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Spike-

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from class... 
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FOCUS FOR THE NEXT MONTHNot Too Much Pressure Not Too Little Pressure:LOGICAL / EMOTIONALPHYSICAL / NON-PHYSICALPROXIMITY / TAKING A STEP BACKBREAKING RAPPORT / NEUTRAL TONALITYLASER EYE CONTACT / TAKING IT OFF
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Dr Destruction wrote:
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studying for a midterm today but tomorrow I GET TO MEET DOCTOR DESTRUCTION OH SHIT.
 My dick is hard.  Im literally writing this while you're in set. Your an icy dude Spike, icy I tell you. 
 Lol was this during that chick handing out flyers in the food court? We were gonna get dinner together but I had to go to the hotseat :).
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Here's my notes for Julien's Hot Seat. Definitely go over them a lot of good stuff in there straight from the man himself.http://www.rsdnation.com/node/442978
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yeah i totally looked at it already thanks ------------------------------------------------------- old paradigm: be passive and nice towards everyone in the group, endure their abuse/objections until they become comfortable with you to hang out in insolation.I don't like the old paradigm because I used to get disgusted with myself every time I gave my compliments, or was too nice, and essentially gave my power away to some drunk annoying, dumb girl who had way less real value than me as a person. New paradigm: Do not give any power to the girl. Self-confident, flowing body language and tonality, command and challenge the girl. The interaction should ALWAYS BE ABOUT YOU, never the girl. You should be talking to her the same way you would talk to a wall or any other inanimate object. You are the only constant in every interaction you have. What she says is effectively a bird chirping in the background, respond to her but don't react.  Balance between:LOGICAL / EMOTIONALPHYSICAL / NON-PHYSICALPROXIMITY / TAKING A STEP BACKBREAKING RAPPORT / NEUTRAL TONALITYLASER EYE CONTACT / TAKING IT OFF ______________________________________________________  if i ever fall off this paradigm i'll probably have to 'sacrifice a lamb' aka be a huge dick to some girl. I am way too sick of making a SOI to a girl and then try to be super nice and a good conversationalist in order to "get her," and hope she engages me in conversation and let's me walk her out the front door. This worked and I got results from it. But IM FUCKING TIRED OF IT. DONE. I want to feel like I'm the fucking man and you can either join my party or scat like a rat.  
 Basically want to feel like this when I'm approaching.
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For future reference, always go on the date even if there is a hot seat going on. I remember at my very first hot seat in SF, I had a day2 with a girl lined up, and I asked Tyler when he arrived if I should stay or go. He said something like "you should always see the girl". And I did, and made it back for the last hour or two of hot seat.


Spike- wrote:
Dr Destruction wrote:
Spike- wrote:
studying for a midterm today but tomorrow I GET TO MEET DOCTOR DESTRUCTION OH SHIT.
 My dick is hard.  Im literally writing this while you're in set. Your an icy dude Spike, icy I tell you. 
 Lol was this during that chick handing out flyers in the food court? We were gonna get dinner together but I had to go to the hotseat :).
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Btw, I luv azn girls
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Spike-

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maybe i shud put a wig on n we can get frisky
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