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Sarging solo: How to handle 2sets
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Dr Feelgood

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You go out solo, and you run into the most common scenario, a girl 2set.

What do you do with the second one now?

Keep her entertained?
Isolate?
Give her away to some random guy?
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abconetwothree

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Is it okay if I borrow your friend for two minutes? Kthnxbye....
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What type venue?
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Dr Feelgood

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Babe wrote:
Is it okay if I borrow your friend for two minutes? Kthnxbye....
Does that work frequently with you? IME, hardly any girl leaves her friend standing there alone for a long time.
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Dr Feelgood

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Free style wrote:
What type venue?
Say bigger, crowded, louder clubs.

Or more chill clubs.

Or any other type of venue, for that matter.

Standing sets.
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Dr Feelgood wrote:



Babe wrote:
Is it okay if I borrow your friend for two minutes? Kthnxbye....
Does that work frequently with you? IME, hardly any girl leaves her friend standing there alone for a long time.
Yes -- Girls lose there friends all the time in clubs. Ofcourse you can confiscate the friend for a minute, just falsse time constrain it. It's hit and leave, hit and leave, hit and leave, hit -> pulled. Alex's method of doing minimal long sets than multiple short sets works -- The "hit" part is when you're engaging the girl/friend(s) fo a long period of time, then leaving again. This builds arousal. You don't even need to neccesarily LEAD her around that much.
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Dr Feelgood

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So what you are saying is this?:

- Engage target, engage obstacle
- "Hey, can I borrow your friend for a minute?"
- Leaving for a short time with target
- Coming back to obstacle together for some time
- Leaving again
etc.
etc.
Right?

Thanks!
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Dr Feelgood wrote:
So what you are saying is this?:

- Engage target, engage obstacle
- "Hey, can I borrow your friend for a minute?"
- Leaving for a short time with target
- Coming back to obstacle together for some time
- Leaving again
etc.
etc.
Right?

Thanks!
Yep. But the interactions are alot longer with target.
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I preface this by saying that much of my experience with this comes in the settings of bars/pubs/divebars/lounges..my venues of choice. Dance club game may be different. You can try pulling them both. For this to work get in the center of them and bounce attention off of them. You'll likely notice that they can get very catty with each other over the attention. Get them secluded with you, maybe play some games together if you're at a pub/dive bar or hit the photo booth with them. Then take them out of the venue. Perhaps you can get a 3some, or what happened to me a few weeks ago was that I left with 3 girls but only one of them had sex with me. 

Or, Leave the other one "open" for another guy to come in. For this position yourself on the side of the target, and while giving the one intermittent attention, let herself open herselp up enough to be approachable to other dudes. If you are not in a setting where this is going to happen easily, move the group to a different part of the venue where it is. You can now be the leader of the group, and this will also give you social proofing in the eyes of your target, as ultimately the guys who approach the friend will have to break into the group dynamic you've formed. 

Leaving with the girl depends on the girls. Some are really attached with their friends and wouldn't leave their friend alone. This is normal, in which case go back and read what I wrote before. I would still suggest following plan 2 above, have the other girl get approached, and then isolate your target later. 

A lot of solo gaming 2/3 sets seems to come down to positioning and the frame you've created. You must calibrate to the set and be attuned to the balancing of emotions. Be the leader of the group, calibrate, frame the situation right, and you should be able to maneuver towards getting towards your target. Be sure to escalate kino with your target during this process. 
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can you clarify this part, how do you typically plant the seed? do you leave the venue with both target and her friend or before? cheers.
justgowithit wrote:
This is how i do it on the dancefloor cuz that's how i open usually.  

i open my target, see how friend reacts.  If she pulls her right away i can tell i won't be pulling them tonight so i say fuck it.  If the friend doesn't cockblock, i'll talk to the target for 30 seconds to 2 minutes, then i'll mention the friend in some way.  Usually i'll ask something like "so who's the crazy one?"  If target says she is, i'll go to the friend and say hey she says she's the crazy one, is that true?  If target says the friend i go to the friend and say target says you're the crazy one is that true?  Then i chat with her for a bit and then go back to the target.  At this time i'll split my time between the two 2/3 target 1/3 friend.  Eventually i'll pull them off the dancefloor and just talk somewhere.  I want them to think of me as part of their set for the night.  If i do my job right, the friend will even go to the bathroom by herself and allow me to talk to the target.  Once it gets to that point, if you want to pull, at some point you mention it to the target and she'll discuss it with her friend in the bathroom at some point.  
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