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July 27th, 2017
Had erectile dysfunction again last night for nearly 30th time now, what should i try now?
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Boobyman

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Join Date: 11/14/2012 | Posts: 17

Ive had sex with nearly 30 girls now and every single time ive had erectile dysfunction.

i can get hard a little bit for a cpl seconds but i lose the erection as soon as the condom goes on. Ill get it up for antoehr cpl of seconds but before i can stuff it in its gone soft again.

i know its psyhcological cos im a horny bastard 24/7 otherwise, really ironic that the only time i DO get to be with a girl im soft :(.

Ive found that a cpl times when the condom has broken i felt myself getting close to cumming quickly but that isnt an option with random new girls so no solution. I can jerk off when im on my own with a condom on no probs so it shows its still a psychological thing.

other things ive tried: food supplements like l tyrosine, horny goat weeds and all maner of other ones all to no avail. My mind seems so fuckign stubborn it overrides any mild effect these may have.

i tried using a cockring which actually worked to maintian an ereciton tho it really kills orgasm for me and also i worried about keeping something on which is stopping circulation to my dick so I binned those.

I thought that it was cos the girls arent hot enough because the previous girls ive fucked have mostly been low 6s. I managed to come once so far from sex with a girl who was a 7 a few months ago which was a great acheivment to me as ive also never cum during sex all those times but even that time not first without having had the usual erection problems. This girl was patient and knew what she was doing which helped so she stuck with me once i explained it but many girls either think i dont like them or get angry etc.

So last ngiht i pulled a really nice 7 who i certainly found attractive and the same issues :(.

In desperation i tried drinking some vodka which she brought me up form the fridge. Note that Im usually t total but thought it was worth a shot given the effect alcohol has on squashing overanalysis. It kind of worked. I downed quite a few shots worht with lemonade in short order but i fucking despise the after effects of alcohol. I hate hate hate!!! the dehydration it brings and feeling like your kidneys/liver is in knots as you piss it out so that isnt gonna be an option. It certainly worked to hammer down my otherwise unyielding overanalytical side tho. Once it took effect I decided to go down on her as she was hot enough for that and I was loving it. After a while i was def getting turned on and after a bit she was jerking me off some but she had no condom and i didnt have one so left it at that for the night.

Im thinking i might try low doses of benzodiazepenes as thee are some which are legal in my country as they are even better for reducing anxiety with less side effects at least at lose doses compared to alcohol.

So i think ive really given the otehr options a good go im thinking now it might be a trip to the doc but i think id try benzoes before that.

the only other long term/natural solutions i can think of i havent tried are  A:) not sleepign with the girls till i know them better. I am actually not big on same night lays anyway. Ive done quite a few now and got my lay count up to a decent level to say im pretty experienced at sex now so id be interested in holding off on sex doing the day two thing as that would be my preference anyhow and seeing how that helps.

B:) a steady cardio regimen. i use to do cardio alot but not any more. i still walk alot but not intence cardio.

oh ye C would be not jerking off as I usually jerk off like 5 times a day. i think it would be easy to resist jerking off in the day but at night i find it really hard to resist when i wake up horny as fuck. maytbe ill try and 'cut down'.

Also what would be some good ways to frame it to girls to tell them i want to wait to have sex with them? Will most girls appreciate this if i say it. I dont think id have to mention it at all really if i just dont go for the same night lay id could just arrange to meet them in the day time and spend a few hours at a coffee shop or somehting getting more comfortable with them before taking them to my house for a shag.
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Primus

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Boobyman wrote:


oh ye C would be not jerking off as I usually jerk off like 5 times a day. i think it would be easy to resist jerking off in the day but at night i find it really hard to resist when i wake up horny as fuck. maytbe ill try and 'cut down'.
I've read your post. This is REDIKULUS. Save it for the ladies. I know no reason why you should do it 5 times a day. Search "your brain on porn" in google. Dig deep into that site and you'll find ALL your answers there. 
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narv

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Didn't read your long post, but have you tried to see the doctor?
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http://www.pegym.com/forums/beginners-forum/2166-jps-90-day-beginner-rou... Takes 30mins a day and wil help with your erectile dsyfunction, even if you try it once you should notice a difference 
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agentdoublej

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 Its all in your head.Go to the doctor get some viagra.After banging chicks with viagra for a while you will go back to normal
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Lupino-

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Stop jerking off and start meditating. This is what cured my ED. Took me 6 weeks.
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Hellion

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Join Date: 02/23/2010 | Posts: 157

You masturbate 5 times a day? And you're really wondering why you're struggling to get it up?
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Burton2

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 OK i just read this whole post and then finally, "i masturbate 5 times a day" well there is your problem jack off like once a day dont jerk porn, just pictures or something on tv, give it a month and you'll be good.
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shark-

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Join Date: 02/11/2012 | Posts: 55

 I had ED also and I'm just 21 years old. Since i started nofap i've had way more sex than I ever previously had each time I got a nice boner ;) Even fucking again after jizzing also
Highly recommend it. Your brain is just used to having a harem of incredibly hot and stimulating girls available at a click, and a real girl just doesn't do it for ya anymore. Get your brain off porn
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crocalli

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Join Date: 11/20/2012 | Posts: 3

Stop masturbating. That can be a big cause of erectile dysfunction. More guys need to know about this kind of thing.
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap
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AlvisWilson

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Join Date: 12/15/2012 | Posts: 2

ED can be treatable at any age. Erectile dysfunction can be curable with the help of some effective medication like silagra. It's a one of the best medicine to treat male impotence. Also causes very less side effects.
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