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March 25th, 2017
Game is going to ruin my life, can not stop thinking and talking - INTER AND ADVANCED
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#21
matt_c

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Join Date: 11/20/2011 | Posts: 471

Hmm it's tough to understand exactly what you don't like about your situation. I think your perception of it is what's hurting.

It seems like you think you SHOULD be at a level above where you're currently at? This creates loads of pain. Hmm I actually made this video that might answer your question. It's from ages ago, when I was working on a totally different project. The content is still good though:



Lol my speaking has improved so much.
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#22
Adil

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Join Date: 03/29/2010 | Posts: 305

Oh it's this cock sucker (advanced). OP where is your other epic thread, can't find it.
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#23
Manwhore

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 Holmes, point blank, you need to raise your level of charisma. You cannot run from this anymore, you need to become a more flamboyantly masculine individual. If you've got all this going for you, you've got to force yourself to stop being a stick in the mud, and become a more exciting and enticing individual to be around. Get on it. 
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#24
FoodBuddha~

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"But how would you stay relaxed if you were in such shitty situation like me?"

View the whole thing like a game.  Not a pew pew video game.  More like a "game of life."  Your goal is whatever you set it to be: "I want to get a new girl every week, that's my goal."  Then you go about putting all the blocks in place to meet and then exceed that goal.  You don't turn your nose up at stuff without investigating.  Just like if you're programming and you get a weird error.  Do you go, "Pfffff, not going to bother looking that one up."?  NO, you look it up and try to make sense of it.  Same thing with girls - you have already engaged the process with all your uptake of RSD products and services.  Now you need to investigate YOURSELF.

What kind of personal routine works best for me?
What kinds of ways do I like to get girls?  What ARE all the ways?
What do I need improving on?
What are my strengths and how do I capitalize on them and convert meetings into sex?

All that stuff.  Being an engineer can actually be a HUGE advantage, because you think procedurally.  The drawback is that us nerds can be awkward, so we have to work with that gimpy leg, but we can overcome that, no problem.  I've done it and seen tons of nerds do it too.

I've also seen nerds utterly fail at girls, because they gave up and didn't engage with it as a process, a game that you can actually improve at if you work at it and pay attention.  Mistakes you make will be your guide...
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#25

mizukim

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Join Date: 10/23/2012 | Posts: 134

^ THIS!!
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#26

oduman

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Join Date: 02/09/2009 | Posts: 198

Great video, thanks Matt. I think I am going to work on my goal myself a bit and post rsdnation rarely about it. I am going to start pickup from scratch by re-reading "The Game" and watching RSD products and reading articles on rsdnation. What I need is not writing my inner game issues to forum, what I need is going out, getting reference experiences and cultivating my lifestyle with cool stuff.
matt_c wrote:
Hmm it's tough to understand exactly what you don't like about your situation. I think your perception of it is what's hurting.

It seems like you think you SHOULD be at a level above where you're currently at? This creates loads of pain. Hmm I actually made this video that might answer your question. It's from ages ago, when I was working on a totally different project. The content is still good though:



Lol my speaking has improved so much.
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