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JoeStriker

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Join Date: 12/17/2011 | Posts: 131

 
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iiiEatBabies

iiiEatBabies

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Join Date: 03/13/2012 | Posts: 26

 Sounds all too familiar with what i kinda just went throuugh a week ago , if i were you i'd just hang in there a little bit more to see where this is going , but if it isn't going in a good direction then let her go , i repeat LET HER GOOOOO. It feels so good to be in that state where your just cuddling and kissing and just being with her , but you know deep down it iisnt good for you 
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RSD-Adam

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Join Date: 09/20/2012 | Posts: 24

 Alright, take some deep breaths.

First off: This girl is trash. You deserve better.

She's pretty much gaming you, and not in the "Authentic" way we do here at RSD either. I'm not a mysogenist, I have a very fine appreciation of honest, kind-hearted girls, but this one is pretty filthy. Since you're in scarcity (Even a newbie like me can tell from the tone of your typing) you're attached to her.

Realize that you are not growing if you keep cuddling and wasting time with this girl. 

Realize that you will grow by bleeding on the field, approaching sets and running game.

Don't let this one get in your way. It's not hard to find a better girl than this. Every second you spend on this one (even thinking about her) is essentially wasted time. 

Think about all the qualities that make up your "perfect girl". Every guy has a different set of values he looks for. This will take at least a bit of time thinking alone.

If you really want a relationship, go find the perfect girl. Not the one who is the quickest to rub her ass into your crotch and cuddle with you endlessly.

Go. Don't stagnate.


(Side-note: A girl who was pretty close to my "perfect girl" broke up with me about a month and a half ago. I felt like shit too. But look at where I am now: I just typed the post above. Trust me, you will be fine. Now go.)
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D1

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Join Date: 04/25/2012 | Posts: 125

Man I've been there more than once and it's past the point of you hooking up with her. Sorry bro.

Friend zone her and move on, mo' bitches less problems.
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DudeMcdudeson

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Join Date: 08/13/2012 | Posts: 16

 Dude, trust me on this one! Ive been in the same situation as you are right now, except I was in high school! Same stuff with spooning and pussying out on making a move. IVE REGRETTED IT EVER SINCE....hell I still regret not making a move and it least screwing the girl. Please man, please, do it for me ...just do it and dont regret it, otherwise you WILL....BIG TIME ! 
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King.NoOne~

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Join Date: 02/23/2011 | Posts: 143

 Sorry, bro, but there is a huge amount of gay in the OP.
Not trying to troll you.
If you don't intend to make a move - stop hanging with her.
Also, another lesson you could take from this(I know that the first sentence will make you think you know what I'm talking about, but bear with me and read on):
A lot of people say that you should push the interaction early and go to "man to woman" asap, otherwise, you'd be "friendzoned". I don't really care how much of this is true(it is)...The real problem is that when you go "friend to friend" and "talk and cuddle all night, because she's special", you confuse your own self. You stop seeing that woman in a sexual way. You start thinking "Oh, I'd never want a blowjob from her, that's what the whores do. This one is special!".
And since you believe that "This one is special"(she's not and is probably a worse person than girls that you have fucked and never called) - you can't let yourself fuck her - even when you're lying in bed and she's pressing her ass against you.

I've done this time and time again and right now a close friend of mine is suffering the same type of oneitis(note: he fucks a LOT of other chicks) - the girl slept in his bed topless TWICE, and eventhough he claims that he wants her so bad, he couldn't make a move. When I asked "Why didn't you just pull your dick out?" he replied "I couldn't - she's not like the other ones"... Then realised how ridiculous that sounds and has been beeting himself since, but alas - the girl is gone :)

Also the part with "The boyfriend in the picture" was pretty weak... Your mind was desperately looking for a way to justify your behaviour. In reality - you just conditioned yourself to not fuck her. And by now it's probably late to go back and fix it. Congratulations, you're growing! :)
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KidGreatness

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Kindred

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Join Date: 07/24/2012 | Posts: 1741

 Fuck other girls and be cold with her.

As others have said, she's gaming you etc.. if you've got even a chance of salvaging anything from this it's by moving on and macking other chicks. Don't rub her face in it but don't hide it from her either. Let her see that you don't give a fuck and FRIENDZONE HER.

All the typical script-flipping reverse psychology bullshit that dates back to old community knowledge (borderline cliché). Using jealousy and scarcity to your advantange.
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