THE FORUMS
Girls and "love"
If you love yourself than other girls will love you. The more you love yourself, the less love you need and the less needier you are. If you don't like this, than try hating yourself lol.
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I don't think i love myself a whole a lot, but I guess I don't actually need love from someone else, now that you mention it. I've been travelling on and off for over a year which has made me pretty independent. Maybe that's it, I don't need it and they can sense it. Too bad it ends up turning me off, making me want it even less argh
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Girls get much more hooked after sex. It happens a ton. A lot of girls will fuck by a day 2 but the sex does hit them harder because they're more emotional. Social conditioning has taught them that just fucking somebody is bad so they say "ok, I need to like him to validate my attraction". Just keep it going until they can't take it and go away.
Solution is to change your phone number. Takes about 15 minutes at the cell store lol.
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chiffonade | CITY OF ANGELS | CALIFORNIA | USA
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high_maintenance
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Join Date: 11/07/2010 | Posts: 541
I keep getting girls WAY too attached, it's driving me nuts. It feels like the less emotionally invested I am with them, the harder they fall for me. I'm not trying to blow my own trumpet - I genuinely don't understand it. I'm not anywhere near where I want to be as a person. I can think of one girl I hooked up with in the last couple of years who ended it with me, and that was after I turned into a needy mess. Any other time something has ended has been because I ended it or they ended it because I wasn't dedicated enough to them or whatever.
Does anyone else get this? Girls getting way too attached? Maybe I'm just attracting the wrong girls, or I'm giving off a very strong provider vibe or something. I know people always say they feel I'm very easy to talk to or they feel comfortable around me. Maybe that's not a good sign? Could it be a bi-product of having a lot of sexual experience? Maybe they rationalise the way they feel as love rather than competent banging.