

Cheers from me!

Alexander~
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Tron9K

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Join Date: 01/19/2012 | Posts: 2

 I can't say again how important it is to see this on screen. I always had a hard time seeing what is a test, and what isn't test. Alex's hotseat opened up my eyes completely that basically any non-compliance IS a test (up to 4x)!N As long as you're being just socially normal, well adjusted. You need to see it for a better understanding. But this has changed my world. Just hold the frame...Don't be defensive, or offensive. Keep it light. Gold.
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Join Date: 03/06/2012 | Posts: 603

Whats this bonus day all about?
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Etha09

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Join Date: 03/18/2013 | Posts: 2

hi Tron9K!
nice post.

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Milo93

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Join Date: 03/18/2013 | Posts: 14

 im going too hes free tour :)       in swe
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ouiouib

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Join Date: 12/25/2012 | Posts: 31

 good ;)
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dubainewbe

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Join Date: 03/25/2013 | Posts: 7

want to soo bad
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andrewdeo

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Join Date: 12/31/2012 | Posts: 14

Definaly going to go now. 
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