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December 7th, 2016
My first threesome; my experience and some thoughts on 'how to get there'
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Shade22

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So I experienced my first threesome last night! It was absolutely fantastic!

Just going to write some things down here that stand out for me in the development of this threesome during the night, to give you a perspective on the flow of it.

So I got a text from a bisexual girl (call her Z) who I've slept with about 3 times asking wether I was going to 'club X'. I said I might but it depended on some logistic things. She said I could crash at her place, I called some friends and went out. Because I already knew that the sweet juicy feeling of fresh, wet holeness was going to be inevitable, of course I was in full abundance the entire evening/night. While there I went into social momentum and got in state really quick, I had a blast!

Eventually she was in the club and she brought a female friend (call her Y). I met Y and we had a nice vibe going. I went physical right of the bat and she was receptive. We partied on the dancefloor and I was joking around physically, trying to get them to kiss. At this point I didn't have a clue yet that a threesome was a possibility, I just always like to do this with girls, especially if I know at least one is bisexual :P So I was just being authentic and having fun. I asked Y where she was going to crash tonight and she said Z told her she could crash at her place as well. At that point of course it entered my mind that the possibility of a threesome was present, but decided right away I wasn't going to aim for that because my aim was just having fun and I did not want to become outcome dependant. So I left the conversation about where she would crash at that and moved on to another convo subject.

As the night progressed Z and Y got more tipsy and started dancing with each other more and more. We went for a smoke and we were standing together when Z went outside to talk to some people, Y and I remained, physicality still going, the vibe and convo got more sexual and she acutally started to talk to me about threesomes; saying Z had experienced this before and asked if I had. She was clearly gauging/testing my congruence on threesomes. At this point the threesome entered my mind a second time and I knew that if this was going to happen tonight I had to get some balls and just go for it. I lied to her that I had one threesome before, that it wasn't that great though but that it is all about not being possessive, jealous and giving each other freedom and a fun sexual vibe to explore. It might have been inauthentic of me but I wanted to communicate that I would be relaxed about a threesome and make her feel more at ease with the idea of it. I started to notice that kissing Y was now becoming a definite reality. I watched a David program a few years back where Rick H talked about bisexuals and threesomes. I didn't remember all the specifics of it of course but what stood out in my mind the most was that I remembered he said it was all about getting a sexual thing going between the three of you and the getting the girls comfortable with that. Also, there had to be some level of sexual intimacy (at least kissing) in all directions; Z to Y, me to Z and me to Y.

I'm describing this now while looking back but during the night it didn't really happen on a thinking level; I didn't really think about it but it just came up as an intuitive feeling as to what I had to do. So I went for the kiss and we kissed a few seconds, then continued the conversation. Z came back and I lead them back to the dancefloor. We started dancing some more and Z and Y started getting more physical with each other by smooching each other more and eventually shortly kissing each other. After some minutes they went away together (and later I heard this was when Y told Z we had kissed, that she was sorry and if Z wanted me for herself she would back off). Z was up for the threesome just as much as I was probably, so she didn't mind at all and they came back to the dancefloor.

It was at this point I started to get more sexual with both of them. they danced together, I joined here and there. While wandering of shortly at other times to come back and dance again and have fun. This went on until finally we were standing in a triangle figure together, when Z and Y were dancing together. I went for the kiss with Y while cupping both of their delicious asses in both my hands. After that I immediately went for the kiss with Z. She 'insta-tested' me by backing of her head and while laughing saying something like: "Right, you think you can just..." I didn't care and just kept going and kissed Z. Then I gently but firmly moved my hands from their asses to the back of their heads and moved them closer together. Z and Y kissed. They both laughed and Z said something like: "Oh, he must really be feeling like a boss right now" to which I replied something like: "Yeah, you definitely called me out on that one" while blinking. This all happened right in the middle of the dancefloor and I have to admit it felt like being the lord of the club (my ego was probably also having a blast :P).

This really was the intro to the sexual vibe we shared with each other and from this point on I backed of a little bit and watched Z and Y get more and more turned on with each other. This threesome thing really sort of 'gets a life and flow of its own', but the thing is someone has to 'START the process' for it to 'blossom'. A lot of other guys were trying to get in on the party of course but they all got choded away. I noticed Z and Y were also talking a lot and I figured they were probably talking about this thing happening as well, so I came up to them and said to Y: "Hey, I like you but if you're not comfortable sleeping at Z's tonight, I don't mind and understand." This wasn't a tactic, this was me being real about it. I then decided to just have some more fun, talk to some other people there and keeping just a little bit of distance. I reckoned that there wasn't going to be a lot more that I could do at this point because we were in a club, and in the end it is also just going to depend on wether both girls are into and up for it (and in this situation it was probablt more about Y being up and into it) for a threesome to happen.

Eventually we went to her home and went inside the bedroom. I decided (because I kind of intuitively reckonized it was my job as the man) to get my confidence up and lead this thing in the direction I wanted it to go. I started to physically escalate with Y and Z was enjoying watching. I joked around a lot too (for the fun of it of course but it also had the benefit of releasing some of the tension surrounding this threesome) and they were laughing their asses of. They started undressing some more, got bare ass, decided to smoke a cigarette and sat on the bed, while leaning on the windowsill, out the window, with their asses towards me. Perfect opportunity to get this started of course so I sat behind them and started caressing their backs very lightly, moving up their necks and hair and massaged their shoulders a bit. I moved on too caress their asses. The thing to remember is that you have to turn them up equally and slowly. Of course this isn't a LAW but ideally you don't want one of them getting all hot and bothered and the other hanging way low in the arousal process. Also, let hem have time together as well, don't hog one or the other. They were enjoying it and it went pretty smoothly, also partly thanks to Z who was just really awesome in all of this, as well as Y opening up to the moment and the experience.

They finished their cigarettes and put them away. At this point I started kissing Y, after that kissed Z and all of a sudden Z and Y quite literally 'attacked' each other sexually :P I watched them for a few minutes but eventually I started to notice that this was losing it's 'threesomeness' and it was time for me to get back in there. So I did.
I could go on of course but suffice it to say we eventually all fucked the shit out of each other, it was glorious, very intimate and I don't think I'll ever forget it. During the threesome I'd say the most important thing is to divide your attention to them equally. You can't fuck them at the same time with just one dick of course, but you have two hands as well. So fuck one, finger the other. Eat one, get blown by the other. Do a double fingerbang attack while getting your balls soaking wet in their mouth; you get the picture ;). The thing is to stay very present to the moment and intuitively gauge both of their pleasure and arousal states. If you notice on getting down, move to that one and vice versa. Don't be selfish and give more (sexual value) than wanting to receive, this will come on it's own. Also, just be the MAN and LEAD the fucking threesome! Move them around, fold them onto your dick every which way possible and also lead them touching, kissing, fingerbanging, eating out each other. The finish was a nice tag team blowjob.

I hope this post has some value in it for you somewhere and if you ever happen to stumble into a similar situation your mind will intuitively remember this shizzle to help you get an awesome experience!
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InternationalLover

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 This story gave me an erection.
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wojtek180789

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Cool Bro, really well done.

I'll have to keep that in mind for the future

right now I'm a newbie when it comes to interacting with chicks in the clubs (all my life I f**** hated going out to the clubs). The only problem with me is the fact that I'm staring out, I'm going solo
and of course I just can't hit the state. BUt I'm trying to be patient and not react emotionally (which is one of my pitfalls in many interactions).

Cheers
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Shade22

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Thanks!

For the record; I don't consider myself an expert on threesomes all of a sudden, but this was just what I learned from it and what my perspective on it is :) Hope it helps someone out there some night!
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I really needed this post. I ended up in a hotel room with two LEGIT major city 9.5s tonight. I had spent an aggregate of over 8 hours with them over the course of tonight and saturday night (where I ended up at their hotel room as well). Both times I didn't have the balls to lead once I got in there. I was too afraid. They were so hot and icy. I kept up my cool guy frame and hoped they would make a move on me (as I write this, I realize how chode it is). Suffice it to say I didn't fuck either of them. I had to take more risks, which I was uncomfortable taking. And once I got back to their place, I had to MAN UP and LEAD.





Maybe next time.
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René

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Awesome write up!

Where are you located in The Netherlands?
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painbody

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Got Damn I'M JEALOUS dude, for me tho 1 girl 1guy 3some would be heavenly for me haha
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