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October 21st, 2017
Went to Magaluf..... approached hundreds, drank, missed rsd and come home early.
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BigBalls

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Join Date: 03/10/2012 | Posts: 149

So I went to Magaluf on holiday, with my friend of 12 years and his brother. As to be expected I opened tons of girls the first two days. However, my friend who is into the mystrey method, kept trying to steal the girls off me. I would have actually got him girls if he wasnt so selfish.

He didnt open anything and he comes swaggering over giving it large, at timse lying about his job to girls I had opened. It really pissed me off, he's been doing this years, and I've now had enough.

I would have defintely got laid if this prick wasnt there. But anyway re-learned a couple things and would like to share..... The law of state transference. MAssive! This got me and some hottie all into each other. My friend liked her but she was more into me. The other one is one of julien's...... When your thoughts, actions and words are aligned... You are a 10.

I was opening girls with my middle finger, reopening girls with.... What you cunts doing? All very obnoxious but I just felt like it and it works. Although I was in state! My best open was just going into the middle of 5 girls and dancing with them, seeing as my dancing isnt the best.

So I was on holiday following my friend and his brother around and getting cock blocked whenever I tried to approach. So I though fuck it and got a flight home back to England. I really missed rsd, fruit n veg and meditation whilst I was out there.

Im going to go with Tyler's challenge where his says lose your ego. I kindah have but for tommorrow Im just going to approach lots and lots! Chow.
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Phospher

Phospher

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Join Date: 08/04/2012 | Posts: 1279

 I hate when friends comes in to bother you, if the girls into you THERE IS NO NEED FOR A WINGMAN

I have a friend who looks like a girl in interactions, he wants full atention, he nevers open, and when you open, he comes in talking and want atention from you and the girls, I realized this last weekend and I will think of what to do when he comes the next time to bother me in a set....

Any tips on AMOG?
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BigBalls

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Join Date: 03/10/2012 | Posts: 149

Thing is she had a friend so I did need one. But my mate tried to go for the one who I was going for. Tips? Get rid of friend.
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BigBalls

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Join Date: 03/10/2012 | Posts: 149

Casa, he hates tyler, he says that tyler 'is proven to hire stooges'..... Ive been trying to get him into the rsd stuff but he wont have it. Hes got about 120 pua books on his kindle, crap like vin dicarlo. The guy is a freak and i dont want nothing more to do with him.
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M_A_S

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Join Date: 06/18/2010 | Posts: 193

 your fault for going on holiday with someone who you knew was a fag....

...anyway ibizas better
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BigBalls

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Join Date: 03/10/2012 | Posts: 149

Ive been Ibiza already.
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Jreece7

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Join Date: 11/05/2012 | Posts: 7

I can relate to this to a point. Happens to me constantly with one friend who isn't even into rsd he just does it being a dick. If you think he actually just doesn't know he's doing it explain to him. However is there any chance sometimes he doesn't go for the girl your with just sabotages you? If he does he doesn't want you to succeed (maybe afraid you're better than him) if that's the case he isn't a friend and you should lose him.
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batmanwithahardon

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Join Date: 08/12/2012 | Posts: 359

first of all, great job for taking action, here are some things to consider op
 
your friend may have a low sense of self worth and a low level of self confidence, he has to rely on the mystery method instead of trusting himself, and he has to rely on you to meet girls instead of trusting himself, you are possibly in the same boat as well for the time being, you seem to be ''trying'' instead of just trusting in yourself, was there really a need to open a group of girls by calling them cunts? or did you think ''this will work, INTENTIONS, ACT THROUGH INTENTIONS, DO XYZ, HAHA CUNTS, THIS WILL WORK HAHA''

the goal of picking up girls, is to pickup girls and get laid, girls don't have some top secret personality loophole where they enjoy being insulted and abused, you will get much further if they like you and feel comfortable around you enough to trust you, escalating towards sex and believing in yourself will do you more good, then if you walk around totally oblivious to social norms insulting people and showing a lack of social intelligence just repeating over and over in your head, ACT THROUGH OWN INTENTIONS, JULIAN SAID THIS WOULD WORK, ''THIS WILL WORK'' DO XYZ, xyz is bullshit man, trust yourself don't attach to an idea of who you are by doing or acting in a certain way you think you should, just de-tach from all that, just be normal and trust yourself, YOU, TRUST YOU, don't try, just be and assume you're good enough, trust yourself 

all that walking around trying to be nonreactive, trying to insult girls with a happy mood will do for you is get you blown out and cockblocked by guys who think you are a threat, then you can leave and protect your ego by saying YEAH!! STATE TRANSFER BRO, IF I INSULT THEM IN A HAPPY MOOD THEY SMILE AND GIGGLE A TAD BEFORE THEY BLOW ME OUT AND STOP TALKING TO ME!! really though, in ''trying'' to be non reactive, you are actually just reacting

you seem to be fairly upset with your friend, and within reason, you did not enjoy yourself as much due to his actions, but again... personal responsibility, you are focused really hard on the negatives here when you could have just sucked it up and created a solution for these problems to make the situation better for the both of you, your friend keeps cockblocking you, so first figure out why so you can create a solution,

why?

well, possibly he can't open his own sets, or maybe he feels that you are really cool and he is dependant on you to help him socialize and feels more comfortable being around, possibly the girls talking to you are more receptive maybe he feels insecure about that, how can you create a solution to this?, open a hottie for him, wing him, tell him to isolate, then go get into your own set, even if he is being negative and trying to fuck you over or bring you down a notch or two, LEAD, you go first, be the first to bring him up, be the first to say something good about him, be the first to introduce him to the hottest girl in a group, be the first to help him isolate and handle the obsticles, if you put him in a good mood and he is having a great time and see's that you are not only not a threat to him, but a great wing and benefit and are throwing at him, GUARENFUCKINGTEED unless he is completely socially retarded, he will take note and stop cock blocking, and start cock guiding, just like YOU DID FIRST, LEAD LEAD LEAD

now you might be sitting there all butthurt, thinking, NAH FUCK THAT, FRIEND BLAH BLAH BLAH, FUCKING HIS FAULT, BLAH BLAH, NOT ME, BLAH BLAH HE WAS THE DICK, why would I make his night better blah blah blah, IM the alpha, HE  SUCK UP TO ME BLAH BLAH, well, really you can let things happen and react to them after, or you can take some action and personal responsibility to lead, and make things better for yourself by being proactive and paying attention to how you can create better situations instead of getting upset when you allow things into your reality that you don't want

if girls are trying to close out sets and get away from you, or giving non compliance to escalation, or you are getting cockblocked or ''AMOG'D'' you are doing something wrong and missing something that you could be on top of, try to figure out what could be done better so that you don't have to approach 100 girls and then reflect on it in a negative way, make it better so your next post can be about how you approached 100 girls and fucked half of them and had an amazing time, and your friend was dressed like the monopoly man and you got him laid 5x and you guys flew away on a rainbow or some crazy shit

good luck in the future op
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