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December 5th, 2016
The Fundamentals [A Question For Professionals]
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Cat

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I would love to know what you guys, who go out really regularly, and bang new hos have to say about.. the fundamentals.

 What are your "fundamentals"?

 How do you practice "your fundamentals"?  

 What do you focus on (in your behavior, thinking, emotions)?

 What is the best way to learn "your fundamentals"?  How would you explain your fundamentals and instruct someone else on how to use them?
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Matt281

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I'm sure other people will cover the standard stuff like eye contact, tonality, body language and talking man to woman. So I'll go over what I focus on, and what I think is the most fundamental thing to focus on when going out:

Try. Whenever you're out, make yourself try with the girls you really want. Like Tyler says, do something, do anything. And then try to make it work. Try to take it further. Try to kiss her. Try to have sex with her.

This is pretty much the only thing I hold in my mind when I'm out. It seems blatantly obvious, but I feel like the vast majority of guys don't do it. Maybe you approach, but you go for the ones you think might go well, or the ones that look easy. You aren't going after what you want, but rather, you're trying to execute a process that will someday make going after what you want seem easier.

When I first started this I sucked shit like you wouldn't believe. But I ALWAYS went for the girls I really wanted. Most of the time I failed miserably, but sometimes it worked. But there's no chance if you don't go for it.

So if I had to sum this up into a catchphrase for what I believe is the most important of the fundamentals, it would be this:

You don't need game to play.

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egotrippin

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Join Date: 06/30/2012 | Posts: 146

 I think the most important fundemental besides eye contact and tonality would be building momentum at the very begining of the night right away by hitting it up with no time in between appraoches - thats tough for me still sometimes but easily the most important thing you need to do to pimp it hard
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Phospher

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 Fundamentals for me:
ALWAYS APPROACH

If I am not in the mood, keep going, till it hooks, 
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NoGame™

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Being "cool and friendly." Being social. Having fun. Rather than being a "creepy" PU guy.

I practice them at least 2 - 3 times a week and am at the point where I'm creating strong attraction with women. For instance one girl in the Pub literally stood there playing with her hair, pulling it back, and telling her colleague that she felt a bit faint/dizzy. I've tried hinting that I'm interested however I think she's the kind of girl that won't contribute anything and a more direct approach will bring her out of her shell.

So yeah. Being cool and friendly is the best "frame" I've found after years in "The Community
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Rodrigo

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I focus on alex list... take iniciative (talk a lot), get physical, beat tests, and time is your ally (http://alexattitude.com/the-natural-instincts-method-field-guide-transfo...)

These're the real fundamentals!
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thecrochunter

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Cool and friendly
Dont give a fuck - irreverence.
Lead
Eye contact
Voice tone and volume
Role play ( its something i learnt early on - sets a stage for what ever emotions you want to start pumping into it)
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fukoutdawhey

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Strong Voice
Push/Pull

Lol, that's it.  Simple, but that's why it works.
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PerelAlon

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Nobody mentions "smile". Is it because it's not THAT important? Or is it because it's "assumed"?
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PerelAlon wrote:
Nobody mentions "smile". Is it because it's not THAT important? Or is it because it's "assumed"?
I think sincere/genuine smiles are good. However many guys do that "baseless smiling" that women do because they’re seeking approval.
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PerelAlon

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NoGame™ wrote:




PerelAlon wrote:
Nobody mentions "smile". Is it because it's not THAT important? Or is it because it's "assumed"?
I think sincere/genuine smiles are good. However many guys do that "baseless smiling" that women do because they’re seeking approval.
Hmmm, I mean like only for the approach itself. See, my biggest issue on bootcamp was l couldn't maintain a smile for the approach and Ozzy was like "Stop being the Russian Terminator, you are approaching them like you are about to murder them" haha ;).
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