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March 29th, 2017
Crying, I can't do this anymore
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#21

The Hawk

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Join Date: 10/05/2012 | Posts: 545

Yeah if you're gaming on your also its tough. If you're going on the pull find a wing!
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#22
Yoda

Yoda

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Join Date: 03/22/2008 | Posts: 1215

Crying? 

please.

I had many times when I walked home alone when I first started and felt like giving up after a night of rejection, but you simply have to pull yourself together and man the fuck up.

Virgin at 19? Nothing wrong with that. Keep macking and cultivate a positive attitude and you will get there in due time.

I personally believe that approaching solves next to nothing, if the internal stuff is not where it should be or cultivated simultaneously. There are guys who approached 1000 girls and still did not CHANGE.

Stop watching porn and never look back.

Meditate.

Implement the stuff from this thread. Work out and eat healthy.

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/244642/forum

Do not fuck a prostitute. It will only make things worse for you right now.

Good luck, young man!
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#23

PUARain2

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Join Date: 08/19/2012 | Posts: 196

 this is good for you. a negative anchor like this will help you make the next stride in game. just push on. ive had nights like this where i choad out and don't appraoch. it may seem shitty but you use this experience like so: "i dont want to feel fucking shitty this time, i'm going to apporach like a mofo"
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#24
Snakeeye

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Join Date: 08/16/2012 | Posts: 1700

come on, i lose my virginity when i was 21,, i think,
soon you will get hair on your balls, and you will be tired about  being a chode,
thats the hard reality, if you like to fuck a womens like a man, you need to be a man,
go out out side your house now, and open the first women you see, talk to her, shake her hand, tell her; you are so friendly, and give her a hug,
if she think you are weird, or creepy, what a fuck you care, you did just touch your first women,

Esw21 wrote:
I just came back daygaming. No approaches, feeling bad, walking around for 2 hours. Cried my way back home. I don't know it anymore.

Approached about 200/300 girls in a few months, but nothing changed. I am still that weird chode full of pain and anxiety.
I dont know what to do anymore.
I feel like hitting rock bottom everytime.

19 years old, living in Amsterdam, still virgin.. Afraid of touching a girl, this sucks. I dont know what to do anymore

Please HELP
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#25
Gumpshmee

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Join Date: 11/23/2010 | Posts: 246

 Hey dude. I can relate. You've got a lot of negative beliefs that you analyse the world through and you need a lot of proof for your new positive beliefs. I found somewhat experienced wingmen, went to the RSD free tour, and then dedicated myself to a 30 day challenge which counting as of now has become a 53 day challenge.

The wingmen will socially condition the new behaviour into you through the action of mirror neurons and make you feel more normal about all this. It's science.
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#26
RSD-Adam

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Join Date: 09/20/2012 | Posts: 24

You are not alone, OP. I'm more or less in the same situation.

We'll get there, take it slow. You've already done more than what most people are willing to do, and that's just a preview of the future. Somehow, everything will work out.
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#27

cheetah

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Join Date: 03/26/2011 | Posts: 35

This isn't for everyone. I had a wing who would cry and because it was too much for him. I told him go back to sucking dicks because you just don't have the balls.
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#28
The Baverien

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Join Date: 04/11/2011 | Posts: 239

Focus on building up some social skills. Look for people who are relaxed and outgoing and befriend them. You will be surprised how much will transfer from them to you just by hanging out with those people. (modeling -> adapting from people) For sure such people also will have girls in the circle and you also hang out with them. You get comfortable with that. AND time is you ally. Changing takes time you will hit plateaus but then you get some new breakthroughs and then you know its worth it to push further. Dont give up man. When you work on yourself the rewards will inevitably come. All the best!
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#29

Hustla

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Join Date: 07/03/2012 | Posts: 90

 Dude hire a hot hooker, lose the V card, and go game the next day, it will change.
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#30

Jake454

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Join Date: 01/05/2011 | Posts: 1117

 


Dont take life to seriously bud, keep at it.
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