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December 7th, 2016
WHY YOU SHOULDN'T TAKE ALEXANDER'S HOTSEAT!!
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jakesfanboy

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Join Date: 11/20/2012 | Posts: 5

You should not take Alexander's hotseat because you will officically learn how to attract and seduce women without having to do anything, and you will officially loose all hope of ever wanting to settle down and get married. 

On a serious note - Overall, Alexander's Hotseat was FAR better than I could have ever expected. I would consider it the antidote to the intermediate purgatory. My game and my entire reality has now completely shifted. And to top it off, I have been getting MASSIVE results after attending the Hotseat. 

(By the way, I attended the Washington D.C. hotseat and the Boston Hotseat 2 weeks in a row, this is the review of both of them combined)
Lets begin with the review...

NEGATIVES
1. After much thought, I honestly couldnt think of any significant negatives to the hotseat worth noting. Besides the fact that I forgot my own notepad and paper, and they weren't provided by one of the hotels. Make sure if you attend, you dont forget a notepad and pen to take notes. You'll regret it!

2. The only other thing worth noting was that Alex didn't do the interactive excersises at the end of each day. Although, to his defense, the time designated to the excersises was spent answering questions on the days that were skipped. 

POSITIVES

1. The quality and details of the videos were beyond my expectations. This was BY FAR the best part of the entire hotseat. The way Alexander structured his video's made it impossible to not understand what was going on during the interactioin. Each and every video displayed the time of the night, the facetime of the interaction, the subtitles of the interaction, the date and location of the venue, AND the pinging that was going on subconsciously in the interaction. This addition to the hotseat made it retardedly easy to see what was going on during the interaction.
Let me explain. On the top left of the video, displayed....
P = Positive expression
P.E. = Physical Expression
N = Negative expression
T = Shit test
Each and every time Alexander would give a positive expression, a negative expression, or a physical expression, a color coded P, P.E, or N would pop up on the screen. At the same time, every time a girl threw out a shit test (which was a lot more than I expected) a red T would pop up on the screen. This was HUGE!! This feature demonstrated exactly what Alex was doing at each and every moment in the interaction. You could see exactly how each of these pings was used to attract and seduce the girl. Alex even paused it the video during questions and at important parts and would describe exaclty why he did what he did, which was extremely efficient for learning. 

2. The videos he presented went in time order, from 3 years ago to present day. This was intended to see how his game evolved over the years. He started off showing videos of his game three years ago, when he was too physical, pushy, needy, nervous, try hard, and inexperienced. He still mnaged to pull and get laid, But you could see that there was something off about his game. It was unnatural. You could see throughout the hotseat how his game developed and became MUCH smoother. By the last few videos, you couldn't even tell he was trying to pickup girls. It was so incredibly natural and smooth. It the kind of game I would want to run if I was picking up girls in front of my parents. It was casual, smooth, innocent, and natural. 

3. His game is completely different from the teachings of any of the other RSD instructors. There is nothing "gamey" about his technique. In fact, his technique doesn't even look or seem like a technique. It's completly natural. He teaches you excactly how to attract and seduce women by merely believing "there's no reason your not enough". I know this seems extremely vauge and somewhat obvious. In fact, I quit listening to Alexanders free tour videos because I found no value in his principles, especially this one. Although, after really watching and understanding what he meant by the principle "there's no reason your not enough" my reality literally shifted. It was a mind blowing realization I had that completely altered my game that I had to see to believe. There no flashy technique such as yelling at girls "oiiiii, bark like a dog!!! oink like a fucking piggy!!" "your a deadbeat white trash whore!!!". No tactics or methods or anything gamey. Just solid, confident, smooth, innocent, natural game. 

4. He spent every ounce of energy to get you to understand what he was talking about. If anyone asked a question, he would answer it. He genuinely cared whether or not you understood what he was talking about. This was really surprising to me. Even with some of the guys in the audience who were much older and CLEARLY inexperienced. He was also very professional and almost always started and ended on time which was a plus.

FINAL THOUGHTS
1. Alexander's game was extremely innocent, natural, and smooth. There was no manipulating involved in his game whatsoever. In the end, by being patient, innocent, and by trusting the process, he ends up sleeping with girls extremely easily. I sometimes feel like i'm overtly push when it comes time to pulling and I try way to hard, whereas Alex stays patient and still ends up with the girl. This was a really big paradigm shift for me. 
2. He used time as his ally. His basic priniciple, "the more facetime with the girl the more aroused she becomes" is demonstrated perfectly in his hotseat. He also hammers in the "4 time rule" which states that you should approach up to 4 times until you should stop, so long as you aren't coming from a needy frame of course. 
3. He demonstrates exactly how to plow right through shit test with his "water under the bridge" mentality. 
4. He demonstrates exactly how to use a combination of positive, negative, and physical expressions to attract and seduce the women. He shows COUNTLESS examples of each and describes when and why he uses each one. 
5. Innocence. The way he adds innocence in his game is truley something you have to see to believe. Its worth noting twice. Alex physically expresses himself, hes an alpha male, and he has pretty strong intent, although he still comes off as an innocent, harmless, fun guy. The way in which he adds a sense of innocence to his game is purely genius and extremely effective. This was a mind blowing realization I had from the hotseat. It by far the most efficient way to take down a girls defensivness. 
6. He stops the video and tells you to write down classic lines that he consistantly uses. Some of these lines were extremely applicable to use for the most common shit tests. Although the majority of the lines were used to set up high status, fun frames to talk about. "Do you wear normal underwear, or a g string?" "Do you like beer, or do you like me?" "[awkward moment] Do you think we were lost in the moment?" etc... These lines were extremely useful and I immediately applied a bunch of them to my game and got instant success. 
7. He goes over exactly how to AMOG guys and gives multiple examples. Hahaha. His amoging videos were actually hilarious!
8. I got way more value from Alexanders hotseat than I did with Juliens and Owens Hotseat. With Julien and Owen's, I felt like I was being forced information to go out and try. Whereas with Alexanders, I felt like I truley learned exactly how to seduce and attract women step by step. He really tried to make it as simple as he possibly could, which it was. I left with the feeling that I knew EXACLTY how to seduce and attract any girl no matter how attractive. 
9. I can honestly say that I thought this hotseat was undervalued. It was $300 although, after the fact, I would have been satisfied paying ATLEAST $2,000 with the amount of value I took out of it. Even tho I went to the Julien and Owen hotseat and pretty much knew what to expect, this one was different. Much different. It was better in every sense. It didn't leave with a bunch of ideas and methods to go out and apply to my game. I left with a full understanding of how to attract and bring a girl home. It was pretty remarkable to be honest. Expecially since I considered Alexander my least favorite instructor. I can honestly say that before the hotseat, I didnt even watch his videos and I didn't understand or resonate with anything he said. Now, he is by far my favorite instructor which is hard to believe.
10. His style of game is what every pickup coach around the world should teach. How to NATURALLY attract women. I was truley inspired when I saw how natural he looked while interacting with women. There was nothing he had to do or prove while he was out. He just relaxed, cleared his mind, and related as a confident man would relate to a women. 

*On a side note
I previously stated that I had MASSIVE success after attending the Hotseat. Well I did. Ill describe my results, not to brag, but to demonstrate how reality shifting the hotseat was for me. 
1. [Saturday]    After the first night of hotseat, I pulled and banged a 7 that had a boyfriend.
2. [Sunday]    The first day of hotseat, I got an 8's number during one of the breaks and set up a day 2 the following day. We were in D.C. so we took pictures next to the lincoln memorial and the white house, and ended our date back at her house where we did everything but sex. 

3. [Monday]    I then went back home to philly, where I pulled and banged a 7.5 asian chick from Upenn whom I pulled from the bar. 
4. [Wednesday]    2 days passed, and I intsa-dated a solid 8.5 from daygame, brought her home and madeout in my bed... (shes now my main girl)
5. [Friday - Drove to boston for the second Hotseat]    Spend an hour in set with a solid 9.5-10 and was on the brink of closing until external circumstances caused it to fall through.
6. [Saturday - First day of second hotseat]   I was on the brink of pulling an 8 which fell through after the club closed, but ended up running street game solo and banged a 40 year old in the womens locker room of her Apartment Complex. (im 21 years old) *full field report of this posted on RSDN forums under field reports titled "Jake Bangs a MILF"

So yea, as you can see I had pretty amazing results after the Alexander Hotseat. I went on what I felt was a rampage and I am 100% satisfied with his program. I can't thank Alex enough for the lessons I learned and I give his program atleast 75-85% of the credit for the results I got in the past week. His style of game is much different from any RSD event or pickup program I've ever attended with a whole new set of beliefs and principles. I HIGHLY reccomend taking his Hotseat if theres an event in your area. 

Feel free to message me with any questions concerning the Hotseat!

Cheers,

Jake
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The Duck ✘

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Lemme guess, you're in marketing ;0)

Great review
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Pup

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Join Date: 11/09/2012 | Posts: 63

Nice review man!
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jakesfanboy

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Join Date: 11/20/2012 | Posts: 5

 Nope, just a 21year old year college student who took a lot of value from his hotseat and wanted to share. Thanks tho! Ill take it as a compliment.
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G Bizz

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Haha, nice review.
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jakesfanboy

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Join Date: 11/20/2012 | Posts: 5

Bastard! That girl was awesome. hows the footage? are you putting it in the hotseat?
Alexander~ wrote:
 jake, i dated and hooked up with the gorgeous girl i eclipsed you from. 

it was fucking awesome.

Alexander~
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kapo

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haha nice
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I cant wait till he comes to NYC, ill take off from college haha
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aspire

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Join Date: 03/03/2013 | Posts: 12

Getting pumped about going to the Alex hotseat. Magic pill no, but I'm betting it will show me the best model for doing this.
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Join Date: 11/30/2012 | Posts: 197

nice!
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