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July 20th, 2017
Losing my virginity tomorrow night
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#81

testo123

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Join Date: 07/24/2012 | Posts: 868

 "Also, as tyler1089 said, he mentions not to contact her. This is an idea I hadn't really considered. Does anybody think there is any merit in this?"

Most definitely. How long ago was the last time she was at your place? If it was just a few days ago you might be better off letting her cool off for a couple more days.

As for the drinks vs. hanging out, drinks is obviously good because of the alcohol, but you don't necessarily have to ask her out for drinks in the text or whatever, but rather just casually ask her if she wants to go for one when you meet her.

I'd either call her next week or text tomorrow "hey what are you upto today", in the end it probably doesn't matter.
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#82

tyler1089

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Join Date: 07/03/2012 | Posts: 66

Testo closed it up nicely. We've all been through shit like this. I slept with a girl I was really into but I failed to fck her because of lack of experience. Actually I failed I remove the bra and kept asking if she had a condom. Following from that I thought one more nudge and ill be able to stick my dick in her tiny wet hole. I spent a month chasing a ghost. I ignored her at different points, she kept coming back, I kept fuckin up until I said fuck it. I need to get more girls. Problem solved.


Major one itis with this one so be careful
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#83
Snakeeye

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Join Date: 08/16/2012 | Posts: 1700

cool, go for it, burn the shit to the ground,
but dont hope to much, its a long call,
start texting other girls, go beast, and have fun,

its a game, some times you win some times you lose,

good luck,
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#84
Rodrigo

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Snake, I think this will help you:



I would probably call or  text her next time I have a free time, vibe a little a bit, and see if she wanna hang out.
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#85
SnakeSkin

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Join Date: 08/12/2012 | Posts: 41

 Right so I'm meeting her tonight.

What do I need to keep in mind THIS time?

So I take it slower, build up, pull away beforehand etc so I'm not coming across as too pushy ( I feel this was my issue as i assumed the sex would happen)

Role reversals like "We're not going to have sex" etc etc.
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#86
Doge~

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Snake, if you run into any trouble, remember to dial 140.85 on your codec. We'll be here to assist you with any problems you may have.

Remember that Naomi packed condoms in with your rations. You can get to them by holding L1 and selecting CONDOMS. Remember Snake, they must be equipped or else they won't work.

Good luck out there.
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                              So amaze.
                 Wow.
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#87

testo123

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SnakeSkin wrote:
 Right so I'm meeting her tonight.

What do I need to keep in mind THIS time?

So I take it slower, build up, pull away beforehand etc so I'm not coming across as too pushy ( I feel this was my issue as i assumed the sex would happen)

Role reversals like "We're not going to have sex" etc etc.
Dude, don't think about it so much. Having sex with a girl isn't rocket science if she already likes you.
I can only see you paralyzing yourself if you overcomplicate it.

edit: I'm really bored so let me expand a bit

I don't think there's nothing wrong with assuming that sex is going to happen. Just don't verbalize it. If a girl is willing to come home with me she's ready to get fucked at least on some subconscious level knows it's going to happen, then it's just matter of disarming her defenses and seducing her properly.

Take the responsibility off her at every point, e.g. extracting with "wanna go check out my dog we talked about earlier blah blah" vs. "hey wanna go fuck at my place?"

- "Role reversals like "We're not going to have sex" etc etc."
There's a chance you come off as really creepy if you say something like that out of the blue.

Remember that alcohol might help you relax a bit. Offer her drinks at your place.
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#88
SnakeSkin

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Join Date: 08/12/2012 | Posts: 41

 Okay, she's just called me to reschedule for wednesday. I agreed and we chatted for a while.


I'm thinking about texting her and being like "my schedule is heavy next week, tonight would be better for me realistically or it will be too long" or something similar

Thoughts? If she accepts, cool. If she declines, then I can't go out with her then because obviously this would be revealed to be a stunt for nothing
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#89

testo123

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Why did you agree to wed if you now want to make moves, don't be so fickle and indecisive.

Just leave her alone until wednesday.
SnakeSkin wrote:
 Okay, she's just called me to reschedule for wednesday. I agreed and we chatted for a while.


I'm thinking about texting her and being like "my schedule is heavy next week, tonight would be better for me realistically or it will be too long" or something similar

Thoughts? If she accepts, cool. If she declines, then I can't go out with her then because obviously this would be revealed to be a stunt for nothing
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#90

tyler1089

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Join Date: 07/03/2012 | Posts: 66

Biggest mistake you are making so far is making this significant. If she flakes you will get butt Hurt and keep chasing. Fail. If it pulls through you'll get one itis.fail. Remember If she can sense a tiny bit of neediness then you might as well kiss her goodbye. You need to arrange this meet up based on your schedule not hers, or find a middle ground.


P.s I understand the idea of thinking with the state of abundance whilst being a Virgin seems distant but you need to try
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