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Calling dibs...necessary or outdated?
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bigjew629

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So theres this chick who I'm trying to hook up with who was kinda crushing on one of my buds but flirting with me. I ask her if there is any progression between her and my bud and didn't get a clear answer (which I expected) but I interpreted it as her losing interest in him. I ask my bud if there is anything going on and he's like "well I got her number and we're taking it slow..." and I'm like "are you calling dibs, cuz I def wanna hook up with her but only if you are cool with it and she is flirting with me hardcore."

IMO its pretty lame that I'm not getting a clear answer from either. I know I shouldn't be asking permission and if this was some random guy who she liked and not my bud I wouldn't care.

Is calling dibs on chicks around your buds still relevant? Just curious really. If my bud doesn't make a move on this chick in a week or so I will.
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Had to post this. Anyway, I'd just hook up with her. It's your buddies fault that he's taking it slow (what a pussy), let this be a lesson for him. 
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bigjew629

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Anyway, I'd just hook up with her.
Like I said that is what I will do if I don't see them doing coulple shit in a week or so. I just don't want to piss off one of my buds really. Wish they were a little clearer as to what their progression was, I know if there is a chick that I want and one of my buds wants her too I'll be like "Yea I got dibs on her. But if I get shot down I will let you know."
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Lament not your vanquished fantasy; its only destiny. -Bad Religion 
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
There is no place for victims in this world.
If you don't like the idea of the deck being stacked against you, then grab your crotch and see if your balls are still there.
I don't usually pray, but when I do...it's for the extermination of Radical Feminists, MGTOW/MRAs/"Red Pill" people, and their blind followers.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
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 Are you twelve?
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AmericanZombie

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bigjew629 wrote:
Anyway, I'd just hook up with her.
Like I said that is what I will do if I don't see them doing coulple shit in a week or so. I just don't want to piss off one of my buds really. Wish they were a little clearer as to what their progression was, I know if there is a chick that I want and one of my buds wants her too I'll be like "Yea I got dibs on her. But if I get shot down I will let you know."
I'm diagnosing you BOTH chodes for having one-itis over her.
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Eddie Fews

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 Personally dude; there are way too many girls to flirt and sleep with to even risk the slightest chance at messing up your friendship for. Just let this one pass; even if your friend never hooks up with her, who cares. You'll have other girls and you still have a friend. 
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Are you twelve?
In retrospect I really do feel like a kid after bringing this crap up. I had a feeling one of the instructors was gonna say that, one of my other buddies said the same thing. Big dam deal, movin on. I'm a dam idiot about being all OCD about this haha. At least I didn't get the good ol' "Get more girls" lol.

I'm diagnosing you BOTH chodes for having one-itis over her.

Nah she's just one of many. Greedy, not Needy.

I'm still givin them two weeks to get things going or else it is on. If I don't find another chick first. Thanks guys for the responses.
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I got mad knowledge of self. -Us3
Even though they all say that they're real I know that most aren't. -Eminem
Lament not your vanquished fantasy; its only destiny. -Bad Religion 
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
There is no place for victims in this world.
If you don't like the idea of the deck being stacked against you, then grab your crotch and see if your balls are still there.
I don't usually pray, but when I do...it's for the extermination of Radical Feminists, MGTOW/MRAs/"Red Pill" people, and their blind followers.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
Part 1 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/291325/forum
Part 2 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/292242/forum
Part 3 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/293113/forum  
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