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AustinCC

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SexyMachine Wrote:
Learn from all sources.  I don't knw jmu so I can't talk about how good he is or not.  But, if you can learn from him, definitely go for it.

I do know that lots of RSD guys have tried to form their own pickup companies.  But, they quickly learn that picking up girls and running a pickup business are completely different things.  Running a business is hard, hard work, and running a pickup business have it's own set of challenging problems.  Most guys that are "experts" at pickup can't explain the process, they suck at communication and they suck and marketing and they suck at business.  Pretty much alll of these ex RSD student companies have gone out of business, they don't last more than a year.

Carly is plenty hot enough, most guys would jerk off to her pictures.  The thing I noticed is Tyler has her full compliance and she travels with him and she's bisexual and Tyler picksup other girls with Carly to have threesomes.  So, I'd say Tyler is doing ok.


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his level of technical skill is higher and he doesn't have all these weird internal battles that tyler does (like approach anxiety and supplication weirdness). I can tell he is more entitled than tyler. The girls in his rotation are INCREDIBLY hot, all dime pieces. When he sat and talked with us for an hour he brought some girl over who he was fucking and she was much hotter than carly (tyler's girl) and he completely didn't give a shit about her. We talked about pickup right in front of her and what he does to pick up girls. He also demo'd in front of us on a really difficult set with a girl who was non-compliant, with her friends, walking to the hotel bar. Her initial reaction was bad but he somehow magically flipped her and made her sit down with him. What was even more impressive was that her friends were initially defensive, somehow realized that jmul is not to be fucked with and even they became passive and started dancing while they wait for the 'cool guy' to finish talking to their friend. 

Here are my notes from talking with him:

- You don’t have to smile
- Upon opening go for compliance or non-compliance
- Emotional state shouldn’t change when you open
- Trust that you are “the guy,” “the shit”
- You can fake it till you make it
- Assume you have control and she likes you
- Revelations book
- Engage with same energy level
- Frame: I’m the shit I can get any girl I want
- Frame: You’re above the girl but not in a condescending way
- Frame: You’re the one choosing the girl
- Vibe
 


you're right. it is hard. really hard, and it requires alot of patience. but at least i can vouch for the guys running the site is that they're actually GOOD. legit dudes who've all fucked WELL into the hundreds of girls and aren't planning on slowing down. my old roommate josh plans to fuck the next 50 girls by having threesomes with his girl friend- just to keep things interesting. 
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Dr Destruction

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I don't know why he's called JMULV, homie should rename himself CARBS...Or BREADS...or PASTA.

Everybody's like he's a sociopath crazy guy, but dude seems so nervous and fidgety in front of the cam LOL. Fool can't even articulate proper sentences. I'm sorry but there is no competition.

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dave7-

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But those horses are pretty sweeeet tho....I pulled with getemcusiknow and jmoolv to his house once and I took a pic of one of those horses. 
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richie rich

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have you tried seeing a psychiatrist?? it could really help I'm not being facetious. 

sometimes when I"m depressed I try to think of all the things in my life that I am grateful for and the things I have to look forward to and how lucky I am to even be alive and breathing in the US where I have my basic needs taken care of and the right to exercise my free will. It changes your perspective.
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richie rich

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ok. so dude! you just need to wake up tomorrow and pretend you are a total boss. expect people to treat you like a boss, expect girls to treat you like a boss, and if they don't, demand their respect. people will doubt you and mock you at first, but hold your frame. fake it til you make it. 

eventually you will start to see yourself as a boss because that is the person you are portraying to everyone else. when everyone else realizes that you are a total boss, and then you realize that, "hey, I'm kind of a boss,"

you'll realize that you were a boss all along and the only thing holding you back was YOU. 

thats how I did it :)
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richie rich

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also i struggled with depression myself, the best way to avoid depression is to stop thinking about being depressed and totally change your train of thought into something positive. a lot of us are addicted to feeling depressed, we can't help it. I know I was, and getting depressed is normal, it happens to everyone so don't feel like you're weird of different than everyone else. Most people are depressed all the time, they're just good at hiding it. 

i can tell you are an awesome guy, you just have to start believing it yourself!! 
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UtopiaFive

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Most psychologists are massively sucky at their profession.  Just saw this page of posts with you and Rich.  

Go find the book called "Reinventing Your Life" by Jeffrey Young.  His work is famous for dealing with personality disorders.  Which most people into pickup, that's all they have.  Not something that causes you to be unable to live a normal life...just a basic inability to have solid relationships with girls and people you work with.  Check this video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pa-z847tgfQ

There he is talking with 2 other guys (they're talking about Borderline Personality Disorder aka Jeffy) but look at how the way they talk is like comparable to different pickup guys.  Only one of them (IMO) you'd want to be friends with, or to have as your therapist.  

Anyway, get the chapter of that book called "Defectiveness" if you actually have the low self-image of yourself.  Honestly I had the same thing and a few months ago a conversation with my therapist, another one with Buddhagames, and reading this chapter, really helped me "get" it.  

I don't know if you need your own sequence of things to happen, but for me, there was this deep realization that I truly wasn't proud of myself.  I told my dad this one the phone, and I think this was like...admitting my flaws, my defects, rather than "fighting it" so to speak.  

Also LOL that you're reading Revelations, which I get back into game I'm definitely gonna check out Mystery's shit.  I think before going into it though one ought to be "mentally healthy" -- but regardless I'm more doing stuff for my long-term, working at changing/swaying the kind of work I do, notably being able to make what I make, working independently, so I can allocate more time to business activities rather than job activities.  

Yeah so check out that chapter and maybe the whole book if you're so inclined.  

Peace bro!
 
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AustinCC

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i'm not going to go into more symptoms, but what rich said is soooo money. We tend to get in comfortable thought loops and for most guys who are "chodes" or "hardcases" are stuck in very very negative ones. To make positive thought loops your norm takes time, because you're literally changing the entirety how you think about the world. it's tough! After awhile it becomes the norm, but every once in a while, even i slip into some negative thought loops and have to deal with it. the better you get the less this happens because you learn to deal with it and know what triggers you need to pull to get yourself in a positive/relaxed place again. 

i also think that thought loops have a big play in why guys always go through up and down periods when they first start going out much more dramactically than when they get used to going out and hitting on girls. 
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Lol fuck that sucks you have to hang out with people like that all the time. It's annoying when you have to hang out with those types of people, but I think it's a good thing. Because you can look at their fucked up mentalities and behaviours, relate it to your own and even reflect on your self to see if you have any fucked up behaviours or attitudes; chodes are a blessing in disguise haha.
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Spike@ Wrote:
So I'm living with an abstinent couple.




Didn't know that was a thing... I can somehow imagine the girl telling you "ya, me and my boyfriend, we don't have sex at all". But hey that sounds a lot better than hearing your roomate fuck someone every other night, which is what I'm dealing with.
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