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December 8th, 2016
"You're So ________ for an Asian"
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novasq

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Its weird I get this comment so often now, it almost happens every few sets. I think the Asian stereotype is generally not favorable in terms of dating but if you don't fit fit the stereotype, you won't be catagorized as one. I think me working out is analogous to my Black friend who is an engineer and freelance pilot.

I think thats the key right here. Whatever negative stereotype your race has, don't show those negative traits. I have always looked at Black guy game and its different. The bigger the dude, the less direct game they do. And it seems like they are always leaning back and mixing it up with a lot of disinterest, at least with White girls. I think a 5'6 Asian guy (I'm not that height) has to play much more direct aggressive game than a 6'4 Black guy before even getting close to setting off sexual threat alarms in the girl's mind.  Some of my shorter RSD Asian friends LA make me look like a when it comes aggressiveness and escalation.

Set 3 in the video, the girl was literally talking about me being Asian for like 5 minutes.


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Klaus

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Its all in your head.

Do you even lift?

Get out of your house.

Read Tolle bro.

Chode.


(I never thought I could use all of RSD's most common troll comments all in one post.)
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novasq

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 Field tested!  I swear! lolz
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chiffonade

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i get the "for an asian" comments VERY rarely these days, and it's always from asian girls that hang around almost exclusively asian people.  as in they aren't really integrated into mainstream society, they only hang out with people exactly like them.

white girls and asian girls who hang out with a diverse set of friends people never say that sort of stuff.  they also respond much better to my game.

it's kind of sad really.  it's like asian people believe their own damn stereotypes that aren't even TRUE anymore.  meanwhile everyone else has moved on.
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ambiguity

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SquatinCassanova mate, your my new favorite member in this forum.

I created a group dynamic of high value individuals consisting of a very multicultural social circle.

Where fellas tend to be running around a bar or club and or party chasing girls, I interact with everyone.

Tyler refers to it as social momentum since, your constantly bumping state, and busying yourself.

In the process, you meet naturals, you meet fellas from all over, and the dynamic expands.


I am a black lad from London England. My game differs significantly from my white, asian or brown mates.

Game is an art, a form of self expression, and your way of projecting your reality on all those stunners you come into contact with.

Some have a natural charm and are charismatic and believe me, it opens up doors as well as the legs of stunners.

Some are naturally in sync with the laws of the universe and are taking drastic amount of action like yourself.


You noted a very important factor about game, your stature, ethnicity, and style.

As a tall, dark handsome, black male, the style of game I run will differ from yours.

A man who is boarder line manlet will want to go beast mode and be all absurd.

When you are a physical presence like no other, a modern day Jon Jones in size, you got the "bad boy" media or tv presence up against the "big bad black man," there are preconceived notions already.

The same applies for all races, ethnicities, and cultures. It just comes with the territory.

The most ironic thing of all is that, I do not resonate with black culture or hip hop and acting like a thug or talking about how hard it is to stay out of jail.

To be blunt, I think it all plays into another black man dead.


There is stigma around every nationality and the key is to not play into those stereotypes.

Gangnam style gifs I have been posting on the forums the past few months cause, its absurd, self amusing, and contradicts the stereotypes that surrounds Asian culture.

Some of my asian mates are very charismatic, charming, and successful with stunning white women.

Their game is more aggressive, their swagger is different, Umin like, and they avoid the stereotypes and stigma as best they can.


Your clearly not a manlet but, if you are, being aggressive, beast mode style is likely your go too.

I can half step and its aggressive since, I am a tall dark handsome black man, and the stigma is already their due to media and tv.

It may even come off more aggressive then the manlet who is approaching the same stunner but, full blown beast mode.

I can half step and it works better as I camouflage it when supported by being a cheeky cunt, self amusing even at their expense, and going full fucking retard, boardering trolling the stunner.


Everyone has their own style and perspective so, being another carbon copy in the real world meeting stunners is old and played out.

Finding your own way is bloody brilliant and I commend your post and value you've added here. I think maybe some will get perspective and may actually do something with this thread.

Its pretty sad that flame wars or threads about prostitutes are 7 pages long and this is struggling to make a full page.


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novasq

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Stereotypes of meant for the means of a population not an individual.  If you took a random sample of 1000 Asians and 1000 Black guys (non PUAs) from all 50 states and then put them in a club, of course the Black guys on average will be much more dominant and aggressive.  Of course, that doesn't apply to us badass PUAs since we are statistical outliers loool.  If you think stereotypes don't exist and that people don't judge you and instantly put you in catagories, you are just putting a veil over your eyes.  I certainly judge people.  When I look up and down a girl, I instantly catagorize their class, educational level, who they hang out with, their career.  It all falls into a bucket within just a matter of seconds.

Maybe you don't get called out because you don't deviate from the stereotypes.  Nobody calls out stuff thats 100% completely banal and typical....  If I meet a Black guy that listens to Snoop Dogg, I'm not going to be like dude, you listen to Rap music!?  If I meet an Indian guy who knows HTML, I'm not going to be like OMG, you're the smartest Indian guy I ever met! Why?  I got a billion Indian friends who are programmers.
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chiffonade

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i'm saying the stereotypes exist but most of the girls i hit on successfully have the social intelligence not to say something as ridiculously rude/racist as "you're so X for an asian."  the ones who DO say that have shitty social skills or are stuck in ethnic enclaves.

i mean... dude i live in west LA / santa monica, if i go to a club or lounge here full of successful professional people used to interacting with people of all races there's a VERY small chance some person is going to go "wow you speak english so well for an asian"...  or "wow you're so outgoing for an asian" .. i mean come on, this isn't Bakersfield.

however i'm 5'11 not 6'3, so nobody is going to say "you're so tall for an asian" LOL
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Nice Footage
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BeWater

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I'm Middle Eastern (Persian) in a city of Irish and French people. I used to think it mattered, but the more I do this, the more I realize the actions matter way more than your ethnicity. For some girls, it has been an issue, but generally speaking, it's not a big deal. I remember this one smoking hot Latina girl literally told me she only dates white guys with long brown hair. Fucking specific lol. But I mean, I've been with White girls, Black girls, Latina, Middle Eastern, Indian, Asian...

As for the Black Guy Game...I find there's generally 2 kinds...the Uber Chode aka Wallflower Supreme...and The Mack aka Approach Machine. I've even gone to Black clubs and it's generally like that. Most of them wallflower so much there's no wall left to flower on. It's weird. The wallflowers don't even have a drink sheild. They just stand there watching the dance floor. The Approach Machines are indiscriminate. They approach anything that moves hardcore direct. They usually have there chody friends to clown around with after getting rejected. After a while, something will stick. They'll grind with the girl, then try to pull. Now this is in a city where there aren't that many Black people. In a city like Atlanta, there's more variety as a lot of places will be mostly filled with Black people without specifically trying to cater to Black people, so you will have all kinds of personalities and music. It's more organic and less stereotypical in those cities.

To the point though, a 5'6 Asian guy may have to approach differently than a 6'4 Black guy, the same way an ugly guy will have a different approach than a guy with model looks. One of my buddies is so good looking that girls literally will walk up to him and just give him their number. I've gone out with him for years and this happens so much it's ridiculous. His "good looking guy game" is basically just him not fucking things up. Girls approach him. If he wants a girl, he just smiles, and that's her invitation. She comes over or, worse case (OMFGZ), will smile back and wave him in. He turns down threesomes and models on a regular basis. His standards are just retarded. It's never him "pulling" a girl...it's more like him deciding to fuck.

Could I do that?

Fuck no.

Girls don't want to fuck me the second I step into the room. I have to be more aggressive and do more to get girls.

However, if I were you, I would focus more on the fact that the chick(s) in Set 3 were into your physique. They were mirin hard brah. Who gives a shit if they talked about you being Asian? If you actually care that much, change the goddamn topic lol.

PS. What kind of hidden camera were you using?
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ambiguity

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squattincassanova wrote:
Stereotypes of meant for the means of a population not an individual.  If you took a random sample of 1000 Asians and 1000 Black guys (non PUAs) from all 50 states and then put them in a club, of course the Black guys on average will be much more dominant and aggressive.  Of course, that doesn't apply to us badass PUAs since we are statistical outliers loool.  If you think stereotypes don't exist and that people don't judge you and instantly put you in catagories, you are just putting a veil over your eyes.  I certainly judge people.  When I look up and down a girl, I instantly catagorize their class, educational level, who they hang out with, their career.  It all falls into a bucket within just a matter of seconds.

Maybe you don't get called out because you don't deviate from the stereotypes.  Nobody calls out stuff thats 100% completely banal and typical....  If I meet a Black guy that listens to Snoop Dogg, I'm not going to be like dude, you listen to Rap music!?  If I meet an Indian guy who knows HTML, I'm not going to be like OMG, you're the smartest Indian guy I ever met! Why?  I got a billion Indian friends who are programmers.
No, I am full aware of the kind of attitude. I have seen some ruthless fucking shit out with some of my asian mates.

The one fella is a bboy and some cock block tried to call him out for height and having a small dick.

He still ended up pulling cause he is a intelligent fella, he has no insecurities or hang ups so, he wasn't pulled down by it.

He sort of reminds me of that fella from Gangnam style cause he isn't the stereotypical Asian bloke but, the charismatic gangnam style type that is oh so self amusing and even cheeky.

I had a once say to me, "let me guess? Your black, your dick is big, and you've been to jail. Not interested."

Her mate was a stunner, gave the approach invitation, and I crashed their party. The cock clock was as Tyler says, "skinny girl fat."

Party girl, big fat thighs, fat arms, wears a black dress and leather jacket in poor attempt to hide she has not been to a gym.

Mate, this is some ruthless fucking ass stuff to say and no man should ever tolerate disrespect at that level.

My frame is this: I am a tall dark handsome black man born into royalty. All i got to do is take out my bbc and wear the fucking crown.

I just did a freeze out, went direct with the stunner saying, "we just had a moment here," not acknowledging skinny fat girl accept to blame her for us not meeting "yet, your mate ruined it" before I back turned on them both.

The stunner ended up approaching me later in the night to give her number but, her mate was a cunt, and pulling was not in the realm of possibility though, skinny fat did apologize at another time.

One of my favorite members on the forum is Distant Light who writes absurd long ass posts like myself but, I am shocked to find out not long ago, he is a black fella like myself.

We both do not follow into the stereotype of being that black fella that talks about how many times we been to jail, wearing quad XL yet, complaining about being pulled over due to racial profiling, and falling into the stigma.


There is a hardening factor involved with pick up, with shit tests, with ignorant people that assume based upon our being a minority, and yet, we grow from it.

Look at all you have accomplished and its blatantly obvious you are not playing into stereotypes or stigma stepping up and having literally no regrets.
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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novasq

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 There are actually three types of Black dudes in clubs.  You got two of them, haha.

1.  The wallflower
2.  The guys with no shame with the "can I holla at ya" going direct with everyone.
3.  And then the actual naturals who got amazing smooooth game.  Thats all I gotta say.  Smooooth.


And Ambuiguity, Black guys need to learn PUA?  Thats like me going to a math forum asking for Algebra help puahaha! :P
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