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December 10th, 2016
The Sub Communicator | Executing The Process
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Viciousskills

Viciousskills

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Join Date: 09/09/2012 | Posts: 180

We all experience it, the impulse to say something while in set, the tension you feel in the back of your head. What is it? Its Discomfort, your brain is telling you to defuse the tension because it doesn't know how to deal with it. Its telling you to convey value because it thinks thats going to keep you from getting rejected. So you give in to the tension at the expense of sub communicating lower value.

It doesn't even matter what came out of your mouth, what matters is the place it came from. In this case, it comes from a place of insecurity and self doubt. You do not feel that you are enough so you incongruently try to prove otherwise. Given that the self is always coming through,the old paradigm of Fake it till you make it has screwed you once again.

What else went wrong here? First, You were completely focusing on the Surface layer of the interaction. What to say, what her reactions are, constantly judging how you are doing in the interaction. Your RAS was completely focused on how you are being perceived. Instead of trying to fuck the girl, your intent was divided, you were trying to manage her perception of you. You were trying to be the kind of guy YOU THINK she would like, assuming that you already are not the guy that she would like.

This is crucial, You want the girl to like you and fuck you. Yet, you are coming from a place where you are assuming that you are not the guy she would like to fuck. Can you see what the problem is here? What are you sub communicating to her when you are doing this?

Now lets look at what the Sub Communicator does: He is focused on managing His Emotions through the night. He already knows that some girls will like him, some girls will hate him, and some girl will fuck his brains out. So he never tries to manage their perceptions of him. Instead, He is pumping his state through out the night and polarizing himself. He is unaffected by other peoples reactions, he is only focused on what actions he is taking. He wants to bring his state to a point where he is being chaotic. He is loud and commanding. He IS NOT trying to get to a point where he looks really cool and everyone loves him, he is trying to get to a point where girls either hate him or love him. There is no middle ground of mediocrity. This is where jeffy's "this is it, this is what you get" mentality really comes into play.

He doesn't give a fuck about how he is being perceived(he's being ICY). He focuses on the emotions he is feeling and the emotions he makes the girl feel. He's not thinking about what to say next, he is thinking about Breaking Rapport in the interaction and getting her reacting to him. When a girl start freaking out around him, he knows that Shit tests are her way of telling you she is going to fuck you. The harder the shit tests the sooner she is going to fuck you. So he never reacts, instead he stays calm and grounded in his own energy.

^^Notice how all of the things the sub communicator does are above the surface layer. There is no what do i do, what do i say, why didn't that work. HE STAYS WITH THE PROCESS because he knows the process works.

So how can you transform yourself into a Sub Communicator.
1. Be with the Tension
Get uncomfortable. Feel Out the tension in your body in set, and notice what you are sub communicating to her at the moment. The longer you choose to hold the tension in set, the less you will feel it in the future. You will naturally be more comfortable the next time you are in set. (subconscious learning)

2. Pacing
Pace yourself through out the night. Drop small comments to 6s & 7s walking by in between sets constantly. This is Micro Momentum at its best, You will find yourself being soo comfortable in set its going to be surprise you. Your not going to give a fuck about what happens in set because its just another girl your talking to. You will become more risk taking. Your sub communications are going to be flawless simply because your going to hit up crazy amounts of sets each night and your not going to give a shit what they think. You'll focus on how you feel.

3. Be With The Process
Stop letting other peoples reactions overwhelm you. Instead focus on Executing the Process. Focus on Becoming fully Relaxed in set. Focus on What your subcommunicating rather than whether your last line/set was good. EXECUTE THE PROCESS!
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predator75

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I approve this, specially the "hold the tension" ones.
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thinman

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 Thumbs up!
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Viciousskills

Viciousskills

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Thanks man, At an intermediate level you tend to get caught up in the "practicing game" frame and it really does noone any good. You get better at game, but you barely get laid. so you suck shit.....

just have to remind yourself. Go for the Lay. Go for the Win. Stop practicing game and start hunting for pussy. Execute the Process!
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