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December 10th, 2016
Alexander Hot Seat & Bootcamp – Boston - Assistant's Perspective
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You’ll get the most of out of Free Tour by
-Asking GOOD questions
-Taking great notes
-Connecting with other cool guys there and hitting the town

You’ll get the most of out of Hot Seat by
-Asking GOOD questions
-Take great notes (No phones)
-Connecting with other cool guys there and hitting the town

So what is a good question? Think of a question you have about game…now pretend you are an RSD coach and try answering your own question. If you can answer it decently then it’s NOT a good question. Considering time is of the essence, really think twice about what you want to ask.

Good notes? Just make sure to bring a pen and notepad to Hot Seat.

You’ll get the most of out of Bootcamp by
-LISTENING to the Instructor
-IMPLEMENTING the lessons
-Have a ready to learn, driven and grateful attitude.

How did the weekend go? Well my brain exploded. My mind melted. My perspectives forever shifted. I spent 5 days with one of the best in the world.  Alexander from real social dynamics. I don’t even know where to begin. The dude is also quite possibly the NICEST GUY EVER, extremely generous and very giving, smart, lighthearted and a good time. Perhaps the chillest person I have ever met in this entire community personally.  Alex’s “natural instincts method” is a magnum opus.  Much like the Blueprint revolutionized the game back in 2008, Alex's work has the potential to do the same in 2012-2013.  

So I’ve been away from RSDNation for a year and half, this is my first post in that much of time, this weekend inspired me to do so, I just had to share. When I left, my posts were that of a someone a little lost at the time, a man of no action. Well I put down the computer and just went out HARDCORE for a year and half straight. Blowjobs in a public, approach to hardcore makouts in 2 seconds and several flings and same night lays later, here I am, now helping run Boston Inner Circle and assisting the awesome and fearless one named Todd as well as Papa and Co. Making movies, making songs and fightin round the world. This past weekend I had the opportunity to assist Alexander with his Bootcamp, Hot Seat and Free Tour. One of the other assistants who joined us for bootcamp from Philly had sex with 7 girls since the last hot seat...a week ago.

First off, the free tour was great, Alex dropped a lot of knowledge. What’s sad is from my perspective there are SOO many guys I know that could benefit from such a talk that just sit at home in their comfort zone and not even ATTEMPT to learn something new. Considering this is free, you’d be dumb not to go. Afterwards we all went out and grabbed a beer. Free tour attendees pulling girls home.

Bootcamp started the next night. After fighting off a fat fuck chode trying to kick us out of the lobby, Alex briefed the student. We headed off into the night, I dropped the guys off in my car and then got in line myself a little later. In line I noticed a hot blonde looking to get into the club as I talked to two girls in front of me. Once I got in I “went to work”. I kept to my infield responsibilities even though the girls in line were now dancing up on me trying to get my attention lol. Alex this night did an amazing demo when he chatted none other than the hot blonde from outside. With a little patience, soon they were making out. I drove them home and it nearly was a pull. Hopefully coming to a hotseat near you.

Next day was hot seat. One of the opening videos had me shaking my head as he was pointing out typical intermediate mistakes. His video, although a pull, was basically my game. I was watching myself on screen. The AWESOME thing about this hotseat is that the lessons build on top of each other, layering in the lesson so it is ingrained in your head. I realized SO many subtle things I had been doing just on day one of the hot seat.

Bootcamp that night was epic also. Alex dedicated his time towards the student the entire time and the student nearly pulled. Again I had hit up girls waiting in the line and re approached them later in the club. One girl kept her proximity close and as our interaction escalated she started testing more “Nothing is happening tonight” etc even though the signs of attraction were there. Endure tests. She then started dancing with me a little later. Logistics were shit so I let it go but still tried leaving the club with her for the sport of it.

Sunday was day game. As we walked in I saw a girl I had previously went on a few dates with back in the day but it had turned very cold over time. She was going the opposite direction. Why not. I stopped her on the street and after a bit of chatting, it turned into an impromptu insta date. Went for drinks, took a stroll around the mall. The whole time she had a quiet and attentive vibe about her as if to say “holy shit, I’m in the presence of an attractive man” I had to get back to the group and she had to go home but we set something up for down the road. In the mall, our team hit up the bookstore where more approaches happened. We went back to the hotel where Alex then debriefed the student.

The final night of hot seat was awesome. The final video gave me some major epiphanies about game. I saw so many SUBTLE things I had done wrong in pulling. My game up a level just from that final day.

On Monday we spent an extra day kickin it. Touring the city, being patriotic and yelling “Hazzah!” One of the girls on our tour was from Cali was staying near my house for 2 weeks. We chatted as we walked around the city. Honestly I may have been able to push this to a same day lay, I got her # but it was the most effortless thing I had ever done, she was basically trying to pull me near the end. After Alex and I did some final work we parted ways as he met up with the Hot Blonde. Good times with the Aussie. As I walked back to my car, I found myself texting back and forth with several girls simultaneously setting up several dates and thinking about what an awesome life I live.

There is no reason why you are not enough.
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Join Date: 12/02/2006 | Posts: 1353

Nice!
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TheRegulator

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Join Date: 07/04/2013 | Posts: 19

Dude, what a cool experience to hang out with Alex and assist.  His perspective on game is different than a lot of RSD, so I bet it was a refreshing look after the BC with Julien, Todd, and Tyler.

I'm interested to hear about the fat fuck chode.  We'll need to wing this week.
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 Haha fat fuck chode is staff at the hotel the events in Boston happen at.  He was there recently with Tyler, Julien and Todd in town as well giving an evil eye.  Lets def hit it up this weekend.
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zanesta

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Join Date: 07/18/2013 | Posts: 97

 Nice stuff from Alex, always! 
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