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Costas

Costas

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Join Date: 08/23/2012 | Posts: 61

 Sup, 

I am Costas, 22 years old when i write this. I got into game because I realised i love hot girls. And i realised that if i want to pull the girl's of my dreams, i need to get good.

For about 6 months i have only applied my new found knowledge in my social circle and friends of friends and so on. But no friends of mine in Stockholm care about game, so ive been slacking with the action. About a week ago i met some people from this forum, and started taking more action.

So a bit of events from the last week.

15/9 - Saturday
Was supposed to meet up a collegue and her 10 friends at "Hotellet" a nightclub in stockholm. Before that i met up another friend at "avenyn", which was semi emty when i got there at about 23:30. I had a couple of drinks before heading out, and was really psyced up. Met up my friend, beasted a bit on the dancefloor. Some girls introduced themselves, only one out of 4-5 was hot, but she was also talking and dancing to some other dude. When we all walk upstairs i grab the hot ones hand, spin her infront of me, walking and dancing at the same time pretty much. Girls seem to love the spin for some reason. I tell her im the one leading the dance when she tries to take over, when we are outside the club i hug her and give her a kiss of the forehead infront of the dude she was dancing with. I then had to leave, gave her my number before that. 

Got to hotellet, my friend got rejected by the bouncer, i walked in to see my other friends while he went back to his friends. I was now in a worse mood. It was absolutely crowded. I see my collegue and her friends, she's drunk as, says hi and dances with some dude. I dance a bit with the group, then they go to smoke or something. I wanted to do some approaches, but i completely froze up. So shit. After awhile i went back to Avenyn. Where i got into an argument with the bouncer, so didnt get back in. That was that evening.

Got a text from that girl a couple days later, texted a bit back and forth and i now realise that i forgot to text back. Should probably follow that up.


26/9 Wednesday

Was at a birthday party for a friend. Went out with her and two more friends at about 01:00 to Whiteroom. Got pretty smashed, danced like crazy. Pulled chicks with "the hand of god" and danced a bit. Some girl was really into it until her friend dragged her away. Then i was getting a bit cocky and tried to hard of god a chick who was flirting with some huge dude and his friend standing watching them, she rejected it, i tried again, rejected again. I tell her to fuck off and keep dancing with my friends. Probably pulled about 6-7 chicks closer with the hand of god. But nothing more exciting than that.

Edit. Also opened a conversation with a HB9 at the bus station on my way home, then sat and talked to her and her two friends on my way home. I need to be less scared of pulling. 

27/9 Thurday.

Went out for day game with BeastPirate. I had never tried this before, so i was scared shitless, didnt realised i had such bad approach anxiaty. We were out for about 3 hours, he did some really solid approaches. I couldnt manage to do A SINGLE ONE. Man i felt like the chode king of asgarde. Also met about 5 other guys doing day game, never seen that before so it was interesting.

28/9 Friday

Went out with BeastPirate again. Manhood also joined. My goal for the day was doing a single approach, to break that damn zero. After about two hours he started the 30 second game, and i also did it. It was so shit it was insane, i didnt know what to say. I stutterd. And i got pretty much insta rejected. I went up to the two girls (7's) from the side pretty much. Standing still while talking. Even if it was shit, i was content with it. Oh yeah, we also got interviewed by japanese television. I expressed my past love for pokemon, that was the shit in the days.

29/9 Saturday

Went out with BeastPirate and Manhood again. My goal for this day was 2 approaches. We walked around a bit, BeastPirate was approaching some suuper hot chicks, it looked crazy smooth. We went up to a group of about 10 in morphsuits, they looked like they were having fun and i wanted a picture with them. When we got there they said that they needed a kiss for a stranger, somehow i was in the middle of the group all the sudden. Got a kiss from a HB5..... Then i got to spray champagne over the group. That was fun. Then a bit later i opened two single sets, and a two set. This time i just walked up next to them, asked "whats up" and got a quick chat going. One of the single girls(HB8,5) looked horrified haha. The two set (HB7s) stopped to talk, but i ejected to quickly. And i realised that the other single set looked pretty shit, so i ejected quickly as fuck. All the 3 last ones was done during the 30s game.  My voice tone, clarity and mood was so insanely much better today then yesterday.

Went out during the night.

Got really drunk. Opened about 5-7 sets by talking, danced with everyone pretty much. Tried to kiss close 2-3 girls, but got rejected haha. Oh well. Also ran 400m naked at a track and field court. Danced on the bar. Also tried to strip on the bar, but they shut the music when i was on my last button on the shirt... Oh yeah, also got a neat slap from a girl. Was delibrety calling her the wrong name, and apperently she was easily aggrevated. 

One thing i did well during the night was moving chicks around the place. Have not done that a lot before, so felt like progress to be able to do that without problem. Sweet to see how complient most chicks are.

Never having vodka again. Today has been a absolute mess.
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 Oh also. Since getting into pick up i also got into self improvement. I guess thats very common. So far ive read Power of Now,  Win friends and influence people and is halfway through Think and grow rich. Also looooove David DeAngelos inner game stuff. Tylers inner game videos are also superb. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GX9unvqpMt8&feature=player_embedded

This video spoke straight to my heart on some points.
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 Only got one approach today. I told myself this morning i would do a subway/bus approach, because i know i wouldnt get time during the day to approach. I guess i could have gotten a couple on the free 10min i had when not eating food on my breaks. But since im new, that would make my nerves crazy.

Well, at my last bus ride home a super cute girl sat alone in a row of seats, so i sat down. Got some nice AA. Then i heard she had hick-ups, and i was like "fuuuu im gonna be disappointed if i dont do this". 

So i opened.

M:"want my to scare away those hick-ups?"
H: "hehe, i usually just have three, then they stop"
M "hick-ups sure can suck some time, ill scare you at a random time, so be prepared"
H " haha yeah, but it seems like they have stopped now"
M "was it really such a frightening experience talking to a stranger"
H "hehe seems like it, it just doesnt happen that often"
M "I know, socially awkward sweden right?"
H "yeah hehe" 

Then i ran out of things to say, love it how i ended on a note about social awkwardness, and then went silent myself haha. 

Then when she went up to get off the bus she thanked me for getting rid of her hick-ups with a laugh. 

It was nice to see her laugh throughout the whole interaction, but i really need to work on pushing it more, talking more shit. I could have talked about atleast 5 different subjects, but i was too much of a to bring them up after it first went silent. I also need to get some balls and go for the god damn pull. Not just being a bit social and friendly. But i had a good time, and im happy i actually opened on the bus. 

Since i spend about 60-80m a day at public transport, i should really open more there, its a great way for me to enjoy the rides more and i can spread some joy to other people as well.

Btw, also got a killer workout done today, so happy.
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 sweet, like this
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Haha, transit pickup crew checking in! Except I haven't had the balls to approach INSIDE a bus or train yet. Just outside as I'm exiting. Major props just for doing the approach.
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Man i travell so much by bus and train, so i would like to master that shit. Them i could really make pick-up a "natural" thing in my life.

Been slacking through out the whole week. Went on a weak day "2" on the thursday. Girl is super cute, but quite introverted, so when i try to escalate physically i get no real respons, or a very slight one. Gonna try to use the sercret weapon on this one sometime... alcohol.

Friday 28/9

Went to the free tour. 

What a fucking experience. My head felt like a trainwreck after three hours. Even though ive seen a lot (most) of the videos on RSDN, its still a different thing to see a longer speech. Just like you see the context better. 
Id really like to see the Hot Seat 2 today, but i dont have the money for it. So that will have to wait for another day.

Oh well, went to Harry B James with BeastPirate and a friend of mine. My brother and his friend also joined later on. I was really nervous becouse this was the first night since i turned 18 that i was not drunk at the clubs/bars. To fight that i was singing on the streets to keep my mind of the matter. When we finally got to the bar i felt like a chode king again, i was actionless. We formed a chode crystal, when i noticed that i breaked out and hit the emty dancefloor (this is a rock bar), and pulled out my sickest trance dance moves. Then me and BeastPirate started playing the 30s game to get out of the chodeness. My first approach was soooolid, went up to some girl and hugged her, and kept holding her

M: Hey, i love you.
H: Hi
M: Whats your name?
H: *Something*
M: Where you from?
H: what do you want me to say? Town, country?? (by this time she was excited as fuuuuck, voice trembling and shit)
M: Just say your from heaven
H: Ok thats where im from
M: aaaaw *pulled her to the dancefloor*

We danced for a bit and then i told her good bye. During the dance she wanted to be kissed sooo badly. But i couldnt man up and do it. Its bullshit, i NEED to push it! Even though im breaking out of my comfort zones a bit, i need to go out of them like the fucking HULK!

Did a couple of other openers by hug, or just dance going to hug mode. What i noticed there was that if they are like "no,no,no" a simple "its cool" helps a lot.

This semi hot also pulled me on the danceflood haha, stood in my way and reached out her hand. But she had the sharpest fucking nails ever, and didnt seem to wanna get physical quickly, so i left her. She was giving me the evil eye for an hour after that...

The last solid approach i did that night (out of a total of maybe 10-12) i was sitting at a table with my brother and 2 friends, a chick was standing next to our table, so i took her hand and pulled her next to me. When she was sitting down i had no clue of what to say, but it went like this:

M: so me and my brother.......       was discussing......... if men or women lie more (canned openers are apperently good to have!)
H: Ooohh i dont know.
M: You seem like someone who lie quite a lot
H: OH no, i always try to tell the truth
Conversation goes around that and how she should be honest to guys that she dont want to see.
Girl was super physical, pulling me close to her every time she was saying shit, scratching the back of my head and so on.

At one point we are discussing the music playing (Journey), she says its overrated.

M: You know what, we will never get along.
H: But why?
M: You know why, nah fuck it, im breaking up, we're done!
At this time i lean as far away from her as i can, she's like NOOOOOO, and tries to pull me into her.
Conversation goes normal for about 15min i get bored and goes to beast it with Beastpirate.

Here i should probably tried to pull as well, just for the reference experience. But even though she was cute she wasnt really my type. 

After a couple more half assed approaches we decide to leave. I see the girl from the table and she's telling us to stay, but i tell her we got grander adventures to go through. I was wrong though, because i realised that i got work today, so i went on the subway after walking around a bit. 

But man, i feel like a fucking champion for actually going out sober, and having fun!  I felt drunk as fuck when i went out of the club (my brain must be fucking with me) and so did my sober friend. Its funny how it seems like our brains just goes to the standard mode in an environment or something. Oh well. Will go out tonight as well. More fun, more adventure!
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 Yeah, sober Chode King of Asgard strikes again! Good thing we both countered that! shades
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Ok worked during the day, was on fire. Was handing out free samples of a supplement for a big race. Tried to open up conversations and small talk with all hot girls who was not rushing past. Was fun but didn't lead to shit. On the way home from work I approached a girl at the bus station, but she had to leave quickly. Then on my way in to the city I approached a couple at the bus station (to pass my time). And that's where the fun stopped. I got to a pre-party of 10 people, all sitting quiet, I try to get a bit of sound going, without success. Then we are all supposed to head to a sweet nightclub. But then half the gang decides to stay, and I'm left with two couples. One of the guys are my best friend, but his girl really keeps him on a leash sometimes. I didn't have the courage to break away from the group at the club. Fuck I thought I was past this. Now I'm waiting at the subway and has really only done one half assed approach which got shut down in about 2s. Hopefully I can get something more done before I'm home.

Edit. Also another notice. I noticed a was fucking slow today. Yesterday I was on fire, I saw something I could talk about, and then I was already spitting about it. Today I see something rare, and it takes me 20-30s to understand I can actually bring it up. It's bullshit.
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props on the daygame, try go out alone three or four days in a row and splitting from your group will be child's play, i can't even make myself stay anymore, it's almost weird because i just run around having blast...sober
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Yeah I probably should try to head out solo a couple of times. But can't do it so many days in a row due to work. Went out for some day game today. Just opened a couple of sets. The first one way fun, she was so surprised and not happy about it. Then I opened one more single who was standing and taking photos, I told her I'd take a photo of her with the background, she hesitated at first, but I told her it would be a pretty photo. Then I saw her boyfriend watching, so I turned her around and took a photo of her and me together haha. Then I heard two cute chicks talk in a foreign language, so I shouted asking them where they were from. At first they didn't answer so I said "yes you two" or something along those lines. Then me and BeastPirate had a chat with them for a couple of minutes. The last approach I did was at the subway on my way to a friends place. Saw two cute girls with medals and training gear, so I just started chatting about that.
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Wednesday 3/10

Went out for some night game. It was me, BeastPirate, my brother, a friend of mine, and a friend of BeastPirate. We got out at 23:00 and started by being rejected entry to soap bar because my friend was only 19. After that we go to Wok bar. I had a shit ton of energy, but mad AA. Beast and his friend went crazy with approaches meanwhile I was talking to some friends at the table. Then I finally got up and did one super lame approach, man it was silly. Then we leave that place at 23:50 to head to rosé, but the line there was insane and the club was full.

So we start walking into the party centre more, on the way I see two hot chicks that I approach with the main purpose to get directions for a 18+ nightclub. Well they had a major shield going, but me and BeastPirate managed to break through that, and we had a chat for 10-15min. Beasty number closed and I did not even try. I need to start going for closes! Beasty's friend said that it looked like the other girl looked like she was craving my number... Sometimes I feel semi blind hehe.

Well after that we went to collage, insane cue because the place was full. We saw Alex storm in there and then we left. By this time it was raining pretty bad. I saw some cute chick with an umbrella, so I joined her under it and was chatting for a bit, then her friend mom came with bitterness out of nowhere. I wonder how old they were... Seemed around 18 Atleast haha.

Well, after that we hit Sture compagniet. They had somekind of rap and hiphop theme. At this time Beasty and his friend left. And me, my bro and my friend then started 30s game, in there we did  about three approaches each, and i winged another two. So 7 total for me at that place. None of which was really interesting. On the way from the club to the other club i opened 2-3 sets as well. Burned two quite badly, and left that mad haha. First time in awhile i am told "fuck you" with meaning behind it. Still no slap. 

At the last club i was on fire, did maybe 10 approaches. Talked to a suuuper hot chick for about 10min, turned out she was a model. As soon as i heard that i got in my head that i was not worthy (well fuck you brain...) and didnt go for a close.. I seriously need to stop being a about closing. I also spoke a bit to some super cute chick at the dancefloor, but left her to take a piss, thinking i would speak to her again later. But silly me, she was then gone. The only really "fun" thing i did was when i was a bit irritated at a fat chick grinding my leg, and wouldnt be pushed away. Then i go to her cute friend, hug her, lift her and walk away with her. When i put her down she was laughing but ran back to her fat friend. But atleast i tried lifing someone in the club hehe. 

Headed home at about 03:30. No hot chicks at the bus. So that was that. Got 6,5h sleep before work.
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