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Keke012

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Join Date: 03/10/2012 | Posts: 31

Yo !

I'm the kind of guy who struggles with the approach. My mindset towards it is really wierd and creepy.
I've been trying to fix it, reframe it and shit but I'm still having trouble with it.

So I figured "Why not just go up with random stupid stuff, just to prove to myself that it doesn't matter". Well, I can't.

Funny enough, I'm paralyzed at the idea of coming up to a girl with something ridiculous.

Stuff that comes from me, anyway. Probably an ego slash permission thing.

So here I am, asking you guys to give me crappy openers.

Thanks !
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Doge~

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Won't matter how crappy it is or not crappy, you're brain is going to think everything is shit. I thought saying "Hi, how are you?" was the most chode thing ever for the longest time.

Here's maybe a better idea.

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/249227
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testo123

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Join Date: 07/24/2012 | Posts: 868

^ that momentum post will only confuse this guy, he can't even approach

it's funny really, the problem obviously is that op is coming from a frame of having lower value than the girl since he's struggling with the opener, then he goes: "why not just say something stupid just to prove it doesn't matter" and he's back to the square one trying to figure out the appropriate stupid thing to say.
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Keke012

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Join Date: 03/10/2012 | Posts: 31

Yeah, I think I understand your point Haze. You're just saying I should loosen up. And that's what I do. Well, i try.
To relax myself, i just dumb myself down (still being sober). I mean, I just go in super chill, no threat at all and I just chit-chat.

There is no fun in it. And, I would like to see other things.

So i wanna try something different. And i though that coming up with crappy openers might help.

But yeah, if you look at it from your standpoint testo, yeah... It's kind of funny. But I'm not trying to figure out anything here. I'm just asking for crappy openers.
I see what you mean, though. But then, I'm fucked right. So yeah, I'll just stand there and do nothing about it. You're right. I'm fucked... Too bad for me ! I'm just gonna go hide myself and die slowly. That should be fun.

I'm just asking for crappy openers guys... Maybe it's not coming from the right place, that's probably the case but it's not like i can go in a cave and meditate about it and then it will be fixed. I know my inner stuff is not the best that it can be, but if I just sit there complaining about it, it's not gonna get any better. Well, in my opinion.

So, do you have any idea for crappy openers ? :P
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Twolife

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 This: 

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dcampo3

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Join Date: 05/01/2012 | Posts: 1925

Great dude. You are actually taking a good approach at improving that.
This is what i did to convince my brain more that all i need is my presence.
Go to the street.. and open girls with a reaaaaaaaaaally boring line... and dont ask questions.. just throw statements. You will creep the fuck out of them.. but surprisingly.. some of them will stay and ask you stuff. My line was: "What a nice weather huh?" lol
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Klaus

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Join Date: 07/30/2012 | Posts: 1068

Hi,
do you have a boyfriend?
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Keke012

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Join Date: 03/10/2012 | Posts: 31

Ahahaha, huge :D
Twolife wrote:
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Dcampo, yeah, i've been checking out your journal for quite a time. The progress you're making are great but what I really like about you is the fact that you're commited. It's really motivating. Keep going !

I guess simplicity is often the best choice.Thanks Klaus ;)
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Obisco

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 "Hi, you wanna fuck?"
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Snakeeye

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hey you look fat,
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G Bizz

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Heard of blue waffle?
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